2007-01-31 18:55:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants his cake and he wants to eat it too. He dumped you. Why would you want to be with this fool? Do not take him back. He doesn't truly respect you or care about you. He's trying to keep you on the line in case this new girlfriend doesn't work out. Respect yourself more than he respects you. Find someone else. First, learn to love yourself. You say you still love him. Why? There is so much more to life and you do not need to deal with an immature guy like this. Move on and tell him to enjoy himself with the new girlfriend. Tell him you have better things to do with your life than to play his games.
2007-01-31 19:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by sheilanoel23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him to come back to you after he dumped you?! I know you love him, but if he loved you then he would have never dumped you! If this guy has a new g.f. and is calling you then what do you think he did to you while you were with him? Tell him not to call you anymore! Tell him to build a bridge and get over it because you're over him! You need to find a guy who will respect and apreciate you!
2007-02-01 03:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If course no. He dump you for the other girl, why gives him a chance? He only call you because he is lonely. He will dump you again! Stay away from him. Hurts him like he have hurt you before. He is not worth the time. Move on and let him knows that!
2007-02-01 03:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by kathy T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably something is missing that he knows he can get from u. but guess what, if u allow him back, he will be out of there the minute he gets a better deal. thats enough of pain what u are going through, dont give him a chance to take u through it again.
Ask him not to call u anymore so that u can really work on getting over him. He is just delaying u from reaching that.
All luck from me
2007-02-01 03:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man wants the best of both worlds. He wants a new girlfriend and he wants a back up girlfriend which is you.
Without losing your temper tell him not to bother you again, that you`re getting on with your life and don`t need him anymore (even if in your heart you do) It`ll be you that gets hurt in the end, hasn`t he hurt you enough ???
2007-02-01 03:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him back after he dumped you the first time. Get on with your life and tell him to leave you alone. Get your phone number changed and move on. If a guy does that to you once he will do it again. Don't put yourself through that heartache.
2007-02-01 03:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by hotmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind,but being dumped is painful.Replay it over in your head until you realise that he is cold and insincere.A guy who wants to feed his ego does this.I just had this done to me ,and I would be happy if I took my own advice-I will be again,because I won't let it happen again.Drop the idea of having him back.Value yourself.
2007-02-01 03:07:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let him control the situation. You're doomed to have it done, over-n-over. You deserve MUCH better than him. Get on with your happiness. And make it, without the Sorry Doofus!
2007-02-01 03:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him yeah okay you're waiting on him. Then stand him up.
2007-02-01 03:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋