Singles & Dating - 25 February 2007

one day after being tog for a yr he sends me a text message on my handphone that was meant for another girl..saying that he loved her. i was crushed and to cut the long story short, whe admitted he had feelings for another girl, and also for me - he was confused. I was angry with this girl coz she had no integrity- she had a bf too and her bf had cheated on her, and she had feelings for my bf. so for a month or so (they are colleagues) they had harvested feelings for one another without me knowing..and many times i suspected something was wrong (he was colder to me) and yet he never talked about him being unhappy with me. The problem is,i loved him very much and i thought all his unhappiness were just misunderstandings and swayed becos of his feelings for that girl,so i fought for us and in the end he decided to be with me.We've been better after but now i still find it hard to trust him at times and sometimes i dontknow if he will do it again. Is once cheater, always a cheater true?

2007-02-25 02:29:38 · 9 answers · asked by rainbowcello 1

He gets through an awful lot of penut butter and he has a dog. I don't know if i am reading too much into this but the dog always follows him to the toilet and smells of penut butter when it comes out and my uncle always seems very realxed. what should i do. The dog seems happy.???

2007-02-25 02:29:13 · 21 answers · asked by Bailey P 2

u can't tell than unless u know he is good looking and very fit,so why only when people find out the difference they become so judgemental................27/43

2007-02-25 02:29:11 · 11 answers · asked by tiptop 1

I've liked this guy for over a year now but haven't asked him out because of the big age difference. He's soooo hot!!!! but I feel like soo guilty everytime i think about him because i'm going out with someone at the time. Will this ever pass?????? I mean I've had this crush for over a year and everytime I think it's gone i see him again and it all comes back to me. Is this just some minor crush????? What should i do???????????????

2007-02-25 02:27:08 · 8 answers · asked by *Guitar_playing_girl* 2

Most of my friends have girlfriends. I don't have a girlfriend. I want to find my true love already. The main problem is this, I don't have a majority amount of female friends. Nor even I have close female friends. How can I overcome this? I tried to talk to new people but they still think I am a stranger. I ask them about their day and their weekend and etc. They only answer me because they are being nice, weren't interested in being friends. Anyone help please? I really really want to find my true love already.

2007-02-25 02:23:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dog loves to sleep with me?

2007-02-25 02:22:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been attached to my guy for 2 months and a half..and during these time,we have never fought,we live far from each other and rarely meet,maybe like,once a week,and he always called me at night,we talk and talk,about everything,but now,he rarely or never calls me anymore for long chats,and when i go out with him,i confronted him,and he said,he was thinking abt me,he knew i always am late for sch,and he didn't want to chat with me in the night coz it make me go to bed very late at night.I accepted the reason but now,i feel like kinda 'nothing' with him, now,we never chat on e phone anymore,or he only calls me by his hp only for a short while,we do message sometimes,and is always calling each other affectionate words..but i feel like he's drifting away from me,i never get to tell him what happens today or yesterday like last time,even if i want to tell him when we met,the news is already days old.and he's is close to his family,really close sometimes i feel like i'm being put aside.

2007-02-25 02:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by rose etoiles 3

signs to tell a boy u wanna hold his hand..... i need help.. me and my best friend... PLEASE! ANY ANWSERS WILL HELP!

2007-02-25 02:19:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met his person over the Internet, and we saw once in person. He looks nice BUT he invited over to a hot tub place...
Am I over reacting when I worry or this is just a "normal" date/place to go to?

2007-02-25 02:18:44 · 9 answers · asked by Isabelle06 4

I have a lot to deal with, i like this boy and he is cute but he said he will only like me if i act less tough, wear more blue, and act more girly- girl. What should i do people i want honest answers only.

2007-02-25 02:18:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think there should be online chat room's? If you really think about it your really talking to a stranger but only it's worse cuz you dont know what they look like think about that. So do you think it sho-
uld be?

2007-02-25 02:16:53 · 5 answers · asked by ian k 2

Do you think there should be online chat room's? If you really think about it your really talking to a stranger but only it's worse cuz you dont know what they look like think about that. So do you think it sho-
uld be?

2007-02-25 02:16:39 · 14 answers · asked by ian k 2

Do you think there should be online chat room's? If you really think about it your really talking to a stranger but only it's worse cuz you dont know what they look like think about that. So do you think it sho-
uld be?

2007-02-25 02:16:21 · 4 answers · asked by ian k 2

Yesterday i saw an add i thought to myself she is hot! I never thought that about a girl before but if i was in a room full of guys i would get all shy but still try to impress them and i do like a guy at the moment and i saw him yesterday and my legs went week but then i came across a picture of two girls kissing and it kind of turned me on? What do you think?

2007-02-25 02:16:03 · 26 answers · asked by angelicdeviltwo 1

I'm 48 and she's 46. I have 3 kids 22,21,and 16. She has 2 kids 14, and 11. We've been going out for a little over 4 months. This was the first time that either one of us had told each other that we loved them. We were laying there in each others arms and I told her that I had fallen in love with her. She then said what are the right words. That's when I said I love you and she told me she loved me. We had just spend the morning and afternoon decorating her house. She called me on my way home from her house, said she would call later. Didn't call that night at all. Next day no e-mails either, we always did an e-mail in the morning. Tried to call her a couple of times. No answer. She called me later in the afternoon and said that she thought it best if we broke up now. Something didn't feel right. I just don't get it!!! How can you tell someone you love them and then 24 hours or sooner say you don't want to see them anymore. What happened. I just want to know why???? Thanks for listning

2007-02-25 02:15:35 · 8 answers · asked by whatdoidonow48 1

Do you think there should be online chat room's? If you really think about it your really talking to a stranger but only it's worse cuz you dont know what they look like think about that. So do you think it sho-
uld be?

2007-02-25 02:14:31 · 4 answers · asked by ian k 2

its not that i'm ugly give me some tips laides . to save humanaty

2007-02-25 02:13:11 · 7 answers · asked by polo the beleveabull 1

2007-02-25 02:11:31 · 7 answers · asked by Reo 5

whenever i am cuddling with my boyfriend, i like to say that he is beautiful.. because he seriously is... but .. beautiful is something that you kinda say to a girl not a guy. So what other words can i use thats as sweet as beautiful?

2007-02-25 02:10:54 · 13 answers · asked by answer! this 3

2007-02-25 02:07:39 · 9 answers · asked by jlo 1

how do you get a bf? and after you have been dating him for a long time when do you make out??

2007-02-25 02:06:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-25 02:04:54 · 9 answers · asked by P Ni Ka 3

hi guys, I'm a girl. I need your opinions please!

okay what would you say or how would you feel if your gf and your bestfriend(guy) are hanging out more then you and her are hanging out? like if you knew they were going over to your house into your bedroom when you were working or at school adn your mom or dad dont trust them.. what would you do? oh! and by the way I'm not the one who is doing that.. I am talking about someone I know whom I hate! BUT YEAH.. WHAT WOULD BE YOUR FIRST INSTINCT?

2007-02-25 02:03:55 · 5 answers · asked by off_road_chick_9219 2

I split wit the love of my life 5 months ago,we were really in love. She dumped me cus she thought i didnt trust her cus of a message she got,it was sent by my sis but i took the blame cus of family probs in r house. I near died wit a wee prob and my mum had a cancer scare. She was upset i didnt tell the truth. She went in2 depression wen we split. I wanted 2 tell her but she wudnt speak 2 me, she emailed me recently,shes wit a new guy,she told me she likes him but not in love yet,she still loves me and always will. She said she cant go bak 2 me cus she wont trust me after this but wants me as a friend. Wat do i do cus i really love her,id rather b died than live witout her, i know i can win her trust round,quite quickly,please help me guys. Ive 2 emil her bak any tips????

2007-02-25 02:02:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does it matter who shows the most affection in a relationship? When I'm out in public, and I see a couple that is very affectionate, it seems like it more on the female side than the male. I've seen women hugging and kissing all over guys and the men showing minimal affection back. I'm far more affectionate in my relationship with my girlfriend than she is with me. If I don't push for a real passionate kiss, then we may go for weeks with just pecks. If a man is more affectionate in a relationship than the woman, is that a bad side? Is he being to soft and over time doomed to become less and less attractive to his partner? Are the roles reversed? Should I be concerned?

2007-02-25 02:02:23 · 5 answers · asked by Northstarr 1

big dilemma concerning men...
1st guy - my ex who still likes me etc...i'm not sure if i still like him - he lives 3 hours away from me now, we broke up first time because of distance, he's 19 (as am I)
2nd guy - lives in my halls of residence at uni (i'm in my 2nd year, so is he) he's 23, we've kissed on nights out...and recently just in the day while sober etc...

my ex is coming to visit in 3 weeks...what should I do???

2007-02-25 02:01:17 · 9 answers · asked by northukstudent 3

imy friend says i like this guy who i must admit i have been growing close to. She insists i like him becaue evrytime he signs on AIM i get excited. its the little stuff like that. i dont want to like him because im always getting hurt, not to mention he has a gf he seems to really like. my question is how do i know if i really like him and how can i get over him? i like being friends and dont want to ruin it.

2007-02-25 01:58:59 · 13 answers · asked by simplicity 2

my bf loves me alot n i love him too, he says i fight a lot , may be i do it to some extent but i easy get over it within hours n then i m normal but he says i need to change this mood swings of mine cause it may be a serious prob some day , he asks me to change ,i wonder how do i deal with this, my bf does not like me or wat that he is asking me to change?n shuld i change? or shuld i let my ego come in the way? plz help?plzzzzzzz

2007-02-25 01:58:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I need some advice. I just met the prettiest little thing from South Africa! I winked at her and she winked at me! She is 25 years old and only 3'3" tall, but she is absolutely adorable! Wow is she one pretty little thing. I am only 5'4" so I kind of would like a small girl. Is this for real or is this just a scam. I don't know how we would ever meet, but I got the biggest crush on her. Is this too good to be true?

2007-02-25 01:57:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

It only takes my b/f like 3-5 minutes to recover from an orgasm.
Is that good or too long??

He says when he looks at me laying there next to him it helps. what else can I do??
he was a virgin

2007-02-25 01:53:05 · 14 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3