Singles & Dating - 22 February 2007

I have lived with my boyfriend for over a year. We met on an online dating site, and I moved out of state to be with him 9 mos after we met. This past weekend I go to put in a internet IP address on his log-in (he just left it like that without logging off as he usually does). When I go to put in the address, it shows his previous online history and listed is www.match.com, the same site where we originally met. Under "properties, " it says he was last on there earlier that day. In addition I see where he's looked at several local girls' pages on myspace. When I confront him, he claims he did it purposely to see whetehr I was snooping on his online account. I don't know whether to believe him that he was just "testing" me. It has made me want to go on those dating sites again myself since he seems to have no interest in me since he's looking at others. yet he acts his normal self at home and is pretty affectionate. So what gives?

2007-02-22 06:32:45 · 20 answers · asked by dizzylizzy20_11 2

ok, long sotry short.... my g/f and i have been together for awhile... she almost 20 and has an 8 1/2 month old baby, which im raising... i do everything for them two... pay her cell phone bill, her bank debt, gas, cigarettes, wake up at night for the baby, do all the daddy things for the baby, and i still get walked all over... im a very nice and outgoing guy, and everyone of her friends tell me that. but im just sick and tired of her flying off the handle for no reason all the time... it could be the smallest thing in the world, like how i only smoke a half a cigarette at a time, she freaks out on me asking "why the f*** do you only smoke a half a cigarette"... even her mom tells her shes going to lose me... shes very moody and im always walking on egg shells... i rub her back every night, cater to her every need, and i still get the same result... i know she loves me, but i think she just has issues... im really lost, and were planning on getting a house VERY SOON, i need help.....

2007-02-22 06:30:25 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous

What exactly is the most important thing in a relationship to you personally?

2007-02-22 06:30:22 · 9 answers · asked by Sandy 2

is there

2007-02-22 06:28:47 · 19 answers · asked by jewelzlovesfalloutboy 2

2007-02-22 06:28:22 · 21 answers · asked by Tay_A 1

I'm into action packed movies, I don't mind chick flicks (infact I recently watched devil wears prada, 2 thumbs up), but I want a movie thats going to be both enjoyable and a combination of a guy and woman movie. Any suggestions?

2007-02-22 06:27:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

well we have been friends for a while and i ahve sudenly realized that i have feelings for him in a different way than jsut bein friends..........so i need help if i should tell him or jsut suck it up and just be friends???

2007-02-22 06:27:33 · 13 answers · asked by Candy_Girl 2

Would you apologize, run or introduce him to the man you had in your house with you when he doubled back and busted you.

2007-02-22 06:27:07 · 4 answers · asked by sweetladytease 3

have been seeing this guy for about a month and a half "offical" for 2 weeks im his first gf in 2 yrs.when we first started hanging out he would make EVERY effort to see me(never alone tho always with friends)the first week we became gf/bf, i saw him almost everyday.last thurs we all went to a barand i saw a 1 of his friends(girl)getting too close to him & i freaked.he didnt talk to me all friday and half of sat.i didnt see him again until tuesday this week he seemed SO happy to see me(no we didnt have sex).I straight up asked him if he wants to be with me and he said of course i do.i asked him if h wanted to meet up last night when he was done helping his buddies with something and he said possibly.I called back after and said that i wanted a answer and i want to see him more.he said he would "figure it out"and call me back.HE never did!!I dont want to be a nag BUT this is going to ruin this.i barely call him,so im not really needy,i just think we need to develop our relationship!

2007-02-22 06:26:51 · 5 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1

i was suppost to be going to the gym but it never happened lol so i am watching t.v. how about you's ????????

2007-02-22 06:26:22 · 20 answers · asked by sara2007 1

A girl I like a lot maybe even love now and I were hanging out at private school close to our house, and she brought her sis and her sis's frd. So while we hung out, she basically just kept glancing over to me and blushing and repeated that for over 10 mins. And I guess I figured that she was shy and later after we got to talk alone she admited it...does that mean shes interested in me or she wants to be with me? I'm confused...thank you to those who answer honestly and politely.

2007-02-22 06:25:51 · 4 answers · asked by Elijah B 2

My boyfriend and i are in a really great relatinship, we are supposed to be getting married next yr, the thing is, last summer he bit me on my arm and spat on my face after a drunken fight, i took him back and after a few months he spat on my face and hit me again, remember when he's doin this hes calling me names and putting me down. he swore after the last time that he would never do it again, well, 2 nights ago he grabbed me by the neck twice and threw me against the wall. i walked out and stayed in a hotel that nite, i came back home and i am currently sleeping in the spare room so i can decide wat i want to do, Things only happen when both of us are drinking. i love him so much and its totally out of character for him to act this way, he is so apologetic after things happen and swears he wont do it again, what should i do, i dont want to leave him but i dont want to live my life this way. Please help

2007-02-22 06:25:11 · 36 answers · asked by TTC #1 With PCOS 3

what I am asking is do you think (girls) you could tell if your boyfriend did anything like cheating? How could you tell? or not?

2007-02-22 06:24:51 · 7 answers · asked by shadegirl15 1

my guy friend and I got physically involved a few times. We both know that it was a mistake and continued to be friends. He doesn't live around here, so we talk online and on the phone a lot. It is pleasant conversation.Then when he came to visit, we hung out and he seemed nervous around me, and it was awkward. We ended up hookingup. Afterward we agreed we cannot do it anymore and i went on about how we're just friends. he seemed hurt, but said he agreed. we continue to talk and one day i said i was starting to like him more than a friend and was getting relationship ideas & thought he should know. He got very defensive and kept saying he didn't like me that way and he didn't want a relationship and we are just friends. I said that is fine, i just had to tell him the truth, and i still want to be friends. then we went back to talking like friends but he seems mad and is acting so (passive aggressively) while insisting hes OK. I think he's upset. WHY? does he even KNOW if he is upset?

2007-02-22 06:23:19 · 4 answers · asked by jennykolletti 1

i need to know.
i have never been before but i think i am now <3

2007-02-22 06:22:25 · 13 answers · asked by Ambiguous-Kat 2

I got home from my bf's house and my hair was wet, obviously i've been with intimate with him, we've dated for a year. I'm only 20 and I don't know what else she would think if I'm with a 25 year old man. Now my curfew is 12am, nothing past that and I have no liberties. She doesn't talk to me, and she's taking back the gran that she gave me for my Birthday. I'm in no position of moving out as for I only have a parttime job, my bf doesn't want to be force to move in with me, and i'm pretty much stuck. What should I do? Any ideas? Help please, my crying isn't going to get me anywhere.

2007-02-22 06:22:11 · 16 answers · asked by Girlwoman 2

Being with a man who is adicted to video games,loves to drink pespi and eat chocolate all the time like a drug feen,does not hear you when you speak to him,never gives me a hug,or is there in time of need,only wants to grab the private areas when he wants it...Of course I refuse for some time now.Can anyone give me some advice? I am so depressed and feel very neglected.

2007-02-22 06:21:58 · 14 answers · asked by sweeeetypie55 1

i love 2 guys one i want to spend the rest of my life with but i cant never hardly see him the other guy i can see him everyday what di i do?????????

2007-02-22 06:20:31 · 4 answers · asked by brittany richardson 1

2007-02-22 06:19:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

she used to be loveable!! and all!
and she used to act like she likes me but now it all went away!!
like she says she cares about me but once when i was sad, she asked me "whats wrong?"
then i paused for like 5 seconds the she just said "fine the screw you!!" i and that same day i when she was feelin bad i tryed to find out what was wrong for a whole hour!!
i got so mad at that time!!! and like she doesn't show that she cares at school! but she does care about me on the phone!! and she like cares about someone at school way more than me!! like if he feels bad she is allways trying to help him!!
oh yah she also wants to make me jelouse! like she would say that my best friend wrote "i love _____ and her (her = my gf) and _____ = the girl that he likes!!
and i know he didn't write that he loves my gf!! but she tryes to make me mad and jelouse by saying that!!and its weird that she wants to talk to me on the phone but not in school!!
is that pathetic or what!!

2007-02-22 06:19:07 · 1 answers · asked by i tell it how it is! 5

2007-02-22 06:18:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-22 06:18:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

What kind of questions would you ask to someone that you are starting to date to get to know him/her better?....questions that willl keep the conversation flowing.

2007-02-22 06:18:08 · 9 answers · asked by There! 2

HOW?? please help lol??

2007-02-22 06:17:55 · 5 answers · asked by sexy_lil_bitch1214 1

Me and My boyfriend have been together for a month. In January he had a comment saying "I love you" on his myspace page. It was not from me. I was very upset so I asked him who the girl was and he said that I was messy and not to worry about it becasue he was going to block her. Well, three days ago I asked him again (because she had sent another message on his page saying she loved him)and he went off saying things like I don't trust him and all of that. (This has happened to him before and he was mad becasue he was saying I thought you were different) I tried to apologize but he was like that I am not really sorry. I havent talked to him in 2 days. What shouel I say to him if he thinks that I don't trust him? He told my 2 best friends that if I don't trust him then he doesn't trust me. It's not that I don't trust him I don't know what it is. I am really in love with him. I don't want this to end. I never said I didn't trust him. PLease Help Me

2007-02-22 06:17:38 · 7 answers · asked by passion4fashion07 3

2007-02-22 06:16:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

today in skool i was walkin up stairs and the guy i like was walking beside me ...people were being really slow in front of us and i said to my best friend...god if the were goin any slower they'd be goin backwards ...the guy i like laughed at my comment as he over heard ......and said to the people in front "excuse me......make way for the extremely attractive...aint that rite stace? and i said yeh :) ...does tht mean he was thinkin i was attractive? lol ...?

2007-02-22 06:16:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i started dating this guy and its been 7 months , now there is a girl calling me telling me that she has been with him for 2 1/2 years. i really like him and he's telling me that he is going to leave her, should i stay and wait till he does ?

2007-02-22 06:16:07 · 10 answers · asked by live in the magic of life 3

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 months. I'm 18 and recently had sex for the first time with him. I'm madly in love with him and I know he feels the same about me but my friends think it was too soon. Is there a right age? And is there a right amount of time you should be with someone before you have sex with him?

2007-02-22 06:16:07 · 6 answers · asked by mollyinlove 2

And me in the act. We weren't having sex or anything but we
were close to doing so. My girlfriend said that it was OK and
that she forgave me but that we would have to start over in
our relationship (No sex, no sleeping over, etc.)
I said OK to it but now I think it is unfair especially since there was
no time limit put on the starting over part.
What should I do?? Should I go through it or just give up??

2007-02-22 06:15:56 · 15 answers · asked by John 1