My best friend and I both like the same guy. The problem is...I think he likes her more than me. He always talks to her first, sits by her at the lunch table...all that good stuff. If I'm near, he waits to talk to me second...only so I don't feel left out. He sits at least one seat away from me...I feel so bad when I see them talking to each other. My best friend says she'll let me have him, because I haven't had many boyfriends. But she flirts with him anyway. What should I do? I can't stop crying...I want this so bad...
2007-02-08 15:59:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I haf a similar prob before when my best fren flirts with my bf. I gt upset after that and talks to both of them abt it. My best fren was understding and distance away frm him.
From what u haf written, im sure that ur best fren dun likes the guy as much as u do since she is willing to gif him up for u. She had chosen friendship instd thou i dont really accept the way she sae she'll let u haf him coz u dun haf many bfs. I wld suggest that if u really likes the guy, do let him knows abt ur feelings or ur best friend can help to pass the message to him.
The reason on why the guy talks to your best fren might also be due to treating her as a gd talking partner nt necessarily means he will haf feelings for her. Be strong n best wishes. U never know if u never try. =)
2007-02-08 16:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by (^InLove^) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her have him, wait for a guy that really likes you, it will just be that much better. But I'd suggest that you tell your friend back off too, nothing's worse than losing a good friend over a guy and she's being a jerk for flirting with him.
2007-02-09 00:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by justpeachee22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the sounds of it, he likes her. How would you feel being with someone you already know wants to be with your friend? That is not fair to yourself. Guys come and go but true friends are there no matter what. If it was me, I would let them two be together cause chances are they aren't going to work out anyway. Don't hurt yourself by living a lie.
2007-02-09 00:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by petenick_1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Dun be too disheartened. Sometimes you cant be sure. A guy that likes you might be uncomfortable talking to you because he's shy. tts why he keeps talking to your fren. However, if he only talks to your fren. Yah, most prob he likes her.
I'm curious. If your fren says she'll let you have him, why is she flirting with him? And do you girls let each other have the guy because the other 1 has lesser boyfriends????
2007-02-09 00:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by Luffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing either of you does will change the fact that he likes her more. She can't just "let you have him" - he's not a pet gerbil, he's a person who makes his own choices about who he wants to be with. You and your friend need to decide if her being with him will damage your friendship too much or if you're OK with it. You can't change his mind about what he wants.
2007-02-09 00:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide what you value more-
your friendship with your best friend-
or a fling with some guy
who is NOT interested in you the way you are
in him-
Once you have figured that out-
you will have answered your own question.
Good Luck*
2007-02-09 00:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look it's just a crash and don't let a boy ruin your friendship with your friend. plus there are many fishes in the sea, be confident and maybe your beautiful and you don't know it because you only care for one guy that you don't realize that there are other guy waiting in line for you. remember friendship first.
good luck, hopefully you'll pick friendship over jealousy.
2007-02-09 00:06:39 · answer #7 · answered by Da 1 N only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl do cry there are so many guys out there this one probably isnt worth ur tears anyway. let her have him and u keep ur inocence she will be the one to end up pregnant or something anyway. u need to focus on school and dont worry about boys til later.
2007-02-09 00:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by bw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1- Your friend is a slime ball because she knows how you feel about this guy and keeps on flirting with him
2-Your crying over him is doing you nothing, but cry because you have no answers
3-He is not interested in you and you are crying over a guy
4-GROW SOME COURAGE AND MOVE ON
5-Dump your crappy friend for flirting with the guy you like and forget about the guy you like who has no interest in you
6-Let a guy find you because you are worth it and never forget it and dump that crappy friend you have.
2007-02-09 00:07:42 · answer #9 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then go get it if you want it so bad, although I'd think that'd be a remarkably bad move. He's not interested in you, get over it and find somebody who is interested in you. He might change his mind later, but crying over it will not help anything.
2007-02-09 00:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jacob P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋