okay i have this ex bf that i just broke up with and like a month later im going out with someone else right and he is so jealous cause me and my new bf make out and like i dont know i hate my ex bf and he still likes me and im tired of him and hes getting on my nerves calling me all the time and its over and im never going to go back out with him how do i give him the real message without breaking his heart that its COMPLETELY over!!??!! i mean i've done almost everything i tell him no i scream but he still smacks my a** during school and it drives me nutz cause i always smack him afet that and he seems to enjoy it!!??!! who enjoys getting smacked? lol?!? anyway i dont know what to do and now he is going the same place i am friday and my bf and all his friends are gonna be there and my ex is coming i think im just gonna let my bf beat his a** should i?
2007-02-15 12:20:49 · 28 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and tell him
2007-02-15 12:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let on he is not in the room but if he does annoy you shout at him so everyone around can hear you he will get the message as it looks like he can't be let down easy
Don't let your bf beat the s**t out of him as people won't think much of your bf
2007-02-15 20:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by kittiebann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you understand how he feels but he is not being respectful to your current relationship. Explain to him that if he wants to remain friends thats cool but if he really cares about the friendship thats left he has to back off. Its no easy way to stop someone like this unless they are understanding. If he has any sense he may be a little hurt but he will get the point. If this advice doesnt work, it obvious he could care less. Then you need to kick em in the nuts!
2007-02-15 20:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by G-boogie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! i miss having problems like these! lol
it gets worse hunny. just wait till your outta high school!
Sometimes, being too nice will get you no where in life. sometimes you just have to be a *****!
Tell him you are sorry, but you have moved on! And if he does not back off and stop calling you, and touching you, you are going to tell the school councler.
And dont be egging him on either, how does he know that you and your new bf make out all the time? who is telling him? and why are you bragging to everyone? maybe you should keep your new bf on the low low for a little bit. but dont be too nice and giggly to the old one. tell him flat out. and dont brag and rub it in his face about your new *hottie*
2007-02-15 20:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by jiggamaboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having your boyfriend kick your ex-boyfriends *** is a bad idea. As Lao-Tse said, a man of violence will come to a violent end. Having said that, if you really want to end it, you're going to have to tell your ex-boyfriend that it's over for good, regardless of whether or not it breaks his heart. He may not accept it at first; you may have to make the point several times, but eventually he'll get the picture.
2007-02-15 20:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by McPutin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You shouldn't let them fight. You should tell the ex that it is over just like that. Tell him you don't want to hurt him, but you are over it! Honesty is always the way to go with this situations. Don't beat around the bush, just tell him...like ripping off a bandaid, quick! Less painful!
2007-02-15 20:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes your attention. and he likes the challange.
it apears that a lot of times boys just want to get girl- not to have them.
so I suggest you keep your cool. tell him plainly, once (yes, again, but cooly, no shouting and smacking) and let him know this is the last time you are telling him.
and ignore him from there on, or at least ignore his attempts to get back together with you.
don't be a *****- it gives him a challange.
but I woudn't really know,.... just guessing here...
2007-02-15 20:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mogli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Violence is neva the anser. U should talk it out. Mabey u guyz can *** 2 an understanding or somethin. Personally I don't belieive in vilience. U should not let ur bf beat up ur ex -- they should talk it out!!!!!
All tha best, good luck 2 ur bfs!
2007-02-15 20:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOO You May both go to JAIL!
No you should not...Your Bf can get in trouble and go to jail for beating someone up...
Since you are planning to let him get beat, than if he hits him he can get charged with Assault or Battery...so it's a no-no...
Just tell him that you no longer feel that way, and if he continues to bother you, you will file a police complain...
2007-02-15 20:24:14 · answer #9 · answered by diamond_moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smacking you on the a** is sexual harassment. Tell him if he doesn't back off you will have him charged. He will soon get the message.
2007-02-15 20:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by the_little_one_said 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it really wouldn't be up to you if he gets his a** kicked. No man is going to let another man disrespect his woman. So, if he slaps dat a** then he is just asking for trouble. You shouldn' t let him stop you from attending functions just because he is there. Enjoy yourself. Screw him.
2007-02-15 20:43:08 · answer #11 · answered by Seanette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋