I have been attached to my guy for 2 months and a half..and during these time,we have never fought,we live far from each other and rarely meet,maybe like,once a week,and he always called me at night,we talk and talk,about everything,but now,he rarely or never calls me anymore for long chats,and when i go out with him,i confronted him,and he said,he was thinking abt me,he knew i always am late for sch,and he didn't want to chat with me in the night coz it make me go to bed very late at night.I accepted the reason but now,i feel like kinda 'nothing' with him, now,we never chat on e phone anymore,or he only calls me by his hp only for a short while,we do message sometimes,and is always calling each other affectionate words..but i feel like he's drifting away from me,i never get to tell him what happens today or yesterday like last time,even if i want to tell him when we met,the news is already days old.and he's is close to his family,really close sometimes i feel like i'm being put aside.
2007-02-25 02:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by rose etoiles 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call him next time you want to chat. You should do what your heart tells you will keep you emotionally close. If he rebuffs your emotional advances, than perhaps he has moved on and it may be time for you to do the same.
Have you explained your feelings of separation to him? You must let him know how you feel and give him an opportunity o rectify the situation. Once you tell him and he knows how you feel and there is no change in his behavior, then he is drifting away and you should move on. If he does not know how you feel and that his actions (or lack of) is hurting you, than you can't blame him for his ignorance.
Open lines of communication are key, and honesty will keep you both on the same page. Wouldn't you rather he be honest with you and tell you he is moving on, than to drag you along wondering what is happening?
Take a stand and make your position heard. Good luck, and I wish you two the best!
2007-02-25 02:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by njsnowrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romance is an evening mood and if he;s avoiding you when night comes around and you miss him most, then hes probably cheating on you.
sounds like you have a big heart. you can find another guy who will have time for you. dont let his excuses eat you up. Ask him without being too rude if "your wasting your time with him". if he gets mad, then hes hiding something.
If not, then yu'll just have to be patient but let him know how you feel
2007-02-25 02:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this has been going on for awhile then dump him, but if this is new then arrange a romantic date to try and see if you really are over him. I thought I was over my bf but it turns out that I was still in love with him. So don't act too quickly, or you will regret it.
2007-02-25 02:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by Katerina Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him maybe he needs a break for a while.Confront him about your feelings if he is a good boyfriend he would listen. He might feel you are to attached to him, dont let it hurt you maybe he just needs time. If he doesnt understand, i think dump him
2007-02-25 02:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by lils 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dump him and find a local boy.
2007-02-25 02:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes in short it is drifting away and maybe because of his family.Just wait and watch.
2007-02-25 02:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it mite be ur going in different ways it happens, people change,plus its not like u see him all the time...
2007-02-25 02:26:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2007-02-25 02:30:40 · answer #8 · answered by Daft Punker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he doesn't love you. that is why, i say you dump him
2007-02-25 02:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋