theres this girl at school that i realy like, we've been friends for like, 3 years shes my best mate, and she knows i LIKE her and i think she likes me but i dont know if i shud ask her out or not, please help, if she rejects me, that could be the end of our friendship, and thats the LAST thing i want to happen
2007-01-31 18:51:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aaww..many people hide their feelings because they are all afraid of rejection and that might end their beautiful friendship.well if you think she likes you as well..then i would say go for it! maybe you can ask her out in a casual way..not like "would you wanna go out on a date with me?" NOT that..but maybe you say you wanna get something and would like her opinion on it so if she wanna go..something along that line..make it casual and see how it goes. you can pick up hints from her too!
good luck dude!
larissa
2007-01-31 18:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Larissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a CLASSIC situation. If I had to take a guess, I'd say that things are not going to work out between the two of you.
Maybe try a semi-date, like going to the movies just the two of you, or going to the park. If she likes it and wants to continue, then great. If she says no, you can still be friends. It's only a small risk.
2007-02-01 02:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by pshao01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with a group of kids or a few others to make it seem comfortable and if you 2 have a chance to slip away to snuggle great, if that doesn't happen, then try another time but dont' ask her out until she lets you know by body language that she's interested in just you. some people need more time to warm up to a physical relationship with just one special person, don't rush her.
2007-02-01 03:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by jay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ruin a beautiful friendship by trying to have a sexual relationship with her. Appreciate your friendship for what it is. Once you cross that boundary you can't go back.
2007-02-01 02:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by hotmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH for Goodness Sakes...Risk it all or you'll never get anywhere....if it ends...it ends...You'll find another good looking "chick" to be your friend
2007-02-01 02:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by Curiously 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋