I almost feel like calling it quits.
I am not looking, on any sites, or remotely interested in any one but him. My best friend told me to go buy "he's just not that INTO you".......lol........I do like him. We have fun together, however I see he is still very active on the site we met?????? How do I tell him I know about it....he says he is not having sex with anyone else.....nor persuing anyone else. I think he is full of it, but I am not sure how to tactfully tell him how I feel with out sounding insecure,,,I am not. I have no problems getting a date, I just am very very picky. Should I just send him an email, call him, or tell him ??? I am through with feeling as though "he is just not into me".
2007-02-08 18:15:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you meet a person drinking in a bar, don't expect them to stop drinking just because you don't want to drink any more (consider the source, you met him drinking). Most characters are made from where you have been and what you have done. He may be very much into you, but insecure in romantic situations. On-line dating is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get (Forest Gump). Instead of trying to change him, try just having fun and building the relationship. Once you both are feeling secure in the relationship, he will probably curtail or cease on-line dating. Only time will tell, but don't assume that he is not into you. Remember, the only one who welcomes a change is a wet baby, lol. So don't try to change him (you may lose him). Hang in there and Good Luck!
2007-02-08 18:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Eddie's Answers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on-line courting is the most severe cluster **** i have ever experienced. i have met 4 schizophrenic women, a million psycho, numerous with carry close's ranges who're too lazy to replace their resumes or hit upon a job and a million ex-con who stole funds before she went to detention middle. And, distinctive different female divorcees that were married 3 or 4 or 5 cases i have talked about a trend...stay remote from females who've been married better than once ! If she will be ready to't make it artwork on the 2d flow round there is something heavily incorrect with her. final analysis -- do not waste some time on-line. that is a crap shoot.
2016-12-03 22:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there, i understand how you feel as i'm in a similar situation.
my guy / date, whom i know from a site, is still constantly checking out girls or making new gal friends. that did bugged me and made me seriously insecure, i did try to hint and 'tease' him about those girls, to get a reaction from him.
and he told me he was out to make friends, nothing more.
i guess it comes down to trust and whether you are willing to give him the benefit of doubt that he will not cheat.
it's pointless to constantly wonder if he's seeing someone else and getting all upset, in the end, i'm just leaving it to God and him.
you can't force him to stop, as it's the medium that brought you guys together... have a good talk, voice out that it's bugging you, it's always better to get it out of your system.
i would say, ask him out and chat about it, it would do more good than to thrash things out over the phone / email. at least you'll be able to see his expression and settle this for good.
best of luck =)
2007-02-08 18:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by FXY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer this, how active is active on this site?It's always easier said then done but go with your first instinct.Just come straight out and ask him why is he still on the site so much? Don't do the email or calling him, do it face to face so you can see exactly how he reacts
2007-02-08 18:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by bjustnape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really wanna know what he's up to? Have a friend set up an account and message him on there. If he responds, and communicates with her then you have your answer. Whether you actually let him know that your friend happened to message him and then tell you about the great guy she met .. which just so happened to be HIM or not is up to you. You could just end it without letting him in on anything.
Or maybe there's really nothing to worry about!
2007-02-08 18:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by pinkflamingo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not picky at all, you are still seeing this guy who is just not that into you. There are a million other guys you could fall in love with, do what he is doing, keep him as a back up while you look for something better.
2007-02-08 18:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by bestbet77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ask him to get rid of his profile if he cares about you he will consider your feelings and stop,and if it doesn't stop, tell him you might start looking for guys on the side. I bet that would get to him.
2007-02-08 18:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by silvery_moon_rays 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no need to call,to email or to tell him. NO NEED!!!
if he really dumb that he didnt notice u already feeling uncomfortable, then no need for u to do these thing to MAKE him realize.
wat u can do now is trying to be cool and showing ur charming attitude to him...
2007-02-08 18:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by SUMMER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have thought about updating your profile on the dating service and see how he reacts.
2007-02-08 18:26:36 · answer #9 · answered by truck6887 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him out sister! and if he balks...kick him to the curb! you sound like a woman well worth committing to and if he can't see that or needs his ego stroked by cyber-affection you don't need him. go find a man that you deserve!
2007-02-08 18:21:37 · answer #10 · answered by jehorko29 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋