How do I get my heart to stop pitter-pattering everytime I talk to him?

Question

I know he is no good for me and I know I need to move on but it's just that whenever I talk to him I always have a smile on my face. He left me for another girl and then that girl left him and I just can't help to think that he will come back to me. I have waited here too long for him to make a move and I have had my heart crushed too many times. It's just that I am not very social and I find it hard to talk to guys. I just don't wanna be here another year waiting and wishing he will come back to me. It's just that I can't help but think the world of him and that he is perfect for me. How can I just move on? I have tried to stop talking to him and I haven't really talked to him as much but when I do talk to him I fall in love all over again. How can I just move on? I don't wanna leave him all together because his father died and he probably needs a friend but relationship wise I believe it's over.

Ohh and I have talked to him and told him to tell me that he no longer likes me because my heart doesn't want to hear what my head has to say but I never got a response back. What does that mean?

Answer 1

I am going through the same exact thing!! And to make matters worse, I might be pregnant with the guys child. But if you believe the relationship is over then you need to let it go. Talk to him and tell him how you feel and see if you guys can come to a conclusion on it. Maybe you guys can remain friends and then if you guys are meant to be together destiny will bring you guys back together!! Don't stress out about it too much! Good luck.

Answer 2

Let your heart pitter-patter or you may die. Many, such as I get swetty palms; how embarassing. A pitter-patter is better than sweaty palms anyday.

Answer 3

Just try to relax and talk calm.