Singles & Dating - 31 January 2007

I am hanging out with one of the hottest guys (Looks and Personality wise) I have ever met. I've known him for years and we could never be together because it wasn't the right timing. We were involved in relationships at the time. We got reunited about a month or so ago and have hungout a few times. I play very hard to get (I don't call or text him, I don't want to be desperate and PLUS everyone likes their space). Its been SO hard not to act like the typical girls that try and get his attention and chase him. I know that anything you chase in life will run away so I have had him contact me and make plans with me .. he's been chasing me and I think its working! I'm not very availible to him and I have respect for myself I'm not a doormat. He treats me with so much respect and I reallly think he likes me. I don't wanna be like every other girl in the world that wants him because when I see him he seriously takes my breath away. I want to settle down eventually and I would be satisfied with him (I'm 22 he's 26)soo does playing hard 2 get work? help!

2007-01-31 19:37:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

QUESTION?

2007-01-31 19:33:11 · 9 answers · asked by ghostguff3 2

2007-01-31 19:32:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is a builder. he INSISTS on buying me presents and doing repair + decor jobs around my flat. he will not accept any money for his work. we have only been together 2 months and really, i can't see any future in it. i am not serious about him. i have TOLD him this and he says it's ok, he is doing it because he feel sorry for me because i have no money. i am grateful for what he is doing but i feel he may want something in return. shall i shut him out of my life?

2007-01-31 19:32:47 · 18 answers · asked by staffbull 1

so our sex isnt the best. how can i add alot of sexiness?? like different things to do and such.

2007-01-31 19:32:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

The relationship with my bf of a month.... It's filled with double standards. Do you agree?

Example 1: Lately he's been having some issues at his work and said he's not ready to talk about it. I respect that and told him that I'm here if he's ever ready to talkt. Meanwhile, I got sick. It's nothing major so I didn't want to worry him, as he already got some issues to worry about, and really rather not talk about it. But he was extremely upset when I told him I didn't want to talk to him about my condition. I feel that I am giving him space for his problem. Why can he give me some space for mine?

Example 2: He said he will be busy for a week around end of Feb with his work and probably will not have time to see me. I said OK and also told him that I will have time like that in April due to my work. He was extremely upset saying that he felt like I was retorting. I thought I'd share my schedule.

Things like this happens all the time between us. Am I not being reasonable?

2007-01-31 19:29:23 · 9 answers · asked by Sweetie 3

I have a boyfriend, but I text message my guy friend who lives in another state. The conversations are funny to us, but to an ousider looking in it may seem like a little more than flirting. We both know that we are joking but my boyfriend gets upset about our conversations.

2007-01-31 19:29:19 · 9 answers · asked by luvbby6 1

Idon see any future with my boyfriend i don know what to do he s not stable no job en time is running out what should i do??? I DON know when we will settle or plan to have a fammily, am tired of waitin..

2007-01-31 19:29:08 · 6 answers · asked by cnzuu 1

2007-01-31 19:28:21 · 16 answers · asked by ◄Hercules► 6

i have a friend that just foujnd out that her boyfriend for 9 years was cheating and he said it was because of her not showing enough love and respect but on his brithday she buys him anything he could ever want and more .He told her that things like that happens when men dont get the love and respect that need ,that they'll find another women that will.now thats just down right DISSRESPECTFUL

2007-01-31 19:26:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok when shy girls like a guy, how do they act when hes around? do they always make it obvious?

2007-01-31 19:24:09 · 16 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1

What is the best way to get a girl's attention?

2007-01-31 19:23:21 · 21 answers · asked by zipperfish567 1

ok i have a guy friend, he flirts with me..but he knows im taken and he just went thro a break up (a long realtionship) tells me all about it, i give him advise etc. io saw a poem or flow he wrote on his page i read it messaged him told him i liked it etc. then he tells me to call him on his cell so i can hear is voice mail (cause he says him and his ex are talking again) do you think it's just a excuse for me to call him so he can talk to me on the phone???

his ex is with someone else. we talk and messaged each other i unno why he would want me to call.

2007-01-31 19:20:39 · 11 answers · asked by ♥!BabyDoLL!♥ 5

2007-01-31 19:20:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok guys.....if you like a girl,but you dont know she likes you.If you move on and get a g/f,but you and your g/f dont work out,and the other girl you liked asked you out,what would you say?

2007-01-31 19:20:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-31 19:19:40 · 35 answers · asked by knight of darkness 1

She is always asking the same question time and time again I answered the first few times very sincerely but as she has asked this same question so many times a couple of times I have joked and put down things that was funny not only to me other people have agreed but she can't see the funny side.

Anyway my question is why do people leave themselves open to ridicule do they like to be insulted or is it a cry for attention or is it because they are so insecure they are in constant need of reassurance because this is what this girl is in need of and that is why she keeps asking exactly the same question

2007-01-31 19:18:57 · 17 answers · asked by Peachy Girl 4

2007-01-31 19:15:38 · 1 answers · asked by Moo Sayers >:( 1

Okay I am 19 years old, and my girlfriend is 20, we both work the same job at a retail store, I do dock work and she works in the mens clothing department. my girlfriend always laughs at other guys even when something isnt funny she may just look at them and laugh and smile even when I'm there,she's also 5 months pregnant with my baby, and I know she love me, and I love her, but I always find her smiling and laughing with other co-workers, and theres this one guy she says she on't like, and she doesn't talk to him, but I dont know how sure she is about that, because she always laughs at him, but she says she doesnt like him, how can I tell if my girlfriend is attracted to another guy? what details should I look for? she don't touch them she just always laugh and smile at them, she say their funny to her but she laughs a lot!

2007-01-31 19:15:29 · 5 answers · asked by GRS 1

4months ago My ex left me after 5 years...she never really gave me a good excuse...some of them were I was 19 and you were 24 when we met...I'm changing now and that I'm not around a lot because of my job
any how, I knew she stopped loving me and I cant force any one to love me so I let her go and told my self it wasn't meant to be. I tried as hard as I could to get her out of my head. I succeed for the most part but sometimes she will pup into my head and when I start thinking how she broke it off it brings tears to my eyes...
why is this happening to me....am i no over her yet?
I'm a grown man for crying out loud and should be able to handle this like one to and not like a high school freshman

I'm kind of seeing this women right now, I like her a lot but not sure if I'll ever be able to love another women on a level that I did...had my hart broken one too many times.....
I'm almost 30 and I 75% sure that I do not want to get married ever and kids scare me too.....am I damaged goods?

2007-01-31 19:13:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it okay to ask out someone to be their boyfriend?
is it okay to ask out someone to be their boyfriend without actually knowing each other well.
i mean it's risky but see it's much easier to get to know him and now he would have a reason to hang and talk to me?!
i mean checking each other out would be great except that we are both shy soo what do yoo think?

2007-01-31 19:08:33 · 13 answers · asked by LanaL0V3 2

I am 38 years of age and single, people around me compel me to get married but I dont feel comfortable to get married as long or soon as I find sme right match for me. Even some time people around me suspect about my character, it is very frustrating some time. why So?

2007-01-31 19:07:03 · 12 answers · asked by Rajesh 3

Ok i realy want to give my bf a bj but im afraid that im gona do sonmething wrong i only did it once before so i dont have the necesary experience, and i know that my bf will enjoy it.

2007-01-31 19:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by SAgirl 5

He is happily married for 14 years and came to India to take his family back to US. He was a classmate of my wife who has two great kids and they had been in email contact for one year and I found a passionate love letter written by my wife to him but not sent. She says how she felt security love and affetion when they met in a resort on her suggestion. This letter was written 3 days before his departure at 4AM. He even visited us with his family and I was introduced to him. I wonder what he could have done to make my wife write such a passionate loveletter which says how she loves and needs him a lot and begs him not to forget her. That guy is a family man and god fearing as I understand it from my wife. She says she wrote it in a fit of fantacy. Do women write love letters to every classmate they happen to meet or whoever offers emotional support? Could he have done something to get her while she has been so nice to me all the while. What is it he gains by it as I don't see any?

2007-01-31 19:03:59 · 7 answers · asked by havah 2

Ok guys.....if you like a girl,but you dont know she likes you.If you move on and get a g/f,but you and your g/f dont work out,and the other girl you liked asked you out,what would you say?

2007-01-31 19:02:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is for all the teen guys out there i need someone to talk to for a while! JUST to talk to. DONT get an idia's

2007-01-31 19:00:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im just starting to see a guy and we're casual right now.
We did it one time and he now says we should only do 0-r-al until we're closer.
But he says we're casual right now.
Im confused but I dont want anything serious with him right now but I can see myself bringing up the issue in a few months when I m ready.
If we just fool around and do 0-r-a-l is that as serious as doing IT ?

2007-01-31 18:58:16 · 31 answers · asked by I♥agoodhug 1

2007-01-31 18:55:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

when I ask if I can tell you a secret,
What I mean is, can I trust you.

When I ask if you'll help me,
what I mean is will you be there.

When I ask what you think of me,
what i really mean, is do you see the real me.

When I ask if you can talk,
what I mean is will you listen.

When i ask if we are friends,
what I really mean is we're together til the end.

2007-01-31 18:54:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this girl at school that i realy like, we've been friends for like, 3 years shes my best mate, and she knows i LIKE her and i think she likes me but i dont know if i shud ask her out or not, please help, if she rejects me, that could be the end of our friendship, and thats the LAST thing i want to happen

2007-01-31 18:51:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous