One of my friends is in an abusive relationship, Her and her bf have been together on and off for about a year and a half now. Well like every other day she comes in the classroom bawling her eyes out and when i aske her she says its b/c her bf hit her, well this has been going on 4 about a month or 2 now well on Valentines Day he bought her a BIG and BEAUTIFUL teddy bear and she was SO happy but by the time it was time 4 lunch they were fussing again and he threw her bear in the GARBAGE!!! ( of course he eventually go it out, BUT STILL!!) so shes bawling AGAIN!!! well YESTERDAY she came into the classroom and she is HISTERICAL!! she has bruises all OVER HER!!! i am REALLY worried about her. Every day she says they are over FOR GOOD!! but it never really happens they break up but in to days they are back together. I know she really luvs him but it seems like me and my friends just can't get through to her. What should I do?
2007-02-22 05:55:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He punched the shi* out of her yesterday and shes only 15 and 105 pounds and hes like only 5'7 and 150 himself WTF!!
2007-02-22 06:09:40 · update #1
we can't help idiots that don't want to be helped. if she is only 15 where the fuc*k her parents? they should help her! what about her teachers? I mean, she is with him because obviously she is "in love" with this as*shole but still, she should know better! is not like he is the last coke in the desert! don't tell her anything but report this bastard asap!
2007-02-22 06:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your friend to seek professional counseling, to find out why she is allowing this behavior to continue. She must have some severe self-esteem issues. If she doesn't figure this out now, she is only doomed to repeat this over and over, with this scumbag or another down the road. Why do teenagers think they need to Love someone or feel Loved by someone while they are still in high school? All this drama deters you from focusing on the really important things, like getting an education, learning about yourself, and preparing for life as an adult, where then you can make better informed choices of who is toxic or healthy for you. It's nice of you to be so concerned for her, but if she chooses to be abused, then it might reach a point where you say, "I've done all I can, and if you want to be abused, go on then, you deserve it."
2007-02-22 14:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop an anonymous hint to the principal, and her parents... why arent her parents doing anything... make her go to domestic violence classes.
google up a story about Christina Springs....
Arkansas News Bureau - Supreme Court hears arguments in Fort Smith ...Supreme Court hears arguments in Fort Smith man's death penalty appeal. ... the fatal stabbing of his estranged wife, Christina Springs, which occurred Jan. ...
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Arkansas News Bureau - Supreme Court upholds capital murder convictionChristina Springs was living in a safe house for battered women when she was stabbed to death at a busy Fort Smith intersection on Jan. 21, 2005. ...
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Best to get out of thinking men acting like this is OK at a young age.....
Submissive does not mean 'doormat'
Have a cop go talk to the boy and tell him if he hits her again he will be arrested.
if you really love your friend... copy and paste this off onto a word document and give a copy to her, her parents, her b/f, her b/f's parents, principal, the cops, and plaster those suckers all over everywhere........ let everybody know what is going on...
The truth shall set you free.
Just dont tell anybody it was you who did the copying and the pasting. Dont want that psycho freak coming after you.
And the boy... he needs help too. If he keeps on like this, his whole life will be ruined.
2007-02-22 15:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jillary von Hämsterviel™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report that PRICK to the police. If he's like that so soon in a relationship she may end up 6 feet under before she gets out of school. Not a good thing. No man is worth getting the Crap beat out of you. I don't care how big the damn bear was.
2007-02-22 14:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by allforit420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to kick him to the curb. He is not and probably will never be a man.
This punk should be reported to the police the next time he hits any woman.
2007-02-22 17:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u cant really do anything cuz she cant see whatz going on untill she get tired...
2007-02-22 14:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by Lashawn C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋