How would you feel if your wife/girlfriend was raped by another man...whom then was nowhere to be found? Would you view your girlfriend/wife any differently? Would it be harder to be intimate with her?
2007-02-15 12:21:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't even imagine something like that. It is a terrible situation to be in. I would love my wife or g/f just the same or even treat them with more love and understanding. Intimacy would not be an issue for me, but for the victim I imagine it would be very difficult. I would at the same time have a burning rage inside myself to murder the man that did it. That's the truth about how I would feel. This is an unimaginable situation for me. Very hard to fathom it.
2007-02-15 12:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I could find him; I'd want to hunt the guy down and cut off his ***** and shove it down his throat and then using a sharp hobby knife slit his eyes and then shove a large baseball bat up his rear so that he can know what it is like to force someone against their will.
I'd be very supportive of her and reassure her that it was not her fault. I'd encourage her to attend a support group.
I would NOT view her any differently; though I know that being intimate would be difficult with her and see that the both of us go for help.
2007-02-15 20:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by independant_009 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋