Singles & Dating - 22 February 2007

hey all so...i work at tesco and have done for agessss.i met this guy,a customer,we went out as mates for a wee while and got on really well.the other week he took me out and we held hands and ended up kissing.i came home feeling all warm inside and wanted more than friendship.until i found out about his 'secret' girlfriend.I emailed him saying he was cheating and he has since sent me a load of abuse.Calling me names and saying i'm easy,when i have only had sex ONCE in my life.Is that easy???
But i find myself so bloody angry yet still missing his friendship,i dont understand.

2007-02-22 06:15:43 · 24 answers · asked by Jessica D 1

2007-02-22 06:15:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my gf tells me she needs "some time alone to solve some problems" (not related to me). But yet today it was clear to me that she wanted me back. I also learned that she went out to this guys house to drink, without even telling me (I learned from a friend). I mean I really love her and trust her completely (and atleast she shows that she loves me). But I am confused because she has plans saturday night to go drinking again, and she never told me about yesterday.

A few minutes ago I sent her a txt that basically said "I didnt want to make a big deal out of it, I think its fine that she goes out with "guy" friends because I have that much trust in her, but also said that I hope when she says she loves me that it is authentic. (Cuz I love her and dont want her to say that when its not true! and hurt me)

Was it the right idea for me to send that txt!! or should I jus have let it go on like this?

2007-02-22 06:15:03 · 2 answers · asked by vincy015 1

2007-02-22 06:14:31 · 14 answers · asked by Soso 1

My b/f goes to another skewl and i think hes cheating on me!!

2007-02-22 06:14:13 · 7 answers · asked by Michigan hottay 1

Ok so I was with this guy for 2 yrs and 4 months we broke up and it has been 6 months but we are back together now , during this time i meat a guy he is really nice and sweet . Today my bf was supost to meet me on msn at 6 it is now 8 and he isnt here . This guy i meat is here on msn and is askin me 2 go to his but i know if i go i will end up doing something i will regret we dated for a while . I am so confused i dont know what to do . My bf never cheated on me but at the moment i dont know what to think , My bf leaft his gf for me he was with her for only 1 month and hardly saw her . I dont know if he would cheat on me or not ( he may have i dnt know lots of girlz r into him )im really confused please help me please???????????

2007-02-22 06:13:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't think that he can keep his hands on me. I think bein talk to her for about a month. He have bein the same went he around me. I don't no why b/c I love him. He mit just think I'm f*** with my exboyfriend. What should I do about that. Went I see him he don't really have nothing for me ........ I wish that I no why b/c I wount to no how true that is .

2007-02-22 06:12:19 · 6 answers · asked by kmoney 1

I know it's different for everyone, just want to see what other people like to do to get in the mood. See if i would like to try some of them with my wife.

2007-02-22 06:11:50 · 7 answers · asked by streetgen 2

2007-02-22 06:11:39 · 17 answers · asked by blaquespice78 1

met my boyfriend over a year and a half ago and we now live together and are very much in love.

At first, we "courted" for about four weeks, spending quite a lot of time together (three or four nights a week) and then he went on holiday to Spain with a friend. When he came back, I asked him to be my boyfriend officially and he agreed. Five or six months later, we were having a light-hearted chat and it came up that while he was on holiday during the first month, he had drukenly kissed somebody else in a club in Spain. He was not ashamed or apologetic in any way - he just said that's how dating goes. While he was very upfront about it we hadn't been together very long when it happened, I've felt betrayed ever since. He says he would never ever have done it had we been further into the relationship and never even looks at anybody else. However, was he wrong to kiss somebody else at that stage in our relationship? Did he do anything wrong?

2007-02-22 06:10:50 · 4 answers · asked by kevinos_1982 1

I always see him everywhere all the time and I think i fell in love with him. I don't know if he likes me back =P
here is the proble I am a boy =)
I think he is gay but I really dont know him I've never talked to him b4
one of my friends is in his class I am always looking at him sometimes he looks at me and then looks away when I look back lol
what should I do?
=( I am in love =(

2007-02-22 06:09:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let me explain why the four most obvious answers don't work for us:

1) Join a christian club/group at your college.
We go to community college, no Campus Crusade/Christian groups

2) Try a Bible Study.
I never liked this setting, meeting in someone's house under certain terms in a small group discussing various lessons. Great for learning, not for making friends.

3) Church.
My buds and I feel guilty when we flirt with girls at church, it's just an awkward feeling.

4) Try an internet dating site.
I think I would find it hard to carry on a relationship with a picture on a computer screen or a voice on the phone.

These were all answers we got a while ago, we each tried them out with no luck.

Smart alec responses are not appreciated.

2007-02-22 06:08:13 · 8 answers · asked by Ethan D 1

I'm a single guy and I like to flirt with all my female friends on facebook. Would you be offended as a friend if you knew that I flirt with other female friends? You know, we're just facebook friends ! Would this give the impression that am a womanizer? I'm looking for a date and waiting for a girl to response to me flirting with her on facebook and then of course I'll stop flirting with others. Is it wrong to flirt verbally with many girls online at the same time?

2007-02-22 06:06:55 · 22 answers · asked by inquisitive 1

I am 20 but usually get told I look 16 maybe 17. Is this a bad thing I think its because I have a petitie body type and a "cute" young looking face. Bad thing? Sometimes it is annoying.

2007-02-22 06:05:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Mom is in her early 50's but looks lots younger. She was in a bad marriage with my Dad for 16 years, he was physically abuse to both of us. She's had a few relationships since but they didn't work out. She has been on her own for about 10 years and she is very nervous about starting a new relationship. She definately wants the companionship though and justs needs a lovely gentleman to take care of her and be good to her. My Mom is very caring, considerate and faithful. She would like to chat online first with someone and I want to help her find someone. Are there any genuine caring gentlemen out there that would like to have a chat ith my Mom? You need to be between 50 and 60 and most of all take it slow and have a good heart! Reply here but absolutely no timewasters!! Thanks

2007-02-22 06:04:48 · 10 answers · asked by Michele 3

okay my best best best friend [sally] has been lying to me. about this boy [her nephew] who i like. she tells me things like. jay said he miss u just dumb stuff , but it be lies. im pretty sure yall heard of myspace. anyway i sent him a friend request and he did not approve me. my ex friend sally sister said that jay thinks im a ''good girl'' the point is i really liked him alot. sally knew it. and all she kept trying to do was embarress me. recording things i said about him and sending them out. putting me on speaker phone when i talked about him. im just soooooooooo mad at her. and i dont want to be her friend no more but i don't want to tell her that im mad. because i don't want her telling people that i'm just mad beacuse jay don't like me. i just wanna distance myself from here completly. she lies too much her other best friend said she called dibs on him. but sally told me that she didnt like him. and before that she said her other best friend did'nt like black boys.

2007-02-22 06:04:27 · 7 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2

What I mean, is none romantic attachment, a true friend, loyal to you, no gossip behind your back

2007-02-22 06:02:41 · 31 answers · asked by denis9705 5

i really like this guy and i thing he really likes me ( were gion out by the way) and im in the 8th grade and i like my space...i dont want him to go "below the belt" and i dont know how to tell him! should i let it go and when he tries to grab his hand or what ??? i need help !!!!!!!!! what shoult i DO ???

2007-02-22 06:00:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont no what to do i love my boyfriend but i love to flirt and im about to move what do i do help me?

2007-02-22 06:00:26 · 11 answers · asked by lilly 1

2007-02-22 06:00:23 · 15 answers · asked by C.C. 1

*personality
*face
*body
*height
*wealth

2007-02-22 06:00:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why dont they find it flattering? I mean i know women like to feel sexy so why do they get so pissed when you stare at their rack or whatever?

2007-02-22 05:59:28 · 2 answers · asked by alltheladies009 1

Ok, so I have a crush on my male friend. And we've been friends for about a year now. And at first i could never see myself likeing him like this. But after we started hanging out more, it became apparent that i had feelings for him. Then about 2 months ago we started casually dating, and also went to a dance together. But about a month ago he told a mutual friend that he doesnt like me anymore. I tried to be "just friends" bcause i wanted to keep our friendship. But its too hard! And i think he knows that i still like him, and we still hang out a lot. What should i do? And prom is coming up soon and i really want to go with him, but i dont want him to freak out, and i could say "it could just be as friends, nothing more" - even though i would want something more. What should i do? Or how do i ask him/hint at him to ask me to prom? Help Me!

2007-02-22 05:59:24 · 6 answers · asked by Kelsey H 1

If a girl looks away A LOT (eyes dart downwards) smiles slightly, and starts to fidget with something, would a guy take this as a positive or negative signal. What message does it give off? Guys, how would you respond to it?

2007-02-22 05:59:08 · 10 answers · asked by Chelsea 2

2007-02-22 05:58:17 · 29 answers · asked by frank j 2

Do you believe in waiting? Or do you think the risk is worth it?

Kids born out of wedlock to single moms are:

.5 times more likely to commit suicide.
•32 times more likely to run away.
•20 times more likely to have behavioral disorders.
•14 times more likely to commit rape
•9 times more likely to drop out of high school.
•10 times more likely to abuse chemical substances.
•9 times more likely to end up in a state-operated institution.
•20 times more likely to end up in prison.
•"Daughters of single parents are 53% more likely to marry as teenagers, 164% more likely to have a premarital birth, and 92% more likely to dissolve their own marriages.

This is on top of STDs where 1 and 4 teens currently have one and don't know.
It is estimated that as many as one in four Americans have genital herpes, a lifelong infection, yet up to 90 percent of those with herpes are unaware they have it.

Condoms don't protect against most STD ie herpes, warts, etc.

2007-02-22 05:58:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you'd been really close mates with a girl, and then started to fancy her, and freaked her out. Then you'd both stopped being mates cos she'd started avoiding you, and then a few months down the line she starts trying to talk to you again?
Would you want to be mates again? Or not...

2007-02-22 05:56:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

go to fotothing.com type username zooder and password happysad and look at the guy in the red shirt and comment on his looks , he is a guy , he is my friend .

2007-02-22 05:55:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

One of my friends is in an abusive relationship, Her and her bf have been together on and off for about a year and a half now. Well like every other day she comes in the classroom bawling her eyes out and when i aske her she says its b/c her bf hit her, well this has been going on 4 about a month or 2 now well on Valentines Day he bought her a BIG and BEAUTIFUL teddy bear and she was SO happy but by the time it was time 4 lunch they were fussing again and he threw her bear in the GARBAGE!!! ( of course he eventually go it out, BUT STILL!!) so shes bawling AGAIN!!! well YESTERDAY she came into the classroom and she is HISTERICAL!! she has bruises all OVER HER!!! i am REALLY worried about her. Every day she says they are over FOR GOOD!! but it never really happens they break up but in to days they are back together. I know she really luvs him but it seems like me and my friends just can't get through to her. What should I do?

2007-02-22 05:55:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

u have feelings for this guy, but he said he dsnt want another g/f right now,maybe down tha road,but he still says he loves you. and u been with each other for a year and just broke up...so he suggests 2b friends with benifits w u until that time may come.... wat would you do????

2007-02-22 05:54:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous