Singles & Dating - 16 February 2007

sometiems when i speak to women i just feel like asking if they would like to have sex with me.

i'm afraid that they would reject me because of being too straight forward.
its not like i find them uninteresting or anything but alot of them really turn me on and i want to do them.

whats the likely hood of majority of women saying yes and how do i get the nerve to pop the question?

2007-02-16 04:15:57 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy and I are beginnig to become close, The problem is im scared of getting hurt and I'm to young to fall in love. The problems that come with it is crazy. Ex: thinking about them all the time, jealousy, arguments,etc. now, he has been in love and he still talks to his ex. whom i might add broke his heart. I feel like i can't stop talking to him because I think of him so much and I'm scared to put my heart on the line. What should i do?

2007-02-16 04:15:19 · 4 answers · asked by Miss. B 1

My boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me for really no good reason. He proposed then dumped me. Completely shattered my heart. Come to find out I'm 2 months pregnant. I told him and at first he thought I was lying then I showed up with proof. Well now he believe me and told me that if I want to keep it then he wants to get married but he'd rather me put it up for adoption. I don't like either idea. I don't want to get hurt again. Is that selfish of me?

To add on, he's almost 20 and is trying to get with one of my 15 year old friends. He says their only friends yet her wants to take her out pretty bad. Dinner and then to the carnival. Sounds like a date to me.

What I think is that he doesnt want me to keep the baby so he has an excuse to screw around...

Thanks for the help. I really appreciate it.

2007-02-16 04:14:38 · 7 answers · asked by Manda 2

Not just occasionally but all the time. I met a guy who is nice and all but he is always too busy with his kids, church, and helping the less fortunate. I'm sure he does alot of good stuff but I am tired of calling him over and over and leaving a message or being asked to call back. He mentioned that his wife had divorced him because he spent too much time doing God's work. I wonder if maybe he just didn't spend any time with her and she felt unappreciated and unimportant in his life. I am greatly disappointed in him as we seemed to want the same things but he is just too busy. I called him 4 times last night. left a message twice (he was busy with his kids although it was quite late), the other times he was on a social call and the other time he put me on hold, so I just hung up. He emailed me back to call him but I didin't. I sent him an email today telling him how I feel. Was I right or am I being too judgemental? I am certainly not going to chase a man.

2007-02-16 04:13:25 · 11 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5

I've been dating this guy for about a month and a half (im 20, hes24). And Since we became "official" a week ago,I started to get VERY jealous. He is very friendly with his friends and it really bugs me,I know they've all been friends for a while, but it still does.I told him before we started dating that I was a very jealous person and he said he was ok with that.Last night i shoved one of his female friends when we were at the bar when i saw her getting too close to him.He got really angry with me and said I embarrassed him. when I asked him if this was "it"he said no,but it is all up to me.He said he wants whatever I want and that I should know how strongly he feels about me but I could tell he was acting distant.When I left last night he told me to call him when I got home(about a 30min drive).I did,but he didnt pick up.He works today at 8am,so ive text him saying sorry,and called him,still no answer.What do u think and what should I do now?I want to talk to him tonight in person!

2007-02-16 04:13:07 · 7 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1

hay yall...well my x is named amanda and my new girl is named amanda....but i hate my x with a passion and i love my amanda....idk dose this mean any thing?

2007-02-16 04:13:02 · 3 answers · asked by seth williams! 2

My best friend is in love with me...and I have feelings for him too. I can see the future with him, he makes me feel unbelievably amazing every day...we get along famously and we would be the perfect match...I have known him for 4 years and it has always been this crazy game playing....either one of us has a b/f g/f or whatnot....well right now, he is telling me things he never has before....such as how I am everything to him, and he is in love with me and will do anything to make me happy...the problem is....I have a b/f right now...and I love my b/f...but I can't stop thinking about my best friend and wondering "what if?" what shoud I do???

2007-02-16 04:12:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-16 04:12:01 · 10 answers · asked by JeannneO 1

I got flowers the other day with a card that was unsigned. Yesterday a guy that I like that I have not seen in awhile called me right when I got off of work. I was telling him about the flowers and that I thought some guy I didn't like sent them. He was like why are you so sure that he sent them. I told him what the card said and he said that was tacky. I said I guess tacky people like me. He said thanks you just called me tacky. Does it sound like he sent the flowers or what? He is the type of guy that he will say stuff to throw me off. Like after the you just called me tacky comment, I said so does that mean you like me. He said well really i'm not going to say either way. I have no idea who else would have sent them. I asked everyone that would have.

2007-02-16 04:11:12 · 15 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

2007-02-16 04:10:44 · 23 answers · asked by Twinkle *little fairy* 2

is it fair for your bf to have girls with sexy revealing photos as friends, people he doesnt know, on his myspace, but when i post a mildly sexy photo he gets angry and says its disrespectful. i think that its disrespectful that he even adds girls that he doesnt know just because they have their asses and breasts hanging out.

2007-02-16 04:10:11 · 1 answers · asked by blackdahlia89 1

2007-02-16 04:10:02 · 15 answers · asked by ben p 1

Whats a good movie for a first date (15 years old)?

2007-02-16 04:08:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I am not in the mood to be bother by some guy than I will get this mean look on my face trying to make him go away but it never works. WHY???

2007-02-16 04:06:54 · 9 answers · asked by Miss Sassy 2

They say the 1st thing a guy notices about a lady is her eyes.
and the 1st thing a lady notices about a man is there bunch of lies.lol

2007-02-16 04:04:30 · 23 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4

I've been with my boyfriend since I was 19 for 5 years. I moved to the place I live now to be with him. He was 28 then. He has a job that is going nowhere, he doesn't pay attention to me, all he does is play video games, and he put me in a lot of debt. He says he loves me - and I believe him. I've been trying to go places in my life, going to school, getting a good job, finding hobbies, etc.

I found a new apartment, and went to see it last night.

When I got home, I told him it was over. It was so heartbreaking because I do love him. He said he would change. I hurt him so bad. He said he saw his "three ghosts".

My question is this:

I want to talk to him, and if he shows me he can pay attention to me, and he goes to school to get a career, and cuts back on the video games, maybe it can work. But I'll also tell him that's no guarantee, and we may be prolonging the agony.

What should I do? I told him I will be leaving tomorrow. He begged me not to go yet.

2007-02-16 04:02:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-16 04:01:36 · 17 answers · asked by wingard_jessica 1

So hear is my problem, I am 20 years old and have never really dated. Working and my career has always been my life. Now I am out of high school, in the working world 100% of the time, and I don’t know what to do. I teach theatre to younger students, so I am never around people my own age anymore. I feel like there really is no option for me to date anymore. Not to mention I am going insane being a virgin and being alone all the time. I have never been on a date in my life and I am so lost, scared and embarrassed. What should I do?

2007-02-16 04:01:07 · 17 answers · asked by Richard 2

2007-02-16 04:00:48 · 5 answers · asked by Zmithy 2

he is a basketball player and he is a kindof nice guy...i mean when you talk to him, he doesn't push you away or anything... and he always kind of flirts with me, but i am chubby aand friends to everyone...but him.. he really doesn't talk to me...should i ask him out or should i just wait and see if he asks me out first??

2007-02-16 04:00:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

So this guy has a cute nickname for me and everything, but when my friend mentioned me when she was talking to him, he didn't seem interested. He has me really mixed up. What should I do?

2007-02-16 03:59:57 · 5 answers · asked by lytlLyd 2

If a girl wants to take me mud wrestling is it a good get to know you activity or would she be considered a ho-bag?

2007-02-16 03:59:19 · 21 answers · asked by k33p3lz 1

2007-02-16 03:58:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I told this girl that her bf was cheating on her, and she told me she knew...I have a crush on this girl....A HUGE one. and she told me she wasn't looking for a serious relationship, that's why she settled for this guy. I told her that I had a crush on her, and I asked her if she wanted to go out with me. She said she really wanted to, and told me that she really liked me and that I was sweet and all, but she said she was afraid that it would turn serious. She told me that she was sorry, but she just can't handle that anymore. I told her I understood, but I still want to be with her. She understands me better than any other girl, and she has the best attitude that I have ever seen, but she doesn't want a serious relationship. What should I do???

2007-02-16 03:58:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does it look like from the outside? Does it make him look better?

2007-02-16 03:57:49 · 23 answers · asked by TishTash 2

i told this guy that i like hima nd he laghed at me and walked off i feel so stupid because he did not like me. he liked my friend! i dont know if i will be able to date anyone after that
what do i do
anna

2007-02-16 03:57:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i tell my boyfriend that he is too controling when it comes to other boys hugging me

2007-02-16 03:57:02 · 19 answers · asked by meme 1

is a lot better than actually having it??

2007-02-16 03:57:00 · 16 answers · asked by meoi 1

i think i would be able to take care of children and he asked me how many and if i could handle being a single parent.. what is he trying to say?

2007-02-16 03:56:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What exactly is "hooking up"?
kissing..or what??? Is it acceptable or not??
The definition?

2007-02-16 03:55:39 · 27 answers · asked by ursoolastsumer 2