I met his person over the Internet, and we saw once in person. He looks nice BUT he invited over to a hot tub place...
Am I over reacting when I worry or this is just a "normal" date/place to go to?
2007-02-25 02:18:44 · 9 answers · asked by Isabelle06 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn;t have a hot tub at his house according to him, so he suggested this public place in a city between mine and his... Do you think it sounds too childich to tell him I'm afraid and want to take someone with me? (friend)
2007-02-25 02:25:18 · update #1
We went to lunch yesterday, so wants to go to lunch again, but the idea of the hot tub seems interesting to him...I personally would like the experience but don;t feel totally convinced
2007-02-25 02:29:31 · update #2
Bringing a friend alongwith you is NOT the way for adults to date. If you hate or feel uncomfortable with the hot tub idea, I suggest you talk to him about it & see if you can choose a more common place.
2007-02-25 02:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hot tub is NOT a normal first date. He wants to get laid. I bet if you suggest dinner and a movie he will try to convince you the hot tub is a better idea.
A hot tub is not a normal 2nd date. Sorry. But trust your instincts. Sounds like you don't dig the idea. And if you feel the need to bring a friend along then you definitely don't feel comfortable.
2007-02-25 02:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful...this sounds like it could get out of hand very quickly. I'm not a prude by any means, and I love hot tubs (I have no problem with being naked in them, whether alone or with others), but I've never heard of a public hot tub place, unless it's a spa that has such facilities. It's not like you'll be getting naked with him, but it still raises some concerns about where he might be taking this.
2007-02-26 04:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by nudie chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would be concerned, as you will be dressed a little bit compromised. Is this normal for a first date? Yea, is this person looking for one thing only? Really, really, be careful your safety is up most important. Is this hot tub place where there will be a lot of others? Open area with staff?
2007-02-25 02:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard of a public "hot tub place" but if that's what it is then ok. The fact that you are even questioning it, shows that you are uncomfortable. I would tell him that you are uncomfortable and can you meet somewhere else. If he disagrees then he's not worth it anyway. Shame on him. :P
Good luck and have a great day!
*PINK ELLIE*
2007-02-25 02:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, where is the hot tub place. If it's at his place I wouldn't go but if it's elsewhere like a remotely public place then fine. If you really like him then try to convince him to go somewhere else, if you're not comfortable.
2007-02-25 02:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by Katerina Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a warm bathtub place someplace in l. a., yet that became years in the past. have you ever finished a google seek? And dude, pay attention for herpes. i'm no longer kidding. continually sit down on a towel, ideally one you deliver your self.
2016-11-25 22:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a great first date place. Tell him you'd rather not, he will either be very sorry he made you uncomfortable or he is a sleaze.
2007-02-25 02:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by jazzman6812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don't go there, it is wierd.
2007-02-25 02:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋