I've been dating this guy for about a month and a half (im 20, hes24). And Since we became "official" a week ago,I started to get VERY jealous. He is very friendly with his friends and it really bugs me,I know they've all been friends for a while, but it still does.I told him before we started dating that I was a very jealous person and he said he was ok with that.Last night i shoved one of his female friends when we were at the bar when i saw her getting too close to him.He got really angry with me and said I embarrassed him. when I asked him if this was "it"he said no,but it is all up to me.He said he wants whatever I want and that I should know how strongly he feels about me but I could tell he was acting distant.When I left last night he told me to call him when I got home(about a 30min drive).I did,but he didnt pick up.He works today at 8am,so ive text him saying sorry,and called him,still no answer.What do u think and what should I do now?I want to talk to him tonight in person!
2007-02-16 04:13:07 · 7 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you've got a problem. If you've only been dating him for a month and almost two and Your feeling jealous then sure enough your scaring him already. Calm yourself down. If you knew about his friends and he asked you out then you should get the hint. If he liked the other girl you would be in this relationship. If you keep bugging then he will really disappear
2007-02-16 04:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by shy_gal2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better start feeling more secure with yourself. Acting childish over other girls standing or sitting too close to him will certainly drive this relationship into the ground. No man wants to feel smothered and no woman should carry a big stick when out in public with her boyfriend or husband! Grow up.
2007-02-16 12:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by pnut 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you both have a problem First jealousy is a sign of distrust. Second he doesn't want to be with just you anyway. Move on. There's someone better out there for you.
2007-02-16 12:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by inmann123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were out of line shoving his friend. Words could have went in place of that. If he is not answering calls/txt then he may have called it quits.
Dont call anymore. If you have left a voicemail, the next step is up to him.
2007-02-16 12:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by Megan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that if his feelings were really that strong for you that he would tell his friends to back of a little bit, and if you guys go out again and his friends are there, you should be the one getting close to him first, mabye that will make his friends back off
2007-02-16 14:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by TaylorC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should come first not his women friends if you mean anything to him he would be hanging with his women friends .its your right to kick *** if another woman gets near him. after all u gave him your heart and he still flirts and hangs with other women. what u need to do is give him a clue and tell him that your more inportant then his lil women friends
2007-02-16 12:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by beastman the CEO and president of CRAZY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then go and see him. talk about it and say sorry. Apologize for what you did. That's the least you can do.
2007-02-16 12:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by Faye ^___^ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋