I need help with nothing other than the big thing for teenage girls. BOYS! How do you understand them, how do you get them to like you, how do you know if they like you, how do you tell them if you like them? Oh someone please help a girl out!
2007-02-15 12:19:33 · 6 answers · asked by noella. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will never understand them. They are a labrynth of nonsense, and never are the XY's of this planet on the same page as you and me. You can't make a guy like you, but you can make yourself more appealing to a guy. Confidence and high self esteem are biggies to have. Lots of boys love a girl with a sense of humor, a sweet personality, who are low maintanence, and who have a sense of independence. Most men are turned off by a clingy bimbo who has a poor self image. Typically you know they like you if 1) they are still immature and do the "hey lets pick on her" thing. 2) They flirt 3) they will jump some hurdles to find a way to spend time with you 4) they kiss ya! Telling them can be a different story. Some people are confident enough to straight up say it. For those that are a little more shy here are some things that often work well 1) eye contact. when you speak to them and when they speak to you smile and make eye contact. Don't look away! Your eyes are very captivating. 2) 3 second touches. 3 seconds is the optimal time for a small touch. Not to long, not to short, and it will get his attention wether he shows it or not. It's noticable and it's hard for something like that to be taken as accidental. Good times: when you give a hug goodbye or hello, when pointing something out to them, when you have something exciteing to say, or when your laughing at a comment they made. Good places: forearm, shoulder, neck, or for those more daring on the thigh. Don't use them in excess though! To much might make you come off as way to touchy-feely for some guys. And a quick hint, make yourself available, but not TOO available. Don't drop what your doing every time he calls up. If you do this than you can be pushed into the background, b/c he knows that you are always available. Therefore he may choose to do other things with other people. He needs to know that your time is valuable and you are not to be some back up person. Plus if your not always available and he is still persistant on wanting to see you then you know you've got it in the bag! Good Luck sista!
2007-02-15 12:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay im a boy so i know boys and can help you understand them. We are not complex, we are very simple. There's no way to get a guy to like you, you just have to be yourself, every guy has different tastes. The signs for knowing if a guy likes you are whether he flirts with you, talks to you a lot and generally if he just stares at you. If you like a guy just be forward with him, its the EASIEST way! Guys cant pick up hints! At the end of the day, life is full of risks and you have to take those risks on order to get what you want. So don't be embaressed if a guy doesn't like you back, it just means he isn't the right one for you.
2007-02-15 12:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boy is a very unique creature, His natural habitat (for as straight guy) is on x-box live, at LifeTime, and around the other very uniqe creature, the teenage girl. How to bag a guy is simple, if he likes you and you know it then go in for the kill! Guys will try to ipress a girl in every way possible, wether if its making the Football team or immature things like prank phonecalling. For more info go to Discoverychannel.com!
2007-02-15 12:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... my boyfriend tells me he likes it when girls are laid back, have some fun. Adventureous, cute, thoughtful, and caring. be yourself, relax around them a little. But still, make an effort, don't turn into a barbie!!! And guys hates sluts! even if they sleep with them! Don't be desperate! Everyone hates them!
2007-02-15 12:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by Gainy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a flirt, and remember, be yourself. having good looks may work but in the long run, it won't. to tell if they like you or not, well, you can tell. trust me, you can. don't dress like a slut or stuff cuz they hate fakes. if he likes it, then he's not worth it.
2007-02-15 12:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by peachyfuzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its kind of like an instenct to get a girl to like u it just happens............and u just ask...
2007-02-15 12:25:14 · answer #6 · answered by Aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋