big dilemma concerning men...
1st guy - my ex who still likes me etc...i'm not sure if i still like him - he lives 3 hours away from me now, we broke up first time because of distance, he's 19 (as am I)
2nd guy - lives in my halls of residence at uni (i'm in my 2nd year, so is he) he's 23, we've kissed on nights out...and recently just in the day while sober etc...
my ex is coming to visit in 3 weeks...what should I do???
2007-02-25 02:01:17 · 9 answers · asked by northukstudent 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also i think my ex has got the wrong end of the stick by me saying he can come and see me..i think he may be under the impression we're getting back together anyway
2007-02-25 02:11:35 · update #1
they will both see eachother when my ex comes to visit, as i live in the same halls of residence as guy number 2....there is no way of keeping them separate..also a night out is planned so they will both be there
2007-02-25 02:13:06 · update #2
kiss him too
2007-02-25 02:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still friends with bf number one and not engaged or married to bf number two, tell number two that you will be busy on the day that boyfriend number one plans to visit and may be busy for a couple of days after that. Also tell him you will call him when you are free. He has no right to ask why. If he suspects that you are seeing another guy, so what? There are only two kinds of people to have friends with, male and female.
2007-02-25 10:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by Yafooey! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if guy #2 is informed ahead of time, there shouldnt be a problem because you havent said it is official yet or not.. but also tell your EX he is still an EX and you wanna move on.
2007-02-25 10:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would see if you still have feelings for your ex and if you don't date the other guy.
2007-02-25 10:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
send guy number one back the way he came. Or let him arrive and make the most of two guys chasing you.. There are years ahead where no one will chase you.
2007-02-25 10:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by grindham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a way to tell him you aren't interested or find a way to have him cancel the trip. Huge lab assignment coming up and you don't have time for him right now. something like that.
2007-02-25 10:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put the ex off until you are completely sure of your feelings, it would be very unfair to give him false hopes by allowing him to come up and see you.
2007-02-25 10:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by quornandwafflesagain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your ex that you are seeing someone and that you invited him as a friend before he come to see you
2007-02-25 10:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
taste them all since you like to
2007-02-25 10:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋