Singles & Dating - 3 February 2007

I'm moving so I could be closer to my gf (that was once 5 hours away) so now I can live with her. We've been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years and we've recently gotten engaged.

So I find a perfect college (private school), I plan to go there in a couple of months. But the problem is, is that the school is about 50 minutes to an hour or more (not including traffic) away from her house. She suggests that I go to a college closer to her house but one that I am not very fond of...We argue about it everytime I mention about the school of my choice. What should I do? Invest money and time to the college that I actually want to go to and possibly rent out a room with a roomate. OR save a bit of money and live with my girlfriend and go to the second college of choice? OR just drive the hour+?

2007-02-03 20:41:38 · 5 answers · asked by blob888 2

a guy slips in the tongue when your kissing??? or is it just guys who get off on that???

2007-02-03 20:38:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a great girl, online...about 6 or 7 months ago...we both really liked eachother but I had issues meeting with someone I met from the internet. I was worried about what people might think, she eventually got fed up and said that "she has to let go". That was yesterday. I was in such a state I opened up and my parents said to me that all along it shouldnt have mattered how we met...but that we met. It's like the curse is lifted, opening up has just made me not care about opinions of others and just go and see her, but I don't know how to take the next step to getting her back on my side. I'm so ready for it...ironically at the time she probably isn't, any help?...please...

2007-02-03 20:31:58 · 11 answers · asked by CJ 1

Hands up who believes in this? what goes around comes arond. do good things n good things happen? do bad things n ur F@#*ed?

2007-02-03 20:31:27 · 14 answers · asked by stevieglenwright 3

i am like. i cant explain how much i love this girl. she doesent know it. i do. and i wanna know if she likes me back. what are things she might do if she likes me. or avoid doing to make it look like she doesent. im curiuse. if she doesent like me then i will ask her out just to be sure and see. but what are some things she might do?

2007-02-03 20:30:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I have something, he might say to his friend if he has any but he never asked me. One time he shouted that he needed a pencil so I gave him a pencil. He never had the nerve to ask me because we sit next to each other.

2007-02-03 20:29:26 · 5 answers · asked by Questions 3

Mostly Chatter r not open hearted. They always hide every importat thing frm them ( like their pic and c.no). I know it is not easy to trust any1 in 3-4 meeting.But i m talking when u knew mostly evrything abt eachother.Anybody there who donot think there is Difference b/w real frdship and net frdship ? meet me at some1rahul in messenger id

2007-02-03 20:27:56 · 2 answers · asked by rahul 2

I was with some college friends gathering when a girl in the group (who kept checkinh me out the whole time)that I dont know told one of my female friends that I am a DJ,
is that a good thing or not?
and what that means?
there was no music or anything related to DJ!
what that mean?

2007-02-03 20:24:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my fiance a lot.We were planning to get married in the end of 2007.But due to some unavoidable circumstances all our plans are shattered.But thats not the problem.Now a days we fight a lot when we talk.I dont know what the problem is but he is always getting irritated with me.I tried to share my thoughts with him but I realised that due to my sharing he became more angry.In his anger he even asked me to leave him if Im not satisfied with him.He said lots of things which hurt me.But i thought maybe his work pressures have taken toll on him.I try to talk to him calmly but I am not getting his loving and caring words.he talks too harshly now.When i asked him what the problem is he said that he is the same like before only i am feeling wrong about him and blaming him.I dont know what to do to stop all this.i really love him and want his love.im very disturbed please help me.
p.s.his sister went through a very disturbing phase of her life a month ago.

2007-02-03 20:22:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy friend of mine has gotten 0-r-a-l from me twice when we fooled around. We also did it very quick one time (he c@me in 1 minute - so it was quick) It was fun but I dont feel comfortable doing stuff like that outside of dating a guy. (Ive only slept with one other man before this)
I like him but I want to tell him that Im only happy doing 0-r-a-l with a guy Im dating. And that although I think he's a cool friend we'd have to be dating for me to ever do that again.
Shall I just explain it plainly to him ?
Say sorry 0-R-A-L is reserved for guys whom Im dating not just casual with ?

2007-02-03 20:17:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was told that its not so feminine to do so but isnt laughing juz an appreciation of good humour? muz there be a sound barrier for laughter to redeem it an acceptable laughter?

2007-02-03 20:15:53 · 20 answers · asked by fizadora 5

like tell me what sort O f symtons I would have etc talking loudly or whatever!!!

2007-02-03 20:15:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well theres this GUY name Luis.well were been friends for along time now.And i've alwayz liked him.And he knows.but idk!he tells me he likes me to and can be mean sometimes.and he can make me CRY!but i still like him.idk what to do?should i move on?he tells me he LOVES me but i kno he doesn't.and it doesn't help he lie.Hes older then me but just a year!he said he won't go out with me cuz of that.but he still acts like he likes me and thats what drives me crayz.O hes really HOTT!!!He alwayz hugs me and bugs me but what should i do!!

2007-02-03 20:13:57 · 11 answers · asked by Renee 1

I'm curious to know how guys will know if a gal is still a virgin?? Can list down all the possible facts???

2007-02-03 20:10:18 · 16 answers · asked by no name 1

I'm bad with words. Tomorrow night at her place will be the opportunity to ask the question. What should I say?

2007-02-03 20:09:10 · 12 answers · asked by Phillip 4

I fell in love with a girl days ago and I thought she fell in love with me too. We have been going like that for months...But then, I realized she was only using me for her benifits (she told me that she didnt love me and she saidd she only befriended me because i help her in certain things)...Today, i am falling in love her best friend, I felt exactly the same way as i did with the first girl...Will i give this new relationship a chance? Or ill just end up making the same mistakes? Help! :(

2007-02-03 20:07:23 · 10 answers · asked by camerlengo 2

I haven't come across hardly any men who don't just try to tell me things I want to hear.

2007-02-03 20:06:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am older than 18 and I've never had a valentine. throughout high school guys liked me but never gave me anything or ask me to be their valentine. i feel like im not worthy enough to be anyone's valentine. any ideas on what i can do to feel better?

2007-02-03 20:05:10 · 15 answers · asked by truth hurts 4

my ex and i purchased a big screen, then we broke up and we had agreed to each split the bill even though i will be keeping the tv. well when time came to pay up he changed it to he 'll be making payments instead of just going ahead and paying his share off. so we can just be done with this. he has the money but he just wants to drag this out. i have my share but im not paying it all until he comes up with all of his, because its in his name. he may back out on paying. well he keeps calling me talking about it and i just want this over with. he could have been payed it off but he just wants a reason to hang on. i also met a new guy and i feel more peace but taking it slow. my ex was very mean and ignored me thru out the relationship. i just think he will keep bothering me. how do i move pass this and forget him. once he pays his share we agreed to i dont have to talk to him anymore. what would you do in a situation like this?

2007-02-03 20:00:26 · 11 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

i m 24 m from italy,i m very romance and&dream sience i was child a beautiful girl to love.share life, have babies,have love story
but i want a woman love and desire me same strong i do
because i love to love and be loved in the same time same stength

i love too much
i desire all female body from head to feet
i desire womanly feet and legs
i have very high sex drive ( women have low testseron- the fuel of desire)
i hv lots of fantasies
i love woman's clothes with her sweat smell
i am very visual
i am totally hetasexual&find same sex stuff disgusting for me( most women fantasize about eachothers)
i am very emotional&romantic , i am interested in poem ,giving flowers,have a dinner with candels,have sex in empty place at beach under the moon , i will worship her,die for her,she will be all my life
so pls ladies can i find a woman like me love and desire me to that limit
very romantic,visual,horney..etc or women are less thn us in libedo,visual,fetishes,hetasexual,romance?

2007-02-03 19:59:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-03 19:57:08 · 22 answers · asked by in_da_skateboarder 1

I'm currently with a guy who is 10 years older then me i'm 21 this year, but after going out a few times and communicating with him. I realised that we are from different backgrounds and i found it weird when going out together with him as i felt that he is too mature in looks for me. His behaviour and fashion sense don't seem to be the real bf i want, looks a bit old not like 31, although he have gd career, drives, have good education and live in condominium. He said he will take care of me forever, but i really mind a bit on his looks. I thought of breaking up with him but i don't know how to tell him. Should i??? Frankly speaking until now i still have feelings for my guy friend whom i know quite long and share a lot of things with one another. I did not tell him i went out with bf yet. I know breaking up sure hurt bf but i also don't want it. I think i'm not ready to settle down and have a relationship. I think that being single may be the best choice for me. Please advice me how??

2007-02-03 19:55:04 · 10 answers · asked by no name 1

2007-02-03 19:52:33 · 6 answers · asked by glossy, flossy, & fly 2

when it comes to looking/finding a man/women? Why do we want to have someone that looks like Brad Pitt or Eva Longoria when we know we aren't going to get them..... I know I have high standards but do others try and go above their statis and actually do find happiness or are they more game players - better looking people -because they know more people look and they have more options/opportunities....

2007-02-03 19:52:27 · 5 answers · asked by sexy rack 2

Guys, will you tell a girl your personal stuff? like, if the girl was teasing whether you have someone you are fond of, you actually tell her that you do, just that the girl you are fond of is attached and you cant possibly go after her. If the girl ain't really your close friend, is it trying to hint at something else?

2007-02-03 19:51:28 · 8 answers · asked by isabella 2

2007-02-03 19:45:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get anywhere since a lot of girls put out.

2007-02-03 19:44:54 · 5 answers · asked by Hottie 1

I like this guy.He always used to talk to me. Then one day he stopped talking to me as much. It was like he would hardly talk to me for two weeks and then he was back to normal again. Another thing i have noticed is that when we used to talk he's look at me for a little too long. so much so that i woud have to look away.Now sometimes i feel that he avoids eye contact with me.Not all of the time just sometimes.I've seen him looking at me a few times. He'd look and then look away a few times and sometimes when i see him looking at me he won't look away.He smiles often when we talk and it seems as though he tries to get my attention physically.And he teases me. and brings me into conversations with other people or enters my conversations with other people.So why does he talk to me sometimes and not others?i'm confused

2007-02-03 19:44:13 · 4 answers · asked by debra 2

whats your best experience with online dating?

2007-02-03 19:43:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

She use to be a coworker and we barely know each other. I asked her out to dinner and she accepted. I think, she thinks this dinner is more of a chilling type of thing and not like a date. So I'm confused of either getting her flowers or not. If I do and she thinks of it the wrong way I'm afraid it might ruin the whole day.

2007-02-03 19:40:58 · 11 answers · asked by Joe B 1