Singles & Dating - 8 February 2007

A friend of mine is asking me for some advice but I'm putting this one to the group...

She's dating a guy who has kids, she manages to see him most evenings and before work if he stays over. From what she says they have different days off and he goes to see his children on a Sunday so doesn't see him then apart from the morning before he leaves and late evening. From what I understand unless arranged way in advance it seems to be a relationship that takes place just in the evenings.

I think the guy is taking the mick myself as she's quite down as they hardly spend time together in the day and she's asking me if she should spread her wings and move on. I can undstand the situation as you'd not want to say "me or the kids" but I'm not sure what to say either.

I'd prefer not to be the one to say do it as I don't want to cause upset.

So, what do you think? I'll print off the replies and show her...

2007-02-08 21:30:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

In one week i feel i already knew her, i feel i understand her perfectly well, i wanna marry her immediately. but parents and friends insist i court her, why do i need that.

2007-02-08 21:29:05 · 13 answers · asked by dessy 2

I've been with my bf for 1.5 yrs, through which I've had doubts but ignored them because I thought I wanted it to work. I rushed into this relationship after breaking up with a man I loved but who was so unstable. I didn't have any time to myself to heal from the other relationship because my current boyfriend pursued me so hard and didn't allow me to be alone (he moved to where I was living).

I've been apart from him for a month for the first time since we've been together and all my doubts have come through. I realize I am not in love with him and he deserves someone who can give him 100%. I began to tell him my thoughts and we were communicating alright- he was understanding where I was coming from.

But then he crashed at my sister's and she didn't log off her email and he went on her computer and saw the mail I wrote her-blunt, no soft edges and words I wouldn't have said exactly to him- now he hates me and he's hurting and I'm hurting too and I don't know how to feel better.

2007-02-08 21:26:31 · 8 answers · asked by boo 1

Girls and guys would you feel a bit hurt if you were in a relationship of 5 years pushing 6 and your relationship was going good, living together ect.. but your boyfriend hasn't proposed or isn't planning to anytime soon. We have talked about it because I brought up the fact that I wanted to have children and he said he wanted to be married to the person first, thats fine but that was two years ago. We fight about it all the time to the point of it being uncomfortable. Everytime a commercial comes on the t.v that is about baby stuff or something similar he always either starts talking about anything or gets up, or reaches for his drink just so were not left staring at the t.v watching this ad.
It really annoys me and I've told him that i've noticed this pattern but he acts as if though he doesn't know what I'm talking about.
Basicaly he has said he wants marraige and the children, he has always said this but, helloooo it's 5 going on 6 years, I'm over it!
Whats your opinion?

2007-02-08 21:26:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this guy... and someone told him that i liked him. And 2-3 weeks after that.. people have been saying that he has a crush on me and stuff.. do u think he only likes me cos he thinks i like him.. or has he actually developed feelings for me??

2007-02-08 21:23:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

About two years ago I used to hang out with his guy who was about 26 and he was still a virgin. He really liked me and hinted around AND told my mom that he wanted to date me. The problem was he was kind of overweight and I wasn't attracted to him but he was good looking. Plus he is really super smart, and straight as an arrow, the total opposite of me. I always would kidd around with him and call him a dork b/c he is one, but i wasn't mean to him. Anyhow since then he's lost a little weight and he's dating this hot blonde now. I am so totally jealous, am I wrong for feeling this way? Do you think he still might be interested in me? I'm not hot or a blonde, do i have a chance? lol probably not, huh?

2007-02-08 21:23:19 · 16 answers · asked by DiG iT 3

"what you did really warmed my heart"

2007-02-08 21:22:33 · 7 answers · asked by s 1

Need advise pls. Which is more important? Having a bf who loves you so much and is true to you and thinks ya God's greatest gift yet not as charming, eloquent and humourous as you want your guy to be OR someone who speaks so well, humourous, extremely charming yet you might not really be on his top priority?

2007-02-08 21:22:12 · 6 answers · asked by Wish 4

My friend is trying to set me up with one of her guy friends. I said I'd be willing to get to know him, but only as friends for now and that I don't want to rush into anything. So we made plans to all go out as a group this weekend. Well the other night, I talked to him on the phone for the first time. I could just tell our personalities do not click and I've lost all interest in meeting him and now he's calling me and emailing me constantly. I've already come up with an excuse to cancel our plans for the weekend, but what am I supposed to do now? I'm annoyed that even after explaining that I'm just wanting to be friends, he still calls me almost every night. Isn't that a little pushy? Anyways, is it best to tell my matchmaker friend that I'm no longer interested or should I make up an excuse like I've met someone else? Or should I explain it to him directly eventhough we've only spoken once?

2007-02-08 21:20:54 · 12 answers · asked by Ms. M 3

2007-02-08 21:20:04 · 12 answers · asked by brod_dj 1

X (i love him as i love my brother)wants me to be his girlfriend, but i'm still waiting for Y that i love to ask me to be his girlfriend.
so, what should i do? should i be X's girlfriend?
or should i wait for Y and rejected X?

2007-02-08 21:17:27 · 8 answers · asked by dRafz 1

yes a good s*ag but wot else could i do

2007-02-08 21:16:57 · 11 answers · asked by tootytoon 3

2007-02-08 21:15:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Girls! help please

2007-02-08 21:10:26 · 9 answers · asked by Toothsharp 1

Theres this guy... and someone told him that i liked him. And 2-3 weeks after that.. people have been saying that he has a crush on me and stuff.. do u think he only likes me cos he thinks i like him.. or has he actually developed feelings for me??

2007-02-08 21:04:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 19 year old guy and still a virgin. What do you think when I a guy this age is still a virgin? Should I hurry up and get some experience?

2007-02-08 21:03:35 · 21 answers · asked by James 2

i need help my last kiss ended up with a slap :(

2007-02-08 20:49:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you beleive in destiny?

2007-02-08 20:49:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My gf recently ran into one of her guy friends shes known along time from school so she said she talked to him and found out that he lives in my apartment complex, so she goes to visit him or whatever and she said they seen me going up the stairs and he saw me, so then HE tells her, is his mom fat? she says no, and ask why, he says he SAW ME talking to a girl outside in front of my apartment. this is a lie because i was inside ALL DAY watching the Super Bowl. So she calls me up saying have you been seenin your ex! i say no, my ex is in San Francisco she says well who was that girl you was talking to? i wasn't talkin to anyone. so she tells me what her guy friend told her, i tell her he is lying, she doesn't believe me at all. today i seen her car backing out the parking lot while im home, i call her up and ask what she doin she says she was dropping somethin off at the guys house. her friend lied to her twice! but still talks to him. what should i do? sound like he tried to break us up

2007-02-08 20:40:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi , I found a japanese girl from my class , and she is very cool .
are they hot ? I mean japanese ?
do they lile sex ?
How can I start ? what do they like ?

2007-02-08 20:40:03 · 14 answers · asked by camtocam_sina 1

2007-02-08 20:39:45 · 12 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2

2007-02-08 20:34:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, i'm 16 and theres this guy who i've like for over a year. We've picked up before but nothing eventuated. We've known each other since littlies but have only recently become kinda close.
We hang out alot and he used to like my bestie.He's really good looking and loved by most of the girls and he knows it. We see each other at school and have the same friends but we never go past the basic conversations. On the w/e he'll msg me to ask wats hapnin and if i'm goin to the party thats on and we'll have a pretty good chat but then that's it. Im not sure if he wants to know if i'm goin cos he's interested in me or my friends...
We'll go to parties together but when we get there i wont see him till later on after i've seen him with a girl or two... and we'll be drunk and we'll flirt and hug and kinda kiss but then thats it. Never talked about again. Im SO confused and its hard to explain :-( I've made him sound like a sleezy dude but he isnt. We'll give the glances, surf together

2007-02-08 20:33:30 · 7 answers · asked by aims 1

2007-02-08 20:33:05 · 13 answers · asked by Eevie 1

2007-02-08 20:31:35 · 18 answers · asked by coconutCake 1

I've done it before and it wasn't all that bad.... His friends say that b4 he met me he was sorta wild. But now he's REALLY mild. Almost to the point of boring. PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-02-08 20:28:08 · 5 answers · asked by afreeca812 2

2007-02-08 20:27:41 · 17 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2

He totally broke my heart and made a fool out of me, and even though I learned my lesson I still get the urge to make him go through the humiliation he caused me.

2007-02-08 20:22:41 · 21 answers · asked by wildfl0wer66 2

several times i went to the house of a friend. there i met her BF and her friend (a nice beautiful girl), . we had nice times all together chatting, having dinners at her place etc...

i now know that girl for two months but we met around 6 times only. Recently i managed to get a date with her to cinema and pub. On that very first date i gave her a rose and told her that i like her.
was it too early for that? in previous times when i waited too long i've lost the one i liked. so what if i said it on the first date??

but she didn't say anything... she was shy about the subject. but we had nice time together.

2007-02-08 20:22:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its reli bugging me. i was wonderin wat do 17 year old boys look 4 in a gal n how do i no if a boy lyks me?????????

2007-02-08 20:18:53 · 16 answers · asked by jodie c 1