We setup a date and day, I call she doesnt pick up. After I kinda start to ignore her, she brings it up how she just got my phone call one week later with some lame excuse. So when do you start ignoring a girl, no longer talk to her, and move on?
2007-03-05 16:26:01 · 25 answers · asked by SL1983 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHEN YOU JUST DON'T CARE OR WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH HER ANYMORE
2007-03-05 16:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you feel like it.
I wouldn't take that as a lame excuse. Give her another chance, and see if she was telling the truth. And if she turns out to be phony, or you simply dont have anything in common, then its time to break up with her.
By the way, "ignoring" is one of the worst things I think someone can do to someone. Its better to say that you like them and would like to go out again, or to tell them that you just dont think there is any chemistry between you two. Its alot easier to take the heat of dumping someone that the anger and spite that someone can build for you if you simply ignore them.
Also, you will get a rep with her friends for being an indecisive person whom isn't a good date if you leave her hanging via not giving her a definite answer.
2007-03-05 16:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Alex L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup, now is the time to start ignoring her. The only time you talk to her from now on is if she calls you and you answer the phone. If she calls and leaves a message you ignore that for a week and dont even bother making up an excuse. Just tell her you didnt feel like calling back yet.
2007-03-05 16:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if she did this to you more than one time, I can understand your harsh attitude. But is it really that serious, that you want to start ignoring her? You never really knows what goes on in peoples schedules. 1. You really must not be into her, if she did this for the first time. 2. Or, you may have a serious short tolerance for patience or a quick temper. Either way, reassess the situation and put yourself in her position. If you still feel as strongly about the situation as you do, and this happened more than one time, move on.
2007-03-05 16:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by Vivian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you find out if she is beign serious about not gettign your phoien call. But it sound sot me like she changed her mind and wasn't interested. Leave it be and move on. Dont dwell, if she didnt show up for the first date then that means she isnt worth it because she didnt think you were important enough to remember the first time around. Hope This Helps
2007-03-05 16:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by Katy R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe give her the benefit of the doubt for the first phone call. I know my mobile acts up from time to time and I don't get my messages straight away. Try once more if you like her, and if it happens again, move on.
2007-03-05 16:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by Panda 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WHOA!!! Wait a second now..........Just speak when you see her, you don't have to ignore her completely. Just know she ain't the ONE! Don't be over friendly or call anymore. Just be casual friends with the girl. It's OK to have another "JUST A FRIEND" girl. That way she won't have to make up crap and you don't have to always expect it every time you say hi !!!! You got the message right I think. Don't keep setting yourself up for a brush off! Your wasting that kind of precious time you could be spending with someone who wants to spend time with you. She could be just a Buddy. Don't fall for that YO YO action. keep it simple and know that in your head!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-05 16:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When your ten... after that you grow up and tell her next time she come with some lame excuse that you don't buy it. Tell you feel she is wasting your time and this either needs to change or you need to stop trying...
2007-03-05 16:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by debcat76135 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yehp. seems you are reading either the 'rules' or the 'double .. ' here it is: behave like everything is OK but on the next lame excuse just put it straight question 'what the heck she wants and i she going to behave like a good girl or you'll go look for someone who picks her phone' . it works brilliant.
2007-03-05 16:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i don't kno about this one. cause for one it's mean to ignore a girl. and two maybe she didn't get your call. so i think you should ask her out again. and if the same happens then its your sign to move on.
2007-03-05 16:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by sassysnrta 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When there's no more sex....lol!
If you think she's playing games- tell her. If she insists on wanting to feel like she's the most important part of your life, dump her- she's possessive!
2007-03-05 16:33:12 · answer #11 · answered by canguroargentino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋