I'm a lesbian in love with another woman who claims to be FIRM on being straight. However, she has told me that if she knew another woman was attracted to her, she'd accept it. If she had the same feelings in return for the other woman, she'd pursue her. The thing is, since she was FIRM on being straight, but also said she's open to a same sex relationship, but doubts it will ever happen, do you think I should try to pursue her? She don't even know that I'm in love with her...Thanks!
2007-02-25 17:44:04 · 6 answers · asked by sugarbear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, I should add that if I was in a relationship with her, it would be a long distance relationship because she's Canadian!
2007-02-25 17:51:03 · update #1
Either she's firm on being straight, she's questioning, or she's bi-curious. If you're really in love with her, bi-curiosity isn't worth your time. It's just a tease for you, and only IF she wanted you to be her experiment. Questioning is still risky for you if your emotions are really invested in her. And of course if she really is straight, you know what the outcome is.
I don't know what you should do next because I don't know if she's aware that you're a lesbian and I can't say whether she'd be interested. The only thing I could think to do is be really direct with her and tell her you're attracted to her. If there's any chance in hell, your confession might turn her on. If there's no chance in hell, you'll figure out by putting it out there. It takes some guts, but I think it's worth it for you to know.
2007-02-25 17:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live with 2gay women,,I am man, in the glamorous world of male modeling,and I see that say one thing do another is live a kicking!!
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they often say one thing and do the other or do one thing but say the other.. sometime they do something totally different that they said they would almost never do but maybe once or not at so...... get my drift..
a woman's heart can be a deep ocean of fickleness...
Like this time Paris came over with Britney.. and Britney was all flashing her cooch..(ewwww) I hade to put her out with the cats, and then Paris was life ok now we can have some fun, but I want brit to watch,so can she come in?? NO!
so we put some coke...a~Cola by the window and left it open enough so she could crawl throw.. so she would come sit by it and watch us.. ..do model stuff... well i guess you had to bee there, but they both changed their minds about 5 times before Ihad to kick them out . I had a shoot in the morning!
I hope this helped cupcake!
2007-02-26 01:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by Derrick Zooolander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tread lightly in this direction. If she doesn't want to be open and honest with what her feeling are and is trying to deny them, then you may get hurt in the long run.
2007-02-26 01:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by frogs4327 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, worth a shot. And she said she was open.
2007-02-26 01:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by BED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that she doesn't know how you feel. You lover her? Then you have to tell her. She may melt in your arms.
2007-02-26 01:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw it man... go for it.. ur the man!
2007-02-26 02:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by WM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋