would a shy guy ever ask the girl he likes out..or does she have to make the first move? ..and if she does..will he reject her cause his to shy to say yes or what?
2007-03-05 16:50:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well being shy myself and having this happen to me i would say yes and no. if he likes you he's just waiting for you to ask or waiting to build enough courage but you might wait too long for the latter. i doubt he would reject you because of his shyness as that would mostly play a part in him asking. unless she asked him while in front of a large group or an area where embarrassment is high. in other words, don't ask him if there is an audience as that is what he fears the most, being made a fool in front of others. not that if she asks him he thinks that it's foolish, but more that if she asks him in such a public setting he'd be more suspicious that it was a joke on him, setting him up to be the fool.
so bottom line, a shy guy probably wont ask unless you get really close to him and give him definite signs that you like him and wont laugh in his face if he asks.
2007-03-05 16:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Flabbergasted 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He probably not reject her... Shy person are the most gentle.
He probably will be nervous in the begin but not a asshole..you know..
I don't think we still have the thinking of the guy should make the first step... Today is just meet each other and etc...
Good Luck!
2007-03-05 16:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by lollol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost no matter how shy a guy is, if the girl who he likes asks HIM out, he'll say yes. That's like a once in a lifetime event for men. He'd be a fool to say no.
2007-03-05 16:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i shy guy will most definitely not deny a girl that asks him out.(if he likes her). he may need some encouragement to feel confident enough to ask the girl out. Such as spending more time with him and providing him with hints that you care about him. or you can always ask him out yourself. but he would not reject her beacuse hes shy that would never happen
2007-03-05 16:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by srgrod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a shy type of guy, and it is hard to ask out a girl you like. Hell, its even hard for me to talk to a girl thats fine, even if i dont know her. but no, i wouldnt be too shy to say yes.
2007-03-05 16:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should make a move if he is that shy. He may or may not reject you,who knows give it a try. I think he wil take up the offer.
2007-03-05 16:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by Ericqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy guys need girls to make the first move or at least show some interest...and if she does that he wont reject her especially if he likes her, once he's comfortable around here it should all be fine
2007-03-05 16:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by Matt M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how shy. Has he dropped hints that he likes you?
Dont "ask him out" if he is REALLY shy, just casually be more open with him, go do more formal things with him, and after a while, if he wants to be your girlfriend, he will tell you in a various manner or end up asking if you consider them dating. and if he doesnt ask after a while, ask him. Its an indirect way of asking him out so he doesnt freak out or anything
2007-03-05 16:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by Alex L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on how shy the guy is...if he is really shy he may never make a move
2007-03-05 16:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who the hell knows every situation is different, get out of your box, or let the shy guy in yours
2007-03-05 16:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by Goosh T 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋