is that true? i'm in a process of getting back with my ex. i know this sounds crap and immature. the reason we broke up last time was mainly about communication and he didn't give me enough attention. so i called it off.
or is it best for us to just remain friends.
2007-02-08 18:37:39 · 10 answers · asked by Ms. M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could work if BOTH of you guys put into practice what you've learned from the past and are willing to put in the effort to get to know one another better, work out the differences that made you break up in the first place, give each other respect and love and of course COMMUNICATE!!
I did get back with my ex and it didn't work out in the end but we became friends afterwards for a while until I moved away...
But this could work for you... ^_^
2007-02-08 18:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by ♥☺ bratiskim∞! ☺♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Based on the few things you have stated, I would say that it depends on a few different things; first the time line that you have been apart and second, your maturity levels. Sometimes, distance apart gives each person time to really think about what went into the relationship, what each gave to the relationship and what they could have done to make it better. If sometime has passed and now you both have communicated both your points of view, each listening to the other than what's the harm in giving it another shot? Nothing to lose and everything to gain if you don't try, you'll always wonder what might have been, right. Change is difficult for everyone, it takes time and patience, just make sure you are willing to commit the energy. I wish you the Best! Sincerely, OneDreamCaster
2007-02-09 02:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's not all true, Sometimes they just need a wake up call to realize what they did wrong. And the second time could be better. At least he won't leave you without the attention that you want. He will know better now.
2007-02-09 02:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by lsal_lizzys 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is NOT crap or immature if you felt something special with him go for it get back to your root's and find love with him again.=]
Friend's are forever so do both.
Be friends and if you feel a Love connection with him then explain exactly how you feel.
Telling him how you feel will make all the difference in the world trust me=]
I hope it all works out for you =]
2007-02-09 02:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I got back with my ex, but in a totally different way. We see each other every week or 10 days. We don't live together. We get along much better this way and while we sometimes are intimate, those are rare occasions. I love her, but I am fortunately not in love with her. As a favorite song of mine says, "If you're gonna make a mistake, don't ya make it twice."
2007-02-09 03:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is worth it then a try makes sense maybe he has changed and is more mature so he will also realise wht went wrong a tentative approach is nice dont commit ur self complete leave a space to get out emotionally unscathed in case things go wrong again .................gud luck
2007-02-09 02:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by morpheusthe dream 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're going to make mistakes no matter what you do. do what you think is going to make you happy. if you don't try it again then i guess you'll never know what you could have had.
2007-02-09 02:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by liliaceae_aletris 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how long were u guys separated?
it can work. but its rare...i am not gonna lie..
ppl dont change like that. he is who he is...you cant want him to be who you want him to be
good luck
2007-02-09 02:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by happygirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with trying it again.
2007-02-09 02:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by Sherlock H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stay friends...
2007-02-09 02:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋