i got my heart broken for the first time a little while ago and i am pretty much over it, though it still hurts, but sometimes something will remind me of her and i wanna talk to her... just to know how she is and stuff, but i can't. so what do i do at times like this?
2007-03-05 17:05:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been there too..The best thing to do is ..find other stuff to do. Theres always something there to remind us....but, you have to move on...The frrling of pain and loss takes a while to get over.But you have to move on..
2007-03-05 17:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by cesare214 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brother I know exactly how u feel! I am more or less in the same position but u know what i am in exact same position, thisis what i do, I ussually speak to her friend who telles me whats wrong with her and how she is, the thing with me is, after her elaving me i spoke to her and told her that i forgive ehr therefore we are not just like old bf and gf, we communicate sometimes, i even helped her with her new Bf yeah therefore whenever she feels bad or w/e she calls and we communicate, if u havent spoken to her after the break up and its been a while i am sure u can either sedn her e-mail sayiing hey there hi, i was just wonderign hwo u feel and if everything is ok wuth ya somehting short and nice, no long notes!!!! Or u could call her but if she has a bf she might flip out ocz he is near if he aint near she will be eager to talk to u i know coz she sa woman adn they are al curious!! if u have any other ideas let me know i know exactly what u feel man on all100
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2007-03-06 01:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by UmkaTheBear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Why make it hard on yourself? Don't reference everything in your life with her.. meaning, you should disassociate the internal thought wiring in your brain so that you stop thinking of her when you think of anything happy or sad. Just imagine yourself 10 years from now looking back, and saying, "Yeah, I felt something.. but wasn't that a very pathetic time for me after we broke up?"
Even though what you're feeling right now isn't pathetic, snap yourself out of it, because sometimes the misery you put yourself through (the sadness) feels good in a dark sick way, because it really evokes memories about her, but what good is that? Move on now, so that you can start enjoying relationships with other people again. Life should be lived!
2007-03-06 01:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by answerneil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant you?
im sure sending her a msg wouldnt hurt..just letting her know that you still care about her...more like friends now ..than an actual relationship.
But if you really cant do it... then you are obviously not over it...and it is still going to take time for things to stop reminding you of her..if ever..
just whenever u remember her just think " i wonder how she is...well im sure she's doing well" ..and leave the thought at that and concentrate on something else.
2007-03-06 01:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I complete understand I have felt like this my self. but I always think to my self hey if they have not called me or made a effort then why should I care. Life goes on and that what you need to realise once you find another person you forget about the other person.
2007-03-06 01:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by VAIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her up to say hi and see how she's doing. Nothing wrong with that. If she doesn't want to talk to you, she'll make it known pretty quickly.
2007-03-06 01:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think back before you and her were dating. What did you do? Do the same. Start by saying "hello"
2007-03-06 01:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by Nea'A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dislike girls
2007-03-06 01:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋