Singles & Dating - 3 February 2007

I was dating a 21 year old recently (I'm 37). It was just a thing. In the heat of the moment, he said "Did you ever think you'd get ****** by a 21 year old?" How stupid. I was 21 once, and was dating people my age then. Just words of wisdom folks...don't blow it at the last moment (no pun intended)...

2007-02-03 22:18:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've had a guy come visit me, lately its been more frequent. He's 8 years younger than me. I've always been attracted to him and he makes me laugh and feel alive. We finally kissed and oh my god..... he's too rough and even left me with a kinked neck. How can I get him to kiss softer and passionately without sounding like a b---h.?

2007-02-03 22:17:23 · 7 answers · asked by hot single mom 4

Please don't say "you'll just know"

Having doubts about his feelings, is a bad sign; but I do have doubts! And it is a bad sign! I KNOW! :s

It's just sometimes you want to be sure.. Everyone needs evidence..

And this is my question..

What are the things that make you feel sure..?

E.g.:
- Does he have to buy a flower everyday?
- Call off all his plans just once for me?
- Fight with a guy that's been bugging me?
- Write love letters?

WHAT IS THAT THING that makes you say "this guy, he really loves me.."

I hope the answer isn't "every guy has his own way.."

2007-02-03 22:16:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girl friend and I like to kiss a lot, but she told me that I just never do it perfectly. Girls, is there a spacific way that girls want to be kissed? I need some tips!

2007-02-03 22:13:17 · 9 answers · asked by Remember The Name 1

i've noticed this... some guys i know are perfectly nice when they're just with me... but act totally weird and hardly pay any attention when they are with their friends.. why is this??

2007-02-03 22:12:31 · 11 answers · asked by I'm insane 3

we are both about 50. we really hit off and what was supposed to be a quick meeting for a coffee and we ended up being together until 10-30pm. i couldn't sleep all night, i have a tingling sensation through my body and feel like i am a teenager again.
is this is love at first site and How long before i should tell her?

2007-02-03 22:11:49 · 6 answers · asked by curlyloxx 3

I lost a bet to my girlfriend. Now she owns me forever. I have become her little slave. I have do everything for her. She makes me tie her shoes, carry her books, brush her hair, clean her shoes, be her foot rest, buy her lunch, etc. I have no big problem with this. She is a loving person. It's just that I lost. Has your girlfriend ever done this to you? (Girls, have you ever done this to your boy friend)?

2007-02-03 22:09:48 · 10 answers · asked by Remember The Name 1

2007-02-03 22:09:38 · 8 answers · asked by Janice M 2

2007-02-03 22:05:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

she's 21 and he's 34. they meet at the same time everyday and talk for more than 2 hours. they don't really sweet talk each other. they talk about each other's lives, what happened for the day, each other's parents, friends, bros, and sis, interests and they do have a lot in common, when we are together shopping and it's time for them to talk she would say, we gotta go home. then there was a time she goes on night shift so she couldn't make it for how many weeks talking to him, she didn't inform him or anything why she couldn't be there but he sends her emails and they're they go talking again about each other. im really just wondering? do you think there could be a possibility that they will fall in love with each other granting their age gap?? or what is your opinion? what do you think is in what they have together if they have something?? could they really just be friends? what's your opinion? anything?

2007-02-03 21:50:03 · 12 answers · asked by terra 4

After sending a very harsh complaining email to my bf, I got him really upset..

I said things like why can't we take our relationship a small step further (since it’s been two years); why don't we go out as much, and why has he stopped calling me like he used to.. I did not compare him with any other person, I didn't even swear, there was just a lot of heavy duty complaining (all piled-up in one email) everything I never had the guts to say to his face I said in the email..

Just not the in the same way I’m saying it now..

He wouldn't answer my calls and he barely replied to my text messages. Perhaps I shocked him.. He was just totally ignoring me.. Note: whether you believe it or not, I called him about 40 times, with at least 10 messages.. I was really sorry for what I did.. I just wanted to say I was.. He wouldn't even give me that chance..

I began to cry.. I just felt really bad..

Do I have the right to get frustrated? Or did I disserve this?

Should I still call?

2007-02-03 21:39:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

You tell a single guy who you know he's interested in you that you have a feeling for him.
-He tells you he's involved with another woman right now
-However, within 2 minutes he says: BUT it's "not" too serious & such these cases just come and go in your life

- Is he really interested in having a relationship with you???????????

2007-02-03 21:38:58 · 11 answers · asked by ELK 1

everyone says me and my boyfriend are the worst couple ever beacause "im amazingly beautiful and hes so freakin ugly" then also say "you can do so much better!" but, i really dont want to! i love him and honestly the last thing i care about is looks...i look at personality first. What should i do?

2007-02-03 21:36:41 · 15 answers · asked by lanny s 1

2007-02-03 21:34:45 · 5 answers · asked by chunky 1

Actually wen he is not in front of me i feel like kissing him but wen i see him ifeel shy but he says me to try once wat to do?i even dont kno how to do it.....

2007-02-03 21:34:45 · 23 answers · asked by pakistani 1

than to live with the psycho for the rest of your life ? :)

2007-02-03 21:31:11 · 22 answers · asked by looby 6

i'd like 2 knw if i can live wid my girlfrend away frm home together without marrying because we r under marriagable age tht is both of us are 18 plus but males need to be 21 in india location india indian laws apply pls pls advice oh and wat is the age requiered 2 leave home and live on own agianst parents wishs pls do not see this in a wrong manner my girlfrnds n my situation is tht bad pls understand . . sincere thanks

2007-02-03 21:30:39 · 5 answers · asked by mostwanted_heartbeat 1

2007-02-03 21:30:14 · 3 answers · asked by abhi 1

I'm really starting to fall for my good guy friend now.We've been friends for a while, but we don't talk that much. I do want a boyfriend, but I can't really see me with him, even though I want to. My friend has been trying to set us up for a while, but I didn't like him then, but I do now! I don't think he would look at me as more than a girlfriend. I really don't know what to do!

2007-02-03 21:17:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-03 21:05:49 · 10 answers · asked by jay 2

I read my harscope daily and sometimes its right ..

2007-02-03 21:00:50 · 11 answers · asked by amyhamad 1

why women have to be so sentimental and their hearts are so fragile as they will get hurt easily when they in love with someone?how to stay calm, steady and wont get dreadful when get separated with someone ?

2007-02-03 21:00:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanna known if cyberlove has a change to survive ,without seeing each other in real.

2007-02-03 21:00:00 · 8 answers · asked by eljamato 1

Hi, i was just wondering how exactly do you end a date. Eg. You take a girl out for coffee, and you really would like to continue seeing her, but what do you say to end it. You can't just say, umm yeah see you later, and walk off. You have to say something otherwise both of you will be sitting there for hours on end.

2007-02-03 20:56:23 · 14 answers · asked by James H 2

my problem is.

2007-02-03 20:50:12 · 9 answers · asked by beer buddy 1

look i am getting married and i am virgin. i have not much idea about sex. since my first night is cominh can you please tell me what are the things a man do in sex

2007-02-03 20:49:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

am a girl of 15 and really love a boy of 17.but i cant understand whether he likess me or not.actually he is very reserved kind of person but friendly to me.but i cant say whether he likes me or not.so can u all pls help me how to attract him.pplzzzzzzzzzz
tip:he is a bit shy,handsoome,inteliigent,smart,a bit short-temper and bit unfriendly but veryyy decent.

2007-02-03 20:49:33 · 10 answers · asked by SONIYA 2

A friend of mine keeps stressing the fact that we as women do not always realize the power we were born with to lure, snare, and capture, and fulfill a man's desire, and of course to love helplessly....and how she would love to be in a man's shoes or should i say head for just one day to see and feel the sexual turmoil their minds must be in when seeing a hot babe....so what do some men do to tackle their lust? does every thing tend to rise to the occasion.....or have some men become masters of surpressing what they feel?.....how hard is it to control what you are feeling?...this is a question my friend said i should ask, and i'm curious.

2007-02-03 20:45:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my best friend is handling 2 boyfriends? what should i do!?!

2007-02-03 20:43:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i fell in love with this guy named Josh but he broke my heart.. just a week ago keep in mind... and his best friend actually text me the text that told me Josh liked someone else. then his best friend was always there for me and being so caring and nice.... so anyways then we went out to the movies as just friends, i made sure he knew that... and then tonight he said he was thinking about me a lot and couldn't get me off his mind today. then he said I like you A lot.. and he said he wishes he didn't like me since i still like josh. but then he says so you dont feel any connection between me and you? "because whenever i spend time with you there is no where i'd rather be." so then i had to tell him the truth of course... that i did not see him as more than just friends because he is best friends with Josh. I feel horrible though.. but i didn't want to lead him on.. because i know how much that hurts. but do you think this will ruin our good friendship? what should i do? any advice

2007-02-03 20:42:11 · 6 answers · asked by coolio 4