Singles & Dating - 8 February 2007

She dumped me a while ago but now wants to be friends. She was calling me a lot. She called me 12 times last night to see where I was. I finally told her that I really can't be friends with her because I don't know what to do. I really don't want to hear about how other guys hit on her. She said she wanted to be friends to see if we could start over and see if things would be better and that I shouldn't tell her to make a decision. But my feeling is that it is almost impossible to be friends with someone you have been intimate with. Now she tells me she doesn't want to have sex till she gets married>>>>What the hell? How are we suppose to work on the relationship when she no longer wants to have sex? If we never had sex, that would have been okay. What do you guys think? She hasn't called me all day. Did I screw up here? Or was I on the backburner? If a girl likes you, wouldn't she just want to be with you? What is this friends stuff?

2007-02-08 16:27:24 · 15 answers · asked by D 1

2007-02-08 16:25:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know he is no good for me and I know I need to move on but it's just that whenever I talk to him I always have a smile on my face. He left me for another girl and then that girl left him and I just can't help to think that he will come back to me. I have waited here too long for him to make a move and I have had my heart crushed too many times. It's just that I am not very social and I find it hard to talk to guys. I just don't wanna be here another year waiting and wishing he will come back to me. It's just that I can't help but think the world of him and that he is perfect for me. How can I just move on? I have tried to stop talking to him and I haven't really talked to him as much but when I do talk to him I fall in love all over again. How can I just move on? I don't wanna leave him all together because his father died and he probably needs a friend but relationship wise I believe it's over.

2007-02-08 16:25:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-08 16:23:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

in a dating relationship between man and woman, how long does the average relationship last? do you find most people only make it to six months? 2 years? has there been any survey's done on this?

2007-02-08 16:21:58 · 11 answers · asked by chonnyman 2

i like a 14 yr old guy im 15, and we met on the net, at first he treated me like his best friend, but ever since i showed him my pic, hes been acting very strange...i mean somtimes he shows affection like he says im beautiful, and its like he almost asks me out, but then he goes offline!, he says its the connection, but every time things start heating up he cutts off!, and i always have 2 say hi first now, and somethimes he doesnt even answer me! like just now, he was online twice, i said hi twice, and he didnt even answer me, does he not wont 2 talk 2 me?, im very confused!@##$$ i need help here!!!!! is he interested or not.....HELP!

2007-02-08 16:21:47 · 8 answers · asked by amy a 1

his best friend is the guy i like, but he likes my best friend!
what do i do?? i am soooo confused!!!!

2007-02-08 16:20:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got out of a really long relationship that was the best relationship of my life to say the least. It lasted from february of last year to november of last year. I was no doubt about it madly in love with this guy.

Well we parted ways and haven't talked much since. My cousin trys to hook me up with this guy i have nothing in common with except maybe music. But he's like super sweet. And we talk for a while. My ex finds out and i find out that the new guy i've been talking to is a really big.. player. He;s done it with alot of girls like me tha are kindof innocent. Well i though nothing of it. Well then i hear it from everyone else in school. I'm going to prom witht his guy. well.. i don't want to. I want to call it off. But he's nice you know? idk what to do.. or where to turn.. PLease give me an idea of how to end it with this new guy. I just need to be single for a while.

2007-02-08 16:20:07 · 12 answers · asked by Jade B 1

this guy and his friend like me and i think that they are both attractive. but in the school that i go to, there is this guy that isn't smart,a gentlman,kind,and athletic. Who should i pick?
1st guy:cute,smart,funny,kind,tall
2nd guy:funny,cute,short,kind
3rd guy: funny,gentleman,cute,athletic,tall

2007-02-08 16:17:35 · 6 answers · asked by ESSJ 2

I am one to believe that when I want to sleep with someone I'll figure that out but it will probably be waaaay down the road. So, at what point in a relationship does a guy think that he is entitled sex? Is there a magic number of dates? Or am I totally misunderstanding everything I see around me as far as dating is concerned? How long is a guy willing to wait before he gives up? Are there guys out there who are totally cool with not having sex a part of a dating relationship if the girl doesn't want it? Please don't tell me anyone is gay in the relationship if they don't want sex. That's not always true.

2007-02-08 16:17:17 · 18 answers · asked by gracefulelephant 2

2007-02-08 16:17:07 · 11 answers · asked by AaSHEK 4

2007-02-08 16:13:07 · 1 answers · asked by pathy z 1

How do you do?

2007-02-08 16:11:12 · 14 answers · asked by cuz 2

How do you do?

2007-02-08 16:11:03 · 20 answers · asked by cuz 2

okay so heres the problem, i really like this guy, more than words can decsribe, and its not like he doesnt know me or anything but he only thinks of me as a friend that i know of, we talk but its just stuff like how stupid the teacher looks, or when im running around school spanking every1 with a rolled up poster board, anyway im a really outgoing, and energetic person, but i only look about average on the pretty scale, what should i do to get his attention, more than a friend attention

2007-02-08 16:09:58 · 13 answers · asked by courtney 5

2007-02-08 16:09:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-08 16:08:09 · 2 answers · asked by josie 2

how do u find the right one?
a half desent male?
coz seriously i dont think theres any out there....
xxxx

2007-02-08 16:02:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

or they just do it to please their bf.

2007-02-08 16:02:19 · 12 answers · asked by Mystery 1

i wanted to tell him of how i enjoyed my doctor's visit but he didn't seem to care, i wanted to also tell him that i was in bad condition because of insecurity about myself but the doctors really helped me and made me feel at home. they told me to go into cousouling because i have no one to talk to, i wanted to tell him but he says that doctors are full of it. i said that it wasn't true and he wants me to eat junk food to get fatter but i don't want that i want to be healthy but he doesn't listen and this is the only problem i'm facing. do i just ignore him, i want to talk with him not a counsouler but he doesn't get it, i just need him to talk to. :(

2007-02-08 16:02:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've always liked "My name is beer, do you want some beer nuts?" and "Do you have a mirror in your pants? Cuz I see myself in them." Any others I can use?

2007-02-08 16:01:47 · 13 answers · asked by bflip33 2

Cute girl at the gym. How can I get her attention and start a good conversation with her?

2007-02-08 16:01:25 · 6 answers · asked by Synchronicity 2

today i got a note from my friends and it was from a secret admirer that has been admiring me since the first day of school, but myfriends wont tell me how my secret admirer look like, i dont know wat to say when i'm replying the note my admirer wrote to me. please help me.

2007-02-08 15:59:57 · 5 answers · asked by luv ya 2

My best friend and I both like the same guy. The problem is...I think he likes her more than me. He always talks to her first, sits by her at the lunch table...all that good stuff. If I'm near, he waits to talk to me second...only so I don't feel left out. He sits at least one seat away from me...I feel so bad when I see them talking to each other. My best friend says she'll let me have him, because I haven't had many boyfriends. But she flirts with him anyway. What should I do? I can't stop crying...I want this so bad...

2007-02-08 15:59:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay..so here it is. Well i'm dating this guy we made out and my hands are usually you know touching him somewhere...just teasing him or something. But i'm not sure if he wants me to make the big first move or if he wants to ...

2007-02-08 15:58:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I started talking to an ex-boyfriend again. We were messing around, and one day he wanted to mess around. I told him I would think about it, because he didn't have protection with him. In reality I wasn't going to because I didn't want to end up pregnant again. Well the night before he had asked me to be with him and only him. I wasn't messing around with anyone else, but I just don't feel he's ready to be with me and my daughter. Well the next day he tripped because I had my niece. Is it because I didn't give him any, was he only in it for the sex?

2007-02-08 15:58:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i tell if me and my boyfriends relationship with eachother is serious or not?

2007-02-08 15:57:01 · 2 answers · asked by US 4 1

What words heighten the moment, or would you (a man) love to hear from your lady when you're making out. Please be specific. "Dirty talk" isn't specific enough. Tell me the words.

2007-02-08 15:55:37 · 10 answers · asked by 2sips 1

The boy has never had a real relationship.

2007-02-08 15:55:23 · 13 answers · asked by beki101165 2

My girlfriend is currently headed off too college next year, and the drive is an hour and a half. She wants me to break up with her because she doesn't think it will last. All of our "desires", both physical and mental cant be met because of the distance. I keep telling her we'll be fine, but I don't think she's strong enough to believe that. She is dead set on being friends (with possible benefits) during the time she's gone to college and wants us to get back together when shes back in town and after college. I am running out of ideas of things to tell her. She wants me to continue life without her and date other people and such, but I don't think I can because I love her so much. And the drive doesn't bother me at all, but it bothers her a little bit. Can anyone offer advice?

2007-02-08 15:54:40 · 6 answers · asked by thesatsui 3