Singles & Dating - 8 February 2007

I live with my fiance and his 13yrold boy, who told me to shut up and he called me all the worst cuss names, for two days, now. The boy's dad went to sleep before he did, tonight. When he was going to bed the boy insisted on taking the dog out of his cage so the dog could sleep with him. As punishment for disrespecting me, I said no. The dog is not sleeping with you tonight. The dog cage has a lock on it because the boy will run with the dog all over the house if we don't keep it locked. (The boy can't resist letting the dog out to run wild.) So, again, the boy cussed at me over and over. Then, he took the cage apart because I would not unlock it. The dog got out and the boy took the dog to his room. I went to get the dog. I called him out and he came. So the boy cussed at me, again, and started screaming. His dad woke up and came up stairs and yelled, violently, close in my face, because I fed the dog a doggie cookie.

Is the dad allowing his kid to learn disrespect for women?

2007-02-08 18:54:18 · 22 answers · asked by mswonderrfull 1

2007-02-08 18:54:00 · 15 answers · asked by anurag822000 1

it is obvious that he enjoys my company every time we go out together. he makes long eye contact unabashedly and once i caught his stare lingering on my lips. he's taken to protect me when we went away on business trips. he does not take advantage of me and cautions me not to be "naughty". he remembers what i said and is very inquisitive about any potential male friends around me. BUT, he doesn't admit to flirting with me. he doesn't admit that he likes me. and he told me not to associate being naughty with him. SO, that leaves me as a confused girl. when asked, he becomes vague with answers. HOW LONG should i wait for him to say the things i have been wanting him to say? will that day ever come?

2007-02-08 18:52:48 · 17 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3

how would u feel if a guy in ur class who u've never talked to gave u a really nice homemade card for V-day? u've him a lot around school

2007-02-08 18:52:48 · 3 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1

2007-02-08 18:51:52 · 9 answers · asked by GeeGi 1

first off he just turned 20 and i just turned 17. i meet him a month ago, the min. he saw me, he lit up and acted like we've known each other forever and are best of friends. he is very funny, nice and easy going. and hes a great dancer! yes i do like him! but he has alot of girls in his life with him being a dancer and all, hes single though. He makes eye contact about 95% of the time while talking to me, and i asked my friend who knows him if he does this to her she said never. also he tells me about little things like getting married and how many kids he want and stuff like that, aslo while i'm sitting there waiting for a song i like he'll free style in front of me(pertending to have a partner) should i get up and dance when he does this? do you think thats what he is trying to do or get me to do? he also tries to get pics of me.he has two and i think they are really bad but he won't get rid of them. how should i let him know i like him? what should i do? without saying i do like ya

2007-02-08 18:49:39 · 5 answers · asked by Danniele E 1

It's a long story, but long story short--Someone I love and thought loved me decided they didn't and now they're gone. I know it wasn't meant to be, I know we will never be together. I want him to be where he's happy. So how can I stop feeling so sad?

2007-02-08 18:46:29 · 16 answers · asked by Mom Sparrow 3

2007-02-08 18:43:39 · 18 answers · asked by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6

Hey everyone, I need some advise. I have a co-worker at work that I like a lot all of a sudden. He's not my usual type, he's very short and skinny (5'5 ft 135 lbs) and I'm 5'8 175 lbs. I usually like men bigger and taller then me but it is something about his soft spokenness that I'm drawn too. He was one of my coolest buddies at work before I started liking him. I didn't like him at all at first but over these last 3 months, I find myself so attracted to him. We have been flirting for a while but I play the shy role and just laugh off his little comments. Now that I realize that I like him, I told another co-worker to tell him I like him and she did. He was very suprised and almost didn't believe her at first. He said that he likes me a lot and he would never want to do anything to hurt me but he is not the settle down type. I can't understand what he means by that since we never talked about relationships. Maybe he is just blowing me off nicely but why flirt so much then?

2007-02-08 18:41:23 · 21 answers · asked by Reformed wild thang 1

hi my name is nikki and i'm 19. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months, I love him to death and i know he is the one i want to settle down with, however i cant help but keep feeling like he doesnt want to be with me. I know he use to have a crush on this other girl who didnt like him in return and i still feel like he's hung up on her. He tells me he loves me and all, but sometimes i feel like he just doesnt want to be with me, he said he does and he said imake him happy. He lives about an hour away and we see each other about 3 or 4 times a week and sometimes he spends the night on the weekends. I sometimes feel that he stays with me cuz he is afraid of hurting me and i dont want him to feel obligated to be with me, and i have told him all of this and he says if he didnt want to be with me he wouldn't be. So is it just my own insecurities or does something seem up?

2007-02-08 18:40:04 · 6 answers · asked by nikkilanger 1

for any reason, be it financial, racial, educational, or any other reason, even though the guy was a good person?

2007-02-08 18:39:20 · 14 answers · asked by ♥BabyGirl♥ 2

Men 27-28 and in their 30's and 40's are hitting on an almost 50 year old lady. She's an immature 50 - had to hang up her roller blades last year. She has a well educated daughter in her early 20's and a 7 year old cutie pie daughter. She looks hot and sexy and is single - would these guys actually consider marrying her. She doesn't have much for money but she's cute, sweet and very nice. What do you think?

2007-02-08 18:38:44 · 21 answers · asked by STAR 2

is that true? i'm in a process of getting back with my ex. i know this sounds crap and immature. the reason we broke up last time was mainly about communication and he didn't give me enough attention. so i called it off.

or is it best for us to just remain friends.

2007-02-08 18:37:39 · 10 answers · asked by Ms. M 3

My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost six years and I have never recieved flowers from him. After several subtle hints went unoticed, I asked if I could have flowers for Valentine's day. He made a big deal about it, pointing out how much of a pushup it would be and continued to ask me each day if he still had to get me flowers.

I asked if we were going anywhere for V-day yesterday and he sighed and said "Well...I guess if you really want to..." I got really upset and started crying and he ignored me. He showed me the recipet for the flowers later but I don't even want them anymore because they have no sincere meaning.

It not about flowers now...I'm upset because he hurt my feelings and he won't even acknowledge he's done anything wrong...am I getting too upset over nothing?

2007-02-08 18:35:04 · 32 answers · asked by seiya_odango 1

Are you trying to see if we can keep a conversation going? If we can match our clothes? What kind of manners we have? how interested we are? anything else...

2007-02-08 18:34:44 · 2 answers · asked by yaabro 4

2007-02-08 18:31:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

he always hangs out around me and ask me stuff bout my boyfriend and he stares sta me when i aint lookin but on da otha hand he says he dosent like me so i just dont what to do or how to go about dis

2007-02-08 18:30:55 · 8 answers · asked by chels 2

2007-02-08 18:30:00 · 7 answers · asked by Still Standing 4

Who will you choose if you have the options of 2 men? Will you choose:

A) Someone you like. Don't know whether he likes you. Someone you don't know he's available?
B) Someone you're comfortable with. Shares laughter. You know it's a better choice. More compatible.
C) None of the 2

2007-02-08 18:26:35 · 9 answers · asked by denizen251 2

2007-02-08 18:23:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a guy drive 4hrs to meet me on the weekend after I chatted to him casually for a few months online. We really had a great date that night together, had a lovely dinner and very easy conversation, lots of laughing. We held hands and cuddled and kissed but no more than that even though it was tempting I held back. Next day he text me and said he had a great night and couldnt believe what a great time we had and that I am cute and funny and thanked me...and that was that....I havnt heard again from him by phone, only seen him once online and he was his usual friendly self but nothing else mentioned........its been 5 days later now.....would I be right in just assuming it was a fun night out and chalk it up at that....I think a guy would usually make some more direct contact by now if was interested..Do u agree?

2007-02-08 18:22:13 · 6 answers · asked by NonaVarta 2

My friend is visiting me from out of town. She has a boyfriend she's been seeing for about 5 years - She's helped him out in studies so when they marry, he could become a better provider. She has worked her butt off at 2 jobs to put him through school. He also worked part-time 2 or 3 days a week 2 hours a day. He recently graduated with a degree and is making over $32.00 an hour. His attitude has changed and he seems to have very little time for my friend. Yes, he does go out, with his 'new' friends from higher places. He never invites her and when she asks to come along he makes some idiotic excuse for her not to go. He's making her feel like she's beneath him. I've told her to just move forward not saying anything to him and see where it goes from there. what do you suggest?

2007-02-08 18:22:08 · 6 answers · asked by gigi 2

We Have Remained Good Friends Since We Split 2yrs ago

2007-02-08 18:21:06 · 3 answers · asked by wilo_chick 4

2007-02-08 18:19:31 · 11 answers · asked by linabee 1

were still in love with each other so whats the problem????i know..my life sucks....

2007-02-08 18:18:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-08 18:18:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I didn't get any jewlery for my girlfriend this christmas and she got mad at me because I didn't. In fact she told me that one of ther friends boyfriends got her a necklace. This was 2 days before. So, why do women like jewlery?

2007-02-08 18:16:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

IDK how. every time i go to kiss my boyfriend i feel funny and just... like... change my mind and don't

2007-02-08 18:16:42 · 9 answers · asked by Joy 2

They can't be together so the girl has a new BF. Whern he found out that she went to the beach with her new BF for three days he told her on IM F you and your mother. Do you think he will be able to move on..hat do you think he will do he still waits on IM for her but won't answer her. She told him she hopes they can still be friends.

2007-02-08 18:15:57 · 4 answers · asked by andingjuniorhighstudent 1

I almost feel like calling it quits.
I am not looking, on any sites, or remotely interested in any one but him. My best friend told me to go buy "he's just not that INTO you".......lol........I do like him. We have fun together, however I see he is still very active on the site we met?????? How do I tell him I know about it....he says he is not having sex with anyone else.....nor persuing anyone else. I think he is full of it, but I am not sure how to tactfully tell him how I feel with out sounding insecure,,,I am not. I have no problems getting a date, I just am very very picky. Should I just send him an email, call him, or tell him ??? I am through with feeling as though "he is just not into me".

2007-02-08 18:15:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous