sometiems when i speak to women i just feel like asking if they would like to have sex with me.
i'm afraid that they would reject me because of being too straight forward.
its not like i find them uninteresting or anything but alot of them really turn me on and i want to do them.
whats the likely hood of majority of women saying yes and how do i get the nerve to pop the question?
2007-02-16 04:15:57 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do it unless you want to get slapped in the face.
So a few people gave me a bad rating for this......at least I'm a lady and have respect for myself.
2007-02-16 04:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by shivers 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
This reminds me of many years ago a friend of mine proposed approaching women with the line, "Nice
In this age of AIDS, herpes and psycho girlfriends, maybe you should be asking, "If a girl I've just met says yes to a direct request for sex, is it really a good idea to have sex with her?"
If you can honestly answer this question, "Yes." Go for it. Like my friend said, those 9 slaps may be worth the 1 success.
My advice, however, would be to do things the old fashion way. For a 1 night stand, go to a bar or a party, find a girl who looks interesting, schmooze and booze her for 2-3 hours and make your move. For something more long term, ask her out. Take to a movie, take her to dinner, look for a common activity (skiing, skydiving, dungeons & dragons, whatever), fall in love, have sex, have kids, etc., etc.
2007-02-16 04:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by redwolf7782 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay look the respect thing okay yes most women want to feel respected and secure and personally a man should not ask another man about a woman cause most men still haven't figured women and some of us don't give a d*#@! about respect just want to be done right if men want to know about women find a women that's a hooker or some one who's really open about her sex and ask her questions most pros keep it real
2016-05-24 06:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would probably get a lot of no on the street and face to face meetings. A person would be nervous about the straight forwardness. At the same time, if you have game, you can get them in bed a lot sooner than you think.
You best bet is to go to sites that cater to that, or even join a swing club. Then it is established that this is what's going to happen and your success rate will go up.
Good luck!
2007-02-16 04:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by Michael b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically it's a numbers game...eventually a woman will agree, just be prepared for a few slaps in the face.
Also... a word of caution. The woman that agrees to have sex with you may have been with someone else the day before. Protect yourself!!
2007-02-16 04:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There were a couple of guys in 1982 from Stanford who did a paper on if when asking strangers if they would have sex with them. Ther findings: 1 out of every 31 women said they would.
2007-02-16 04:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by Haven17 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Interesting approach.... not highly recommended though.
You can try for a month being completely direct, and just coming right out with the sex proposition, see where it gets you. Keep your own tally, and decide if you were better off chatting or going straight for "the goods".
2007-02-16 04:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows why but some women are offend by that question , at least until you know them and have had some already .
i myself as a guy think this is a great idea and i wish it was the way to go . i wont turn down many women if they ask i am a helpful guy so i give give give
2007-02-16 04:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will have very few say yes, you may get slapped across the face quite a bit also.
Unlike men, women are NOT sex fiends, we think about other things in our life also, family, friends, jobs, finances etc.
I wouldn't try it if I were you.
2007-02-16 04:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by Chatty 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL...a lot of that would depend on how good-looking you are. But most women are not going to be swayed by some random guy walking up and asking for a lay.
2007-02-16 04:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by jonjon418 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just have to do it. Most women will run away, but some will be down for it and those are the ones to really get your freak on with.
But don't just say, "Hey, you wanna have sex?" That won't work.
You have to say "Hey, I'd really like to bend you over and slamma jamma my dingdangdong-a-lingalangling long."
2007-02-16 04:18:55 · answer #11 · answered by Scary Monster 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋