There is a guy i really like. HE is so sweet, he is wonderful. WE have been talking for a while now and i think that we are ready to move on to something more serious. He is separated, but not divorced yet...i really wanna b with him. I asked him out today!!! HIS REACTION...he said yes but no. yes: he really like me! No: he wasnt divorced and i want him to b before anything happens. He said he would call back. This was @ 3 today....still has not called. Im sure he will...what should i do if he says no? Im gonna die..........
2007-03-05 16:41:04 · 10 answers · asked by maryj19_956 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hold your horses!!!!
Don't be so insistant on asking him out... If he said that he will call you back, then if he is a good guy, he will call you back eventually... Divorce can take a lot of energy out of people... It's very stressful.
Even though this might seem completely rediculous to you right now... wait about 4-5 days to call him back if he does not call you back right now... you don't want to sound desperate, you just want to sound interested.
Don't move things along too fast... just sit back and relax for a few days until you call him back
Good luck... hope everything goes fine for you
2007-03-05 16:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by make love not war 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time, a divorce is a rough thing to go thru and he needs time to deal with that and get his life straightened out before he jumps into another relationship. Be there for him as a friend and wait to see what develops. It sounds like he does care for you he just needs time.
2007-03-06 00:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him time..if he doesnt call you back today at all..just leave it...if he hasnt called back tomorrow morning/afternoon ..call him or leave a message saying that its ok if he doesnt want to go into anything serious..you thought it could work..but if his not ready..thats ok..you's to can still be friends (or whatever you to are) ..and tell him to get back to you.
you might have scared him off by saying what you did..so saying something like what i told you to say..should let him know that you are not forcing him into anything.
2007-03-06 00:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorces take a long time and they can be emotionally draining. Dating might not be high on his list of things to do right now. You might just have to bite the bullet and give him time and space.
2007-03-06 00:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm sounds like he needs time i would back off a little you could possibly be his rebound and feeling valnerable. Id not get too attached for a while until he comes to you.
Protect your heart you could get really hurt over this. Good luck
P.S dont call him let him call you but dont wait for him.
& you wont die trust me its just a phase
2007-03-06 00:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother if he's not divorced. Don't bother worrying about things you can't change, it does nothing but get you stressed out. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ASKING A GUY OUT, CAN PEOPLE STOP SAYING THERE IS.
2007-03-06 00:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he's wants to wait to start something new. then respect his wishes. If he's all that you say he is wait for him. don't pressure him or he'll run in the other direction.
It's the 21st century there is nothing wrong with asking guys out.
2007-03-06 00:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he have to be divorce to go out with you?
Just let him go out with you at his own pace.
2007-03-06 00:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by E A C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not getting divorced and you have been his fool. don't trust any man
2007-03-06 00:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by Tonya S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call him as ask him again...
2007-03-06 00:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by Sagar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋