I have a lot to deal with, i like this boy and he is cute but he said he will only like me if i act less tough, wear more blue, and act more girly- girl. What should i do people i want honest answers only.
2007-02-25 02:18:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really like this boy he is Mexican, i speak 4 kinds of Spanish. And he wants me to change. I don't know what i should do, so somebody please help me. honest answers only people. Well Peace.
2007-02-25 02:32:30 · update #1
OK HERE ARE SOME MORE DETAILS, I AM IN 5th GRADE AND I REALLY LIKE THIS BOY AND I WANT TO GO OUT WITH HIM AND HAVE A GOOD TIME. IF YOU WANT TO ANSWER MY QUESTION GO AHEAD, BUT I WANT HONEST ANSWERS ONLY. SO LIVE A LITTLE AND HELP ME. PLEASE.
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2007-02-25 05:59:36 · update #2
Find someone else! There's plenty of guys that will love you for you!
2007-02-25 02:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be yourself sweetie, whatever that is, never try to reinvent yourself for a man or anyone else. It won't work. Now if he sees a side of you that you maybe try to keep hidden, which is less tough and more girly girly, then that's a different story. You need to search yourself and decide who you are and be that for yourself, and then you will find the man you are supposed to be with.
2007-02-25 10:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by Polly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a young lady and you should not even be worried about that young man as much. it is okay to like him and go out, be he wants you to change, you should only change for yourself, not him or anybody else. if he dont like you the way you are then he dont deserve you. youre better then that, remember youre a young lady and they will be a lot of more boy/men in the sea.
2007-03-05 09:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by soto_a81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first, dont act tough because the guy aalways wants to make the girl feel protected, not vise versa. second guys lik girly girly, so do it. third, i dont know why the **** he wants you to wear more blue. as a joke you should wear green on your first date.
2007-03-05 10:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by chris G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boy sounds like an immature dork. Any guy that would want you to change in order for him to like you is a loser. His expectations sound child like, so i am guessing you are still in grade school. No real guy is going to ask you to change for him. If he likes you, he likes you for who you are when he meets you and gets to know you. Don't change your ways for a guy. Be yourself, and trust me, you will meet someone who likes you for you...and if you like him, he'll be cute in your eyes.
2007-02-25 10:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by snowflake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he doesn't like you for who you are. Don't change for anyone other than yourself. Even though you think you like him now, you'll find out eventually that you don't like him trying to change you into something that you're not. Better to just let him be and look for someone who likes you as you are.
2007-02-25 10:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by Bobbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone that loves you for who you are.
do you love who you are now? then find someone that can appreciate you.
do YOU think you need to act less tough, wear more blue and act girl girl? if not, then you know what to do.
2007-02-25 10:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you should be yourself and if that boy doesnt lke you for who you are he is trying to change you . if you are comfortable with yourself so be it. if he is alreay telling you what to do that is not good for you may loose your own identity and become someone you are not . be your own person .there are lots of other boys who will accept you for you. sounds like he is controlling.
2007-02-25 10:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by freeflow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear more blue? what the eff is this guy on? ...he's acting like a child... he's trying to change you into somebody you're not. forget about him!
2007-02-25 10:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by answer! this 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do what is comfortable to you,do not change for someone. If he is asking you to change right now what wil lhe do in a month, what will he want changed then?
2007-02-25 10:23:00 · answer #10 · answered by texbamsc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋