If you'd been really close mates with a girl, and then started to fancy her, and freaked her out. Then you'd both stopped being mates cos she'd started avoiding you, and then a few months down the line she starts trying to talk to you again?
Would you want to be mates again? Or not...
2007-02-22 05:56:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that would be tough rejection to get over. but if we were that close i would have missed her and wanted contact with her again. still would feel akward/embarassed though.
2007-02-22 05:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by LawDude 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your asking if I would be her friend again, No. If she gets freaked out and can't explain how she feels about it in the first place then you probably weren't to good a friends, and therefore its not worth the risk of something worse happening the second time.
2007-02-22 14:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by mopartimross 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you're from "down under", as for your question, I wouldn't see a problem unless she ended it on bad terms. Just pick up where you left off, maybe she thought she made a mistake in turning him down or just wants to be friends. I wouldn't recommend putting the moves on her again for a while though.
2007-02-22 14:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by Diamond24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i wouldn't be sure but if you show that you really are trying to be mates again then sure!
2007-02-22 13:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would. It shows that she wants to be friends again. If what she really wants is a relationship now, that's a bonus!
2007-02-22 13:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly!
2007-02-22 14:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'd kick her to the curb. I don't need her playing her "Let's be friends" games with me when she knew how I felt. And after she reacted that way for so long.
2007-02-22 14:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it very slow to avoid scaring her off again. If she's straight and you are gay, forget about having an affair. She's not interested.
2007-02-22 14:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Old girlfriends or boyfriends usually doesn't work out. It's better to move on and not go backwords.
2007-02-22 14:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by Irish 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, us guys forget things soo fast. Well at least the real men do, it's one of those things that seperates men and women; most men don't carry grudges and women do carry grudges, for a very long time.
2007-02-22 13:59:12 · answer #10 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋