I HAVE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR 4 YRS ALREADY. OVER THE PAST YRS WE HAVE GONE THRU SO MUCH DRAMA. WHEN I FIRST GOT WITH HIM THINGS WERE GOING GOOD, OR SO I THOUGHT. AFTER THE 1ST 7MONTHS HE TOLD ME HE HAD BEEN WITH SOMEONE ELSE THE ENTIRE TIME WE HAD BEEN TOGETHER SO I LET HIM GO. NOT TO LONG AFTER THAT HE CAME BACK TO ME AND I TOOK HIM BACK BECAUSE I WAS SURE THINGS WERE GOING TO WORK. WELL THE PAST KEPT COMING UP AND HE COULDNT HANDLE IT SO WE BROKE IT OFF. AGAIN NOT TO LONG AFTER THAT WE GOT BACK TOGETHER AND THINGS WERE GOING GOOD UNTIL I MOVED AWAY FOR A LITTLE WHILE. WE WOULD FIGHT AND ARGUE ALL THE TIME BUT SOMEHOW ALWAYS ENDED UP TOGETHER. WELL ONE DAY I "HAPPENED" TO COME ACROSS HIS EMAIL AND FOUND PICS OF HIM AND SOME FEMALE KISSING. I CONFRONTED HIM ABOUT IT AND ALL HE COULD SAY IS WHY ARE YOU GOING THRU MY STUFF. HE LATER APOLOGIZED FOR IT AND I TOOK HIM BACK. WELL ABOUT 3 WEEKS AGO I UNDERSTAND HE IS SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER GIRL BUT HE SWEARS HE LOVES ME. IM NOT TOO SURE
2007-03-05 16:50:18 · 19 answers · asked by Walking by faith 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow! Four years! Sounds like someone needs to take the blind fold off her eyes. I am guessing that you should be more concerned about where he is putting his stuff into. He may give you some disease if you do not watch out! That should be more of your concern! He obviously does not love you. When someone loves you they do not continue to hurt you. Seems like he knows you will not let go so why not have your cake and eat it too. He knows all he has to do is apologize seems to me. Well like they say......if they do it once they will do it again. It is easier the second time around.
You should visit the doctor!
You should visit him and say goodbye forever!
Cause if you have him you also have everyone else he has slept with too!
Think about that one!
2007-03-05 17:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by "J" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't say you dumb. Just not making a wise choice in men. Boot him to the corner and move on. He is a player. I heard a long time ago that if your in a relationship and you break up at least 3 times, it isn't going to work. I know you can do better than what your with. He is sleeping with someone else and just because he says he loves you that is good enough for you? No way. You deserve better.
2007-03-06 00:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by misstigeress 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I doubt very much that he loves you. If he did, then there would be no need for all these other girls. I never give guys a second chance when it comes to cheating. You're worth more than that. If they do it once then they'll do it over and over again because they know you'll take them back. I hope you were using protection because god knows how many other chicks 'you've' been sleeping with. I'd give him the flick. You deserve better.
2007-03-06 01:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him quick and say see ya as your doing it. Girl you have great potential to offer someone. You obviously dont need a loser like this guy. He says he loves you yet he is screwing around with another girl. Thats not love..that's him thinking he can keep you around since your the best he can ever get and sleep with girls on the side. The sad thing Is that these other girls probably dont even know about you or dont care. I wish you luck!
2007-03-06 01:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE DUMB AND YOU USE CAPS TOO MUCH. See? It causes headaches.
You're totally getting played. He cheated on you for the first 7 MONTHS of your relationship? Why did you take him back after that? Now he's f*cking some other girl and you're tolerating that? You're a sucker, he's totally playing you. Grow a spine, girl. Get some self-confidence while you're at it.
2007-03-06 00:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its simple & easy. Let him go! Don't you feel that you're just a spare to him? Pls. treasure your time. Since he's not going to respects you, why don't you respect yourself?
Start to show him that without his companion, you still live good, have other partners who are much, much more better than him. Make sure that when he calls, or trying to comes back, just ignore.
Give him a lesson. You have to plan a way out of it.
Try your best.
2007-03-06 01:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by lonely lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him..he is not worth it and you deserve so much better.
you've heard the saying..
"fool me once shame on you..fool me twice shame on me"
dont let this guy keep fooling you and hurting your feelings.
He has you for security because he knows you love him or have strong feeling for him..
but he is still a player and very imature..and think he cant get away with whatever he wants.
Dont let him anymore.
Dont be a part of his game..you've given him lots of chances..and things dont get better..the only person getting truly hurt here is you..and that is totally not fair .
2007-03-06 00:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going with dumb.
You can fix that by finding someone you actually trust. This guy seems not to be trusted or trustworthy for you.
2007-03-06 00:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl by the first time he cheated on you I would of dumped his ***. what an ***-hole once a cheater always a cheater. that is that you all are in a relationship just imagine when you all get married.
2007-03-06 01:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by VAIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you ask me i think he's just playing with you, i'm not an expert in relationships but can tell you that is best for you if you two take separate roads for good. Good luck.
2007-03-06 01:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by bravo20212000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋