i dont no wat to do,this boy has liked me for 3 years,and i started likeing him and so i asked him and out and he siad yes but it was just so weird he wouldnt talk to me and stuff so i broke up with him,then like 4 weeks later,we had a great relationship so i asked him out agian, and at first it was good,but then we didnt have anything to alk about and i didnt really like him anymore so i broke up with him AGIAN and now he hates me he wont look at me he talked to me once but it just isnt the same...i find myself missing him i just want to be freinds with him,not more,am i totaly crazy for screwing up?????help me thanx!! :)
2007-02-18 08:21:38 · 15 answers · asked by ~Dreamer~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can you break up with someone if all you did was ask them out? I think you are confused. You seem to think that just because you talk to someone you are having a relationship with them. You are not!
Talk to the guy, tell him you are confused about your feeling and you would like to just be friends. You can not build a relationship unless you can build a friendship. You seem to be having trouble on both levels.
From the sounds of your question you must be extremely young. Things will become less frightening when you get older although they will not get less confusing. Hang in there.
2007-02-18 08:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mee-Maw 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK For starters things like this happen all the time and it'll always make u feel like u screwed up the best friendship in the world...But time and patience can fix that...it'll get better with time..U were both probably jsut not compatable with each other..Sometimes u have to bump ur head a few times before u realize ur not ment for someone....but u guys can one day be friends again....it just might take some time.....and if he feels that u guys don't need to be friends let him take some time to breath about the whole situation...he'll come to his senses if he knows in his heart u were a true friend...
2007-02-18 08:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Shawty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, what a mess! First of all, I think you should appologize to the guy and tell him that it was never your intent to hurt him, that you were just having a hard time finding out what you want in a guy. Ask him to be your friend, but dont expect him to answer you immediately. You've really destroyed a lot of the foundation for this friendship. He may think that you used him, but do explain to him that it was you who screwed up. there is a perfect person for him out there, but you werent it. Just like there's a perfect person out there for you. Just dont try to butcher it next time. Good luck!
2007-02-18 08:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Well sounds like he really likes you and he has alot that he would like to say but when he is around you he is stuck for words, he must be pretty shy. Who knows maybe it was meant to be a friendship but from what I'm hearing he's really into you and just has a hard time expressing himself, that's all so just take it slow and give the guy a chance.
Kay later and good luck eh!
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2016-10-15 23:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are doing better with just being friends. Can you write him a note or have a friend talk to him for you saying that you only want to be friends since he won't listen to you? And you miss his friendship. It does sound weird that he accepts your invitation to go out then won't talk. Is he shy?
2007-02-18 08:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by gabeymac♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you loosed your chance, maybe next time, but that next time wouldn't include him, it looks that you love him when you haven't him and when you get him you don't like him, thats kinda weird, don't be selfish the most you can do is have him as a friend, i know that it hurts, but that happens when friendships turn into relationships, to enemyships lol, it seems like you want to go to the beginning, but just been friends, it looks like you trowed a coin and you get one side, but you didn't liked that side so you better want to see what would happen if you have choosed the other side, life's hard, sometimes you take bad decitions, but you'll get over it, maybe you forget that guy or maybe you'll still be his friend. who knows, just think better the decitions you have to make
2007-02-18 08:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me, the person i liked used to always talk to me and stuff. when i asked her out and she said yes we never talked anymore. a relationship is better when both of you are just friends. talk to him/her and apoligize. then ask to be friends again. HOPE THIS HELPED
2007-02-18 08:26:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, MAKE UP UR MIND!!!!!!! boys dont like to be treated that way, espicially when they really lik lik u . try not to do it again and say that u r sorry and try again. make sure u watch Bring It On at 4:30 on the USA channel. LolZ
2007-02-18 08:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by VanessaRose 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just give him time to get over it. If he doesn't then don't worry about it. This is what kids go through. It's called growing up.
2007-02-18 08:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋