Singles & Dating - 18 February 2007

Here's the deal: I am a 20 year old gay male who has been seeing a 25 year old guy for about a month and a half. We spend ALOT of time together, more than the regular "dating couples" normally do. We see eachother twice during the work week and spend the weekend with eachother. This is the first time i have dated a guy and have wanted something more out of the relationship. I like him alot and would love to be able to call him my boyfriend but it seems so childish to have "the talk" or ask, "I really like you. Can we be boyfriends?". Is there any other way to do this? Am i thinking about becoming boyfriends way too early?

2007-02-18 08:23:36 · 9 answers · asked by jason c 1

Ok, so basically I have a large inner labia. Its embarassing to me, but guys tell me they don't care. Is this a major turn off for guys? Should I get some type of surgery to fix it? It doesn't hurt or anything, I just don't like how it looks.

2007-02-18 08:23:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont no wat to do,this boy has liked me for 3 years,and i started likeing him and so i asked him and out and he siad yes but it was just so weird he wouldnt talk to me and stuff so i broke up with him,then like 4 weeks later,we had a great relationship so i asked him out agian, and at first it was good,but then we didnt have anything to alk about and i didnt really like him anymore so i broke up with him AGIAN and now he hates me he wont look at me he talked to me once but it just isnt the same...i find myself missing him i just want to be freinds with him,not more,am i totaly crazy for screwing up?????help me thanx!! :)

2007-02-18 08:21:38 · 15 answers · asked by ~Dreamer~ 2

2007-02-18 08:21:28 · 15 answers · asked by viva la me 1

and I really like one of my students. what can I do? Does this seems morally wrong to you? he is 9 years older than me, really cute and really shy and I have no idea what to do, but it's really bugging me. please help

2007-02-18 08:20:06 · 4 answers · asked by mimma 3

My bf is 14. We have been together for 4 months. We see each other basically every day [go to the same school] but he is a grade older than I. Next year he is going to high school, and I'll still be in Middle School.

Do you think he will dump me because of it?

I am his 1st gf......so far--all 4 months--he has been completely loyal and respectful...my family [even extended family] adores him. He has such a wonderful personality....
When I bring up this topic with him [dumping me when he goes to high-school] he meaningfully disagress......

2007-02-18 08:19:52 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3

What age did you girls start wearing thongs, where do you buy yours, and give me links, also guys what do you think of thongs? I need to find one that I could get without telling my mom. Iam 14 female. Thanks, if you answer this I will vote as best answer (10 points)

2007-02-18 08:19:34 · 30 answers · asked by cooldude3335 1

I have never had a proper boyfriend because whenever I like a guy, I never let them get close to me. And if I ever get close enough to somone for anything to happen I run a mile. I never understand why anybody would want to go out with me, and I hate to be in peoples attention. Is it low self-esteem or something else? And what should I do?

2007-02-18 08:19:21 · 9 answers · asked by :) 5

What did your first kiss feel like and about what age were you. I still haven't had a chance to have that feeling so I just wanted to know what to expect.

2007-02-18 08:18:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

before you answer,please have some way I can contact you (email or IM)

2007-02-18 08:18:30 · 11 answers · asked by Batson D. Belfrey 2

I am 13. This guy just asked me out and I said yes. so i asked my parents and they said ok and i was so happy until they said they wanted to come and sit w/ us. then i was so mad. i argued w/ them forever, but they wouldn't give in! It was just going 2 the movies. and it wasn't even like they wanted 2 sit in the way front while we sit in the way back or vice versa, no, they wanted 2 sit with us, like next 2 us!!!!!!!!!!and i'm in 8th grade, so its not like i'm a little kid that needs to be that closely supervised through just a movie!They wouldn't even settle for different rows! That kinda defeats the purpose of a date! What should I do?={

2007-02-18 08:18:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in my mid tewnties and lately guys that are younger than me catches my attention. But, I don't really like dating younger guys because in my own way I feel a lot older. Ladies do you perfer younger or older guys?

2007-02-18 08:17:02 · 24 answers · asked by B.A.P.S 1

2007-02-18 08:16:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay well...i'm going out with a guy of a diffrent race and my parents don't approve...but i really like him....what should i do? also he wants to hang out this week but my parents say that i can't go unless they go too...and he doesn't want to go because of my parents....what do i do?

2007-02-18 08:16:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok soo i am 13 and i like this guy but he is going out with a girl the broke up one time but then he went back out with her but i really like me i have 2 classes with him and i site right by in in both classes what can i do to make me look better i got contacts and i go tanning and i got my grandma to buy my proactive for my face i am skinny he hase we to a hotel with me befor with my friends what can i do !!!HELP!!!

2007-02-18 08:15:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend has a hairy butt--cheeks and crack. It's really hard for him to clean his butt when he, ummmm, makes a poo because the poo gets stuck in the hairs in his crack and sometimes he has to pull the hair out that has poo on it. Sometimes he misses some poo so he stays there all day/week and gets dried out.
So anyone know where he can go where they will wax his cheeks and crack? Will it look more normal, like he never had hair on it?

But he also has hairy legs, so would it look weird for him to wax his butt and have a smooth butt with hairy legs and thighs just below?

2007-02-18 08:13:09 · 5 answers · asked by Timothy 1

I m in relationship with a gal for d last 3 yrs n we share long distance relationship for d last 2 yrs.We were very happy n honest to eachother,bt thing is dat on new years party dis year she met with an guy who is already married bt due to some reasons he is nt living wd his wife.N my gal has started liking him,bt she still says she loves me n dnt wanna loose me.Bt now from d last few days her attitude has totally changed towards me.I told her several times dat u r hurting me bt dis doesnt affects her n she said dat she is helpless.I told her to stop talking to dat guy n she wants few days for dis.At d same time she told me dat she wont b able to get love like me.N even dat guy comes daily speacially to meet her to her office,n even told her dat he likes her.M a year younger to my gal n currently studying n all dis **** tremendously affecting my studies.Earlier she was sooo caring,sooo loving,pls suggest me sumthing by which i would b able to get my love back.pls pls pls pls........

2007-02-18 08:11:15 · 4 answers · asked by b2 1

First of all, I know this is the wrong category, i didnt know where to put it. im desperate. haha
At school I am signing up for National Honor Society and I need to write 2 essays. One of the essays askes in what ways do you see yourself being an active member of the National Honor Society?. does anyone have any ideas on what I can write about?? I am so stressed. Also, I need to get about 9 volunteer hours by Friday. Please help me out, thanks!

2007-02-18 08:09:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is that if someone treats me really nicely i push them away and go for someone who does not like commitement?

2007-02-18 08:09:13 · 10 answers · asked by elnett 1

She's cleverer than me
We hardly got to know each other
We are seldom in contact
She's single and never had a boyfriend
Not one who likes to surf the net
Doesn't play any games
Mugs like mad to do well in her studies
I'm lost =(

2007-02-18 08:08:14 · 7 answers · asked by puzzledlove 1

ok so this guy just dumped me for this other girl who really doesn't deserve him (sorry i hate when people say that.. but in this case it's true.) she's so annoying.. always making him do stuff for her and complaining all the time and all sorts of stuff like that. do any of you other guys like that? why would you want that? i mean, i REALLY cared about him and was so sweet and would do anything for him and he was also Himself around me. because his best friend even admitted to me that he has changed... and for the worse. and this girl is not very popular at all... not that cute.. and he is not himself, like he was with me. and he's completely changed because of her and everything. i just don't understand why he would chose her over me.. any comments..?

2007-02-18 08:08:08 · 7 answers · asked by coolio 4

Who would you pick a stripper or a good girl?

2007-02-18 08:07:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wonderin, wud they be safe to use in the shower

2007-02-18 08:06:58 · 24 answers · asked by vincy015 1

ok well here it goes. I'm 19, im virgin. Ive had girls offer since i was 12. Personally, i would like to wait till im married. lol. I would like to tell the girl i married that i waited my whole life for her It just has been an issue in my recent relationships, first they dont believe me, then alot of girls try really hard to get me to have sex . I would state my reasons for not having sex, they are philosophical and religous, but i wouldn't have enough space. I guess i am really looking for a relationship with a nice girl who loves me but i cant really get in one and, the older i get the worse it gets im starting to get sucessful i just got a good job on wall street for the summer and,alot of girls are in interested in that. IDK? Moreover,I am not one of the losers who cant get laid. Im about 6'9 260lbs,athletic build. i am nice guy. i get a decent amount of attention from the fairer sex. Currently im a student at Columbia. any advice is helpful also do any girls wait anymore?

2007-02-18 08:06:15 · 3 answers · asked by holdencaufield 2

2007-02-18 08:06:12 · 14 answers · asked by Girl Nobody 2

lets say ur a girl....and u never needed or wanted a boyfriend..but one day, a guy did something really nice for you and u guys start to talk ...would it be possible to eventually attracted to him?
.....im talking about high school life....

2007-02-18 08:06:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok ladies, i have a question for you. my ex girlfriend broke up with me about six weeks ago because she felt certain things were missing in the relationship. i now realize that she is right and i also realize that everything she felt that was missing i also want in a relationship. if you were to break up with a guy and then say three or four months later you two start talking again, and you realize that he really has changed and that he changed for himself and didn't change just to make you happy, would you ever consider getting back together with that person if you knew that he changed all for the better and that he changed for himself because he wants everything in a relationship that you do?

2007-02-18 08:05:41 · 4 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1

I was wondering how can you tell if a girl likes you. The girl that I like is shy and doesn't talk to me much at school, but I catch her looking at me a lot and she has told me I'm awesome, sweet, cute etc. Does it sound like she may be interested in me and how can you tell if a girl likes you especially if they're shy?!

2007-02-18 08:05:26 · 2 answers · asked by Harhar2930902 2

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months... We have broken up about 3 or 4 times... but we always find ourselves getting back together everytime... I think the reason why is because I love him to much to let him go.... Is it really love? He asks me back out 2 times and I did the same... I told him I love him and he means the world to me... and he knows it... we are always happy together and when we have the time we go on our dates, and we always talk every night on the phone... Can someone help me find out whats going on?

2007-02-18 08:05:25 · 7 answers · asked by spunky_luv_today 1

Here's the deal, right now I have a crush on this girl in my class, I won't call it love because I don't know her enough yet to say, but we talk and were good friends. To say whether it is love or a crush, I want to ask her out. But here lies my problem.

It's a friend problem. Her best friend has a monster of a crush on me. We're not talking little girly fixation here. When I’m not in class all she talks about is me, when I’m in class she spends the whole time staring at me, she dreams about us marrying and proudly tells all her friends about it, yet goes incredibly shy about me. She's not a bad person, she's a great friend. But I just don't see her as a girlfriend.

But with her being like that and being my crushes best friend, would asking her (my Crush) out cause a problem between the two of them. They've been friends forever and I don't want to the bad person here, but even I can tell there would be trouble. So what do I do?

2007-02-18 08:03:54 · 7 answers · asked by Bluesky 2