Singles & Dating - 25 February 2007

I have a great long distance relationship. I live in florida and she lives in arizona. We dont plan on visiting each other very often, even though my family lives there in arizona. We have terrific phone conversations every night. We laugh a lot. We dont have sex cause we live so far away. We talk about moving close to each other but neither of us want to do it because she wants to be close to family in Arizona and I want to stay in Florida. I dont want to lose her and she doesnt want to lose me emotionally. I feel that a long distant relationship is hard on my self esteem. Plus, we never talk dirty anymore. But, I need a real girlfriend here next to me. And she is living with a male(friend),they work didnt shifts and she spends a lot of time with her parents. She could be sleeping with him but she says no--they are just friends. Yet she always calls me and tells me where she is. She has precancer of the ovaries too. i care about her. Should I let her go or continue the relationship?

2007-02-25 18:01:57 · 11 answers · asked by usa_jcrew68 1

like, is kissing a bit too much, holding hands, holding each other.etc

2007-02-25 18:01:20 · 5 answers · asked by Candy 1

hey.
i`m a first year student. i fell in love with my friend`s sister. my friend knows about this. she is completing her Xth board exams on this march 2007. i thought of confessing my love for her earlier, but i did`nt because i thought she might get disturbed. can i express my love after her exams are over ?
she is a "SHY TYPE". she welcomes me to her house in the front door and gets in her room after saying a hi. i am unable to talk with her much. she feels shy talking to me but i do not know if she is feeling the same to talk with everyother guy. i love her so much. but i don`t have a single clue of what`s in her mind ! so, i need some advice on how to know if she loves me or not ? and first of all, if a Xth std girl can have love emotions ?
i`m waiting for answers from everyone of you especially from girls coz girls know much better about girls. can you help me out ?
love
friend

2007-02-25 18:01:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-25 18:00:40 · 3 answers · asked by alone in 6billion 1

When someone breaks your heart, first you are shocked. Someone will say that you are heartbroken and you will examine the words break and heart and heartbroken and you immediately decide that it's inaccurate. You feel pain in the region of your heart and you think it's your heart breaking but one's heart doesn't really break, something else does- Faith. You stop believing.

And what do you do next?....get an insurance?..oh holy crap?!

2007-02-25 18:00:21 · 9 answers · asked by Benj 1

Well this is complicated I like this girl met her on mxit{chat room} met her phyically about 8 month's ago. Took her out once met her family and stuff but she does'nt wana date because she got hurt by her ex. This is my problem I ask her out and she's most of the time busy we made plans for saturday night and she was suppose to canfirm but she never did I got angry and stuff, and she apologised as normal. this happened a couple of times I just want to know if i should pursue going after her??????? Cause im really begining to like her alot.

oh and we friends seeing if it leads to anything further

2007-02-25 17:58:01 · 4 answers · asked by clxgolf2 2

2007-02-25 17:55:57 · 5 answers · asked by samir c 2

Ok so i am 13 years old and a lot of girls like me, I've matured already but most of the other people my age haven't. I don't want to have a girlfriend because its just stupid middle school puppy love. All of my other friends have girlfriends and they are always like i love you to them but then 2 days later they break up and get another girlfriend in that same week and tell the new g/f i love u and all that other BS. All my friends are like c'mon get a girlfriend don't be a p*$*y but my point that is i'm not and i have absolutely no problem talking to girls and i am totally confident with myself and how i act twoards girls. am i just more mature then them? but honestly, whats the point of having a g/f at this age these girls are barely developed. i can see when im 15 or 16 but not now. who else agrees?

2007-02-25 17:55:49 · 17 answers · asked by DJ Vinny The Ginny 1

my previous boyfriend is good looking and rich and romantic (i liked it). but he so spoily and less experience in running a relationship. in the present, my boyfriend is a good looking but ordenary man. he so different with the previous. so mature but not romantic. sighz!

2007-02-25 17:55:28 · 12 answers · asked by EJ 2

While i was in the relationship, i was so sure i wanted to breakup. Now that it has actually happened, i question whether i did the right thing? Anyone ever feel this way after a breakup?

2007-02-25 17:55:24 · 7 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2

I didn't get a chance tu get a haircut this weekend, and now I'm going to class tomorrow with long hair. It's bad because I comb my hair 50's style.

2007-02-25 17:51:11 · 9 answers · asked by thewanderer862003 1

who is truly and sincerely wants to get to know me.

Guess what? I'm scared. Yep. Scared. Its funny, I don't know its game of what but the guy that I'm talking to now for about 2 weeks haven't asked for a booty call yet. Since I'm use to being lied to, I expect that everyone is like that too. Well I called him Saturday morning around 9:30. All sorts of thoughts were going on in my head. I was thinking he probably had some "company" and he cut his cell phone off. When dialed his number, his phone rung. Then I was thinking well he probably have his ringer off. So I was like I'll leave a message. On the 3rd ring I heard hello and good morning to you. I paused and said hey good morning to you too. I was going to leave you a message and he started laughing. Not only did I have my foot in my mouth I also had my ankle too. So to "save face" so to speak and I din't want to be wrong, I was thinking, well he probably just got home or the girl left earlier in the AM. It really shouldn't matter but I guess I'm trying to hard to protect myself. At any rate, I'm still somewhat in shock that I could be 100% wrong about him.

My question. Do men in general put in a lot time, work, and effort with a woman to get her to trust him just to have sex with her? Its a lot of women out there who'll give it up quick. So if a man is only after sex, how early will he make his move?

2007-02-25 17:51:08 · 6 answers · asked by gloried 3

So I just found out this guy I've been dating gets pretty rough while messing around. He left a mark on my lower lip and a small bruise on my thigh. Now I'm diggin it, so my question is is there something I can do with him to be on his "rough" level? Also have any of you guys been with a rough lover and if so what are some things I can expect?

2007-02-25 17:50:23 · 17 answers · asked by TheLight 5

from work early to spend one last night with him? I work 3rd shift and its almost 1am where I am. He will be getting home from his job in about an hour. It was a mutual agreement that he moves out. We love each other but have issues we cant seem to work out. Do you think it will be worse for me to leave work early to spend one last night with him, or am I prolonging the agony? My heart is breaking into a million pieces.

2007-02-25 17:49:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know what it is with me but people have been telling me that I should break up with my boyfriend. I have already but the problem is I just can't get him off my mind. I always end up calling him even though I shouldn't. I feel like I shouldn't because I know that he'll feel like he can get away with anything and that I need him. But I can't push myself to not call him. I'm always depressed because of him, he hurts me all the time and he doesn't even know it. How can I push myself not to call him and even love him? I just want to get out of love for Godsakes! There is also this guy who works with me that I'm starting to like a lot. He's hansome and also humorous. But, I don't know if I should involve myself with him because I don't want to get hurt again. I'm just tired of what I'm going through already with my ex. boyfriend, I don't feel like it should happen again. What should I do?

2007-02-25 17:48:24 · 9 answers · asked by MaoAce7 1

Alright so i just moved here and met a group of friends.. and one of them is a girl(sara).. and we were just friends i was attracted to her but didnt know if she felt anything towards me.

well anyways, one night were hanging out and this girl(brigida) i met a few days earlier text messages me and wants me to go ride around with her. and im like ohhh ****, i need to go meet up with this girl and become sober fast.

well the girl "sara" asks me the next day to take her to a movie, and shes like you should have ben honest with that girl and told her you drank that night, you should be honest blah blah..

i dont know if shes actually scolding me, or its some weird way shes just trying flirt.. or maybe she changed her mind about me and wants me to go out with "sara" instead.. because i already told her im not attracted to that girl.. but she still tells me i should be honest with her.

what do you think?

2007-02-25 17:47:06 · 1 answers · asked by geechi 1

2007-02-25 17:46:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have no idea why, because i personally think im kind. But you know how guys tease you sometimes? Well, sometimes the guys i know just cross the line with the teasing, like spreading rumors about me and what-not. Then i tell them to stop in a serious manner, and they tell me im being "mean" and "agressive". Am i doing something wrong..? I really dont like being perceived as a mean or agressive girl.

2007-02-25 17:46:01 · 7 answers · asked by Nise 2

i am 19 years old, both my ex boyfriend and my boyfriend now are 25...
i dated my ex when i was 16 he 22 we dated for 2 1/2 years, he was separated with his wife(he was supposed to be getting a divorce), and had 2 children... ( a long long long story) email me if you wanna get into that)...
needless to say we broke up...

now my current boyfriend is divorced..

here's the dilemma, why am i so upset about that fact that the current boyfriend was married, but i wasn't upset that the ex was?

2007-02-25 17:45:59 · 4 answers · asked by Pregnant with baby# 2!!! 4

2007-02-25 17:45:09 · 10 answers · asked by Shelly 1

girl no. 1 is from my school and she really doesnt knw how to treat me well. always dump me when she dun need me but treats me good when she need attention. but when she treats me well i fall for her.
another girl no. 2, i ve already told her tat i like her a little bit.. and she liked me too.. i seldom meet her.. but chatting with her gives a warm feeling.. i often feel happier with this girl... but i find tat i liked her more and more now man!!. =/
how to settle off? am i a player? i mean i have a girl in school tat i had a crush on but i didnt tell her i liked her bfore and i dun plan to tell her anyway. but i chase for her last time. and now i tell another girl i liked her. am i stupid? or am i confuse with my feelings?? i dun really like the girl no.1 coz she used me at times. duh! hating her when my frens keep on telling me tat she used me. i dunno if i really like girl now coz we dun see each other alot oni sms and calls. she asked me to wait for her till her exams r over.

2007-02-25 17:44:12 · 7 answers · asked by WM 2

I'm a lesbian in love with another woman who claims to be FIRM on being straight. However, she has told me that if she knew another woman was attracted to her, she'd accept it. If she had the same feelings in return for the other woman, she'd pursue her. The thing is, since she was FIRM on being straight, but also said she's open to a same sex relationship, but doubts it will ever happen, do you think I should try to pursue her? She don't even know that I'm in love with her...Thanks!

2007-02-25 17:44:04 · 6 answers · asked by sugarbear 1

when a lady i have no "man-woman" relationship with will try to read over my shoulder while i am reding, or working on the computer. when she does this her breasts fall upon my shoulder, making me very uncomfortable. how do i politely inform them to remove thereselves?

2007-02-25 17:43:48 · 13 answers · asked by ricie 2

Well not actually sight..i heard a voice and i was like when i get there i wanna get to kno him and when we 1st met i was sick so wasnt tryin to get with him but i noticed everytime i looked up he was lookin at me then a few days later he finally kissed me...then later on one day we were having a conversation and he looked at my hand took my ring off my middle finger and put it on my ring finger and said til death do us part...everything was going great until 1day i said when my people move im going back home and he stoped coming around as much...and for a while he would come over a few times and we could tell all the feelings were still there...so he came over recently and he knows were not moving anymore so before he left that last time he kissed me...do you think i should follow my heart or do wat my mind says...I asked God if it was meant for him and I to be together then plz give me a sign a few days later i was tole we weren't moving i prayed again and dreamt about him that night

2007-02-25 17:43:30 · 5 answers · asked by T.T 2

I feel i am physically losing my attraction for her... Is there a way to get it back?

2007-02-25 17:43:12 · 9 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2

I have been working with this guy for a couple of months now. And just here recently he has started hanging out with me on breaks. He sits next to me, we eat lunch together, and we talk about past relationships, etc. Well one day I was telling him about some problems that my boyfriend and I have been having, and he told me that I needed to break up with him because he was no good for me. I don't know but I think the guy I work with may have a crush on me. Can anyone help me out with this one?

2007-02-25 17:43:11 · 5 answers · asked by djsbabygirl2005 2

Why do people cheat and play around to make an X jealous? Why do people cheat and then want forgiveness from the person they set out to hurt? Why oh Why?
Why do people need to know how can they fix something, THEY broke?
Why are humans so distructive towards others? and themselves?
Why cant you get it through your head, he/she might not like you? Why dont you understand YOU cant make someone like you?

2007-02-25 17:38:16 · 3 answers · asked by disturbedxxcalmness 3

Some guidelines :)

2007-02-25 17:38:01 · 3 answers · asked by Sticky 2

After the waiter takes our drink order, my boyfriend will ask me what I am going to order. I tell him, but when the waiter returns my boyfriend orders for me. I asked him why he always does that, and he replied "I just do." Is this normal?

2007-02-25 17:36:32 · 17 answers · asked by Happy Health Coach 1

2007-02-25 17:36:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous