Here's the deal: I am a 20 year old gay male who has been seeing a 25 year old guy for about a month and a half. We spend ALOT of time together, more than the regular "dating couples" normally do. We see eachother twice during the work week and spend the weekend with eachother. This is the first time i have dated a guy and have wanted something more out of the relationship. I like him alot and would love to be able to call him my boyfriend but it seems so childish to have "the talk" or ask, "I really like you. Can we be boyfriends?". Is there any other way to do this? Am i thinking about becoming boyfriends way too early?
2007-02-18 08:23:36 · 9 answers · asked by jason c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have introduced eachother to our friends and i went up to his family's house in Maryland for a weekend...we also went on V day dinner together.
Thanks for all the replies, people! So helpful!
2007-02-18 08:33:37 · update #1
Well from what you have said it is kinda obvious that you are already boyfriends. You are spending all of this time together and you have been dating for over a month so i think it is safe to say you two are a couple now.
I think that as long as you both feel comfortable with each other and you make each other happy then you don't have to have "the talk".
Some couples make the mistake of over dramatising their relationships and it takes the spark out of them. Just let things happen naturally and don't worry about the little things in life.
xxx
2007-02-18 08:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this is comming from a straight guy, but my lil brother is gay along with some of my friends. It's all the same as a boy and girl just depends on what shoes you are filling i would just say go for it and talk to him about it like a guy or girl would if they were dating a guy or girl and it should work out if thats what he wants also.
2007-02-18 08:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by ho0k4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you merely grow to be the gf. Kissing and dates and spending fairly some time with the guy, assuming you 2 are in a dedicated relationship: you both at the on the spot are not seeing human beings, make you bf/gf. Dont have sex until eventually you fall in love with the guy. Dont ask him to grow to be his gf, yet allow him know that you opt for to be in a dedicated relationship, because you want him. adult males continually pay on dates or perhaps once you get married.
2016-10-17 07:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are boyfriends.
you basically spend allyour time together. Have you acknowledge him to friends and family...him the same?
if yes.. then you are definitly BF's
if any other concerns..TALK to him. dont assume.. cause that is morechildish than asking.
2007-02-18 08:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not to early i dont think... maybe you should talk to him about it... say that i really like you and i would like it to be more... like its official! i think that i could work so what do you think? and then just go from there... good luck! :]
2007-02-18 08:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way!! if u guys really feel for each other, go for it!! best of luck. xoxo, caitlyn
2007-02-18 08:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe suggest you would like for him to be your partner. Or significant other.
2007-02-18 08:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be old fashion and say will you be my staedy.
2007-02-18 08:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
god bless you
2007-02-18 08:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋