2007-02-22 06:00:23 · 15 answers · asked by C.C. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah it does hurt a bit at first but if you really like the guy believe me you probably won't even notice the pain.
2007-02-22 06:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by mollyinlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your body and the guy. If the guy knows what he is doing and knows it is your first time and has any type of respect for yu then he should try and be very gentle with you and you should be I hope at least over 18 and know what you are doing in the first place by making this descion in your life. Dont ever give your self to a man because you want to make him happy or becaue you thing you have to. Dont give up your body until you are for sure it is what you want and it is because your body is craving the need .
The reason why I say it depends on your body is because all girls are different. Some bleed the first time and some dont. Also people have this illusion that especially guys that girls who are virgins are really tight.. That is not always the case since that part of your body is muscle and if you have not been in the habit of working those muscles a girl could very will be what people call loose. People also believe that a lets say hooker is really loose and worn out. but that is not true since a hooker is using those muscles all the time she would be tight down there. Just like a married woman who might go a long period without having sex with her husband and then the day she does he accuses her of messing around since she is loose. She is loose since she hasnt been having any sex and using those muscles.
Back to you. Dont go and have sex unless you are older and really know what you are about to do, and if you do do it make sure you use protection. Dont go having sex unless it is something that you truly want to do. Guys have a way of coming up with lines like " prove to me how much you love me and give me that" or " if you really love me you would let me have sex with you. " Once you have sex you cant erase the fact that you did it. Honestly I dont go for all that saving it until you are married and all that but I do believe a girl should only do it when she really wants to do it and not because the guy is making her feel obligated. Also a girl should really try to wait until she is at least 18. I was 14 and ended up having my first son 2 months before my 15 th birthday.. While you are young you really wont be missing out on any thing. There is plenty of time for all that when you are older and if you are already older then just make sure you are going to do it with a caring guy that will be careful with you and that you feel completly comfortable with. and that you do like. that usually helps.
2007-02-22 06:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by hersheynrey 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. The first sexual experience for a girl is going to hurt and there might even be some bleeding due to the trauma. It's just part of life, though.
2007-02-22 06:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by kat81886 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurt like hell I didnt even understand why people wanted to have sex. And the person I was with was gentle. But people take pain differently so you might not feel so bad. If you are under 18yrs and considering having sex please use protection. I cant to you not to do it because its your choice but make sure its with the right person and that you are protected there are too many unwanted pregnancies and diseases... I hope I helped in some way
2007-02-22 06:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well to tell you the truth it always hurt just a little, but the first time is a killer. Cause most of the time it doent want to go in, so the guys needs to finger you first cause you a first timer. And the tissue is not broken yet.
2007-02-22 06:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by yanelyr18 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It didn't hurt me..but then again he was hung like a lightswitch
2007-02-22 06:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on the girl,but if done right I don't think it would be too painful....alot of foreplay and an experienced partner is best
2007-02-22 06:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by kevin c 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
to tell you the true it might hurt you
2007-02-22 06:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i've heard that it does..im not quite sure bcuz i havent done IT yet....the pain level could be different for each female tho..
2007-02-22 06:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a bit uncomfortable, yes.
2007-02-22 06:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋