I started talking to an ex-boyfriend again. We were messing around, and one day he wanted to mess around. I told him I would think about it, because he didn't have protection with him. In reality I wasn't going to because I didn't want to end up pregnant again. Well the night before he had asked me to be with him and only him. I wasn't messing around with anyone else, but I just don't feel he's ready to be with me and my daughter. Well the next day he tripped because I had my niece. Is it because I didn't give him any, was he only in it for the sex?
2007-02-08 15:58:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey if you are doubting the fact he's in it for sex and not because he really wants to be w/ you and your babygirl. Then don't take the chance to get hurt and for your kid to get attached and she ends up getting hurt also. Always go with your first thought about something, usually it's always the right one. Maybe tell him that he's going to have to prove to you that he wants to be with you and your kid and it's not just for the sex. cause most guys when their just into it for sex then when a girl tells then that they have to prove to them that they really want you for you and nothing else. you usually never hear from them again, but if they aren't in for the sex then most likely they will stick around. good luck
2007-02-08 16:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he only wants sex to me. Does he support his child equally with you ? He sounds like a player. Once an ex- always an ex is what I always say.
2007-02-08 16:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's kids involved. Get yourself a new real man or ride solo. He is the past. Is he the father? It sounds like he's not, then totally ditch him. There are other fish in the sea.
2007-02-08 16:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tyree D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes in it for the sex hehehe oh and I'm only 12
2007-02-08 16:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Vaan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you give it to him for free, he will continue to look for handouts. Obviously, he get the freebies before, he's hoping the price is still the same.
2007-02-08 16:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he only in for the sex. leave him along he an ex for a good reason
dont you think.you all ready have one child. you dont need another
2007-02-08 16:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think that he is wanting sex.. MAKE him prove himself.. if he really wants to be with you he WILL wait make him wait like 3 months and that will prove he wants to be with you and not just use you.. and if you can you really should get on the pill or some sorta birthcontrol..
2007-02-08 16:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by carrie h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just wants sex. Get rid of him.
2007-02-08 16:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by Dianne 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it.
2007-02-08 16:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In a word, yes. He's just trying to get laid.
2007-02-08 16:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋