Singles & Dating - 15 February 2007

My gf and i have been together nearly 3 years having met at university. Last September she got an offer to study at a university in Chicago, starting in January - an offer she couldn't refuse. I was and still am delighted for her. I am now visiting her for the first time in the USA. Both of us were so looking forward to it, but after my first day here she has become more and more distant from me. She says it is because she has had to develop a thick skin as a survival mechanism. I am trying so hard to just be there for her, but I'm scared of pushing her away at the same time. We have talked about it and try to understand each other's feelings but it doesn't seem to be doing much to alleviate my anxiety. I live in the UK and couldn't move for work and financial reasons. We speak and e-mail nearly every day via the net. I love her to bits, but I don't know how to be around her anymore. We're still committed to each other,but it is so hard. Does anyone have any tips for surviving LDR's?

2007-02-15 12:31:53 · 2 answers · asked by arthur 1

I really like this guy, and I think he likes me but I don't know. He looks at me a lot. For Valentine's Day I gave him a big Hershey's kiss, he said thanx like it was no big deal. When I gave a Hershey's kiss to my friend John, John gave me a hug, and the guy I like and think he likes me got a strange look on his face that I have never see before. My friends says that he shows off a lot, but I don't really see it as showing off. When I am hyper, he threatened me with a fork one time, but he want serious. One time someone said something funny, and I saw him looking at me like he was trying to see if I was laughing or something. Does it seem like he likes me.

Could U tell me a few things to look for to see if he does like me (he is really shy) I need to know what I should look for to tell if he likes me.

2007-02-15 12:31:24 · 10 answers · asked by Andrea luvs u...maybe...lol 3

Here's the story.

Me and my ex-boyfriend Adrian "friends with benefits". We've been friends for about 3 years. We were just friends for about 5 months. Then we started dating. That lasted for a month. Then we were just friends again for a while. About a year later, we started dating again. It lasted 3 months this time. We broke up again. Now, we're "friends with benefits". We hung out tonight and the obvious happend... we had sex. But, it seemed exactly the same as it was when we were dating. We cuddled, we kissed (and not just making out, just cute little kisses), we held hands. And he was the one that started doing all of that first. It just seems like he still wants to be more than friends... but I'm confused about it all, since he was the one that broke off the past relationships before.

What do you guys think... Does it seem like he still likes me as a girlfriend or does he just want to be f.w.b?

2007-02-15 12:31:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so theres this girl who i like and love and she feels the same for me what is a good love poem to exchange.

2007-02-15 12:30:40 · 3 answers · asked by musiclover1990 1

I really like my friend, she's fun and I'm always happy when I'm around her even when I'm down. I really want it to be more but I'm scared I'll lose her forever. I know she has fun when we're together but I don't want to say anything. I've been giving hints but nothin's comin out of it. What should I do? I can't stop thinking about her.

2007-02-15 12:30:17 · 22 answers · asked by holden68prem 1

okay so i have never actually done the whole just go out on dates thing and have no official names for eachother (boyfriend and girlfriend). I have always been in relationships...where I was committed and could say "this is my boyfriend..."

well i just started dating this guy and we have been dating for about a month. we have so much fun together and we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend.. we are just dating. it seems really weird for me because like i said, i haven't actually just dated someone. he always tells me how much he lieks me and he asked me to go to his prom with him. he tells me he is crazy about me etc. but its really weird because i dont know really how to just be crazy about someone without being their girlfriend. has anyone ever like gotten married out of just dating someone and not having the official "boyfriend/girlfriend" status? Or are me and him just dating becuase he doesn't want a gf or something? Are people supposed to JUST date and not be boyfriend/girlfriend?

2007-02-15 12:30:04 · 5 answers · asked by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3

my boyfriend just moved away...
i still like him.....
but im not sure if it will work out...
hes not that far away....
only about 30 or 40 minutes...
but he dont go to my school anymore...
an thats when i usually saw him.......
Should we break up or try to work things out???


Please HELP!!

2007-02-15 12:29:58 · 4 answers · asked by THAT GIRL 3

2007-02-15 12:29:05 · 10 answers · asked by peachyfuzz 2

And he still hasn't kissed me. I like a man who can make the first move and such. He's made the first move on almost everything else except, well, you know, because we're definately not ready for that yet. We've also gotten REALLY close to it before, but no. Nothing. What should I do? I'm so confused...

2007-02-15 12:28:48 · 11 answers · asked by Kirou 1

You see I told him not to be shy, he says he's not. But he never talks to me. He only sends me e-mails, but how do I even know it's him! It could be his mom or brother. Please answer.

2007-02-15 12:28:46 · 13 answers · asked by swimminshark02 2

if a girl asks a guy out...does that make them desprate???

2007-02-15 12:27:58 · 41 answers · asked by Taylor 1

There is a chick that likes me and there is other chick i like.I am a senior in high school.So i dont feel like asking 1 out.Just 3 more months left.If you were a sophmore or junior whcih chick will you chose.

2007-02-15 12:27:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i am 13 years old a teen i know but anyway i asked a guy out and he hasnt answered yet it has been a week and we have not talked but we have shared many awkward stares like there is somthing he wants to say but idk if it is bad or good we use to be really good friends but now we barely tlk also should i confront him about not answering

2007-02-15 12:27:46 · 5 answers · asked by ckr 1

I tryed shaving,putting my hair up,getting competitive,putting on lipgloss & make-up.All for a boy.Am I trying too hard?

2007-02-15 12:27:36 · 3 answers · asked by Bagon luva 1

yesterday he didnt talk to me, and it was valentines day. i told him that he hurt me and i wanted to break up but then he told me that he really loved me and didnt want me to leave him. according to him, he slept all day because he worked all night. i want to be with him but what if he just keeps hurting me? he tells me he loves me all the time but im having serious problems trusting him. i want to work it out and i want to trust him. we've only been dating for 2 weeks. will it be worth it if i try working it out with him?

2007-02-15 12:26:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this guy. and well, things didnt work out between us. but every time i try too get over him i look in his eyes and think there could have been something there for me. it hurts when we look at eachother. give me some ways to get over him. ive tried liking some one else, avoiding him, and even pretending to dislike him a lot. How do i get him out of my mind?

2007-02-15 12:25:15 · 7 answers · asked by Trouble 1

I'm interested in this girl. She's talkative and outgoing, while I'm quiet alot and to myself. We're friends and she knows I like her, but she sends mixed messages . I want to have a relationship with her, but I don't know how to ask a girl who's loud and sarcastic at times like her. Does anyone know the best time to ask out a girl like this and when?

Extra Info: I've known her for about 7 months now and gave her a Valentines present.
To better understand our relationship go to this link: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhSHo1RRX6zrqRr5UXughQzsy6IX?qid=20070113145917AAKnciN

2007-02-15 12:25:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lemme start off by saying that got out of a relationship two weeks ago. I dumped her- she's now with someone, either way, it's over.
I'm an 18yr old senior in highschool. There is a 15 year old freshman who's been flirting a lot with me and has admitted to liking me. Although I'm eighteen, my parents are very concerned about the issues of statutory rape, etc. I'm a very nice guy, I would never hurt a girl, EVER, and I guess I'm just wondering how it is that I could prove to them that this is merely a highschool dating thing. I am aware she's young- but I'm also aware that I would never, EVER take advantage of that. So my basic question is what should I say to my parents, etc, to make them get off my case?
(Also, HER mom is willing to consider it, based on what she knows about me. If that doesn't say something for my character, I don't know what would.)

2007-02-15 12:25:01 · 1 answers · asked by chrisser665 3

They want like all these things out of a guy. Dont they know that they are pretty much just sperm donors and protectorates.

2007-02-15 12:24:20 · 6 answers · asked by The Interviewer 1

This guy and I were kinda dating last year and then he moved away. When he came back we are still pretty close but not dating. Everone can see that we like eachother so I asked him out but he said no. Why do you think that is?

2007-02-15 12:24:09 · 9 answers · asked by ☺♪♥ĦįŚ ŜũŃšΉЇNË♥♪☺ 2

Express it in percentages if you can. For example: "I am going to say 55% single and 45% in a relationship". Thanks!

2007-02-15 12:22:44 · 18 answers · asked by The Interviewer 1

are telling me that i shouldn't go out with her because im mexican/white and she is african american what do you think

2007-02-15 12:21:24 · 9 answers · asked by viva_la_emos 1

How would you feel if your wife/girlfriend was raped by another man...whom then was nowhere to be found? Would you view your girlfriend/wife any differently? Would it be harder to be intimate with her?

2007-02-15 12:21:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay i have this ex bf that i just broke up with and like a month later im going out with someone else right and he is so jealous cause me and my new bf make out and like i dont know i hate my ex bf and he still likes me and im tired of him and hes getting on my nerves calling me all the time and its over and im never going to go back out with him how do i give him the real message without breaking his heart that its COMPLETELY over!!??!! i mean i've done almost everything i tell him no i scream but he still smacks my a** during school and it drives me nutz cause i always smack him afet that and he seems to enjoy it!!??!! who enjoys getting smacked? lol?!? anyway i dont know what to do and now he is going the same place i am friday and my bf and all his friends are gonna be there and my ex is coming i think im just gonna let my bf beat his a** should i?

2007-02-15 12:20:49 · 28 answers · asked by kiki 1

2007-02-15 12:20:33 · 32 answers · asked by James W 1

I was at one of my friends houses, and I have a crush on her brother who is like, my age, and after everyone was asleep, he came out and talked to me till like, 2 o' clock. Then, when his mom saw he was in there and kicked him out, he came in at 6 o' clock and talked to me some more.
WE aren't like, friends or anything. More like, we know each other pretty well.
So like, does he like me or something? why did he come out there and talk to me?

2007-02-15 12:20:29 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

This senior boy I'm crushing on is totally CUTE! I'm a sophmore, and we don't talk, but I want to be friends with him. He has a girlfriend, but I don't care.....friends would be fine. I'm so scared to talk to him. We have PE together, but our 2nd Trimester is almost over and I don't think I have any classes with him in our next Tri. What should I say to him? What should I do???

2007-02-15 12:20:11 · 3 answers · asked by Amber 5

I need help with nothing other than the big thing for teenage girls. BOYS! How do you understand them, how do you get them to like you, how do you know if they like you, how do you tell them if you like them? Oh someone please help a girl out!

2007-02-15 12:19:33 · 6 answers · asked by noella. 2

2007-02-15 12:19:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, someone @ my school just told me that they loved me , in a hot, smooth way. I FELT AWSOME because they are extremly hot!!!!!! but, they've been telling everyone that they love them. does that count as an I LOVE YOU??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????HELP!!!!

2007-02-15 12:19:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous