Singles & Dating - 25 January 2007

just has me puzzled, is it in thier genes as it is in thier jeans?

2007-01-25 08:11:53 · 41 answers · asked by josephine_uk 1

2007-01-25 08:11:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey, I'm single and have two babies. I'm new to my area, so I don't get out much, and I'm not into going out and trolling for men anyway. I'm not looking for a serious relationship, just someone to go out with from time to time and someone to be physical with--I have NEEDS! Any suggestions for how to find someone? I don't want to lead anyone on, but I don't want to sound like a "woman of loose morals" in some online ad....

2007-01-25 08:11:34 · 6 answers · asked by Karyn B 1

my brother, a long time ago was a Christian but then he just sorta grew away from it i guess, and i do NOT like him coming over anymore because he listens to metal and music that basically just criticizes God, and it drives me crazy! all he does is criticize the music that i listen 2 (Emo, Christian, and Rock) and he makes fun of my friends but i have NO IDEA about what i should do~!!!
any suggestions? i would appreciate it♥ thx
~Emo Chick~

2007-01-25 08:11:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my best friend (mark) is good friends with all these people in a band. one of those people in the band are named John. Mark called me with John on the other line. We talked for a while, and Mark showed John my myspace. Apparently, he thinks I am "insanely hot" and was talking to Mark about how bad he wants to "bone me." I was joking around on the phone and told John I'd give him a lapdance if he gave me and some friends a ride to the movies. So i probably led him on or something. Because I don't do things like that. Mark is having a party on Saturday and the whole band is going to be there. I'm afraid this guy John is going to try something on me and I'm not sure how to handle this. I've heard some bad things about John also, that he's an alcoholic and has a bad home-life. I know the typical answer is to "not go" to the party but I'm going to eventually meet this guy John somewhere because he's friends with a lot of people I know. And I really want to go to this party. what to do?

2007-01-25 08:10:46 · 23 answers · asked by jooooooolie 1

I need to be able to talk to this person very soon, but she is stubborn and angry at the moment, I need to know how to penetrate this stubborness in order to get her to see eye to eye with me. Thanks

2007-01-25 08:10:25 · 3 answers · asked by Genesis 4

Don't get me wrong. I've only read one Harlequin romance in my life, and it was only because it was about a hot Australian guy named Harry. For the most part, I find the plots uninteresting and the female characters not complex enough. If anything, it seems that the main things going for them is their looks and not their intelligence or strength of character. That being said, though, does anyone here think that these books have any bearing in reality?

2007-01-25 08:10:14 · 2 answers · asked by tangerine 7

2007-01-25 08:10:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I stopped seeing each other because he could not accept the fact that I had a child and he was still in party mode (He's 36). I explained to him that I wanted a secure, committed relationship. He replied that he was not ready for that. After that conversation, I ended contact with him. A few months later he contacted me via email to tell me that he missed me and wanted another chance. Now that we have reconcilled, he has been wonderful with my son and calls me his girlfriend. However, I rarely see him during the week due to his work schedule and distance (45 min). He always spends Thurs with his friends fishing and Sundays watching football. Last night we argued because his plans were to go to bed early on Fri night to fish with his friend on Sat. Then he would visit me Saturday evening /Sun morning. That leaves 1-2 days with me during the week. I don't consider that a boyfriend. Am I expecting too much? I'm attractive/fun etc. Should I sit home on Fri nights alone?

2007-01-25 08:09:08 · 5 answers · asked by festefool75 1

i was dating this girl and talked everyday, had a lot of fun and never argued. recently she asked me to give her space though. it's been 6 days now...how much longer should i wait? and then should i text her or something? and what should i say in the text? like "how's it going, have good day" or "hope you're well" or something like that? please give me some examples! i really miss her and it hurts to wait..

2007-01-25 08:06:40 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you do if your boyfriend has some jealous exes who constantly try to break yall up?
he cheated on me once before, so when they say like oh hes cheating on you! i dont believe them.
but you know how it is.
after they cheat theres always this doubt.
how do i ignore them
and make sure they dont damage our relationship?
ahh help please:[

2007-01-25 08:06:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

if u were asked out, by someone u didn't love, but u htink they mite be worth it, would u go out with them or no?

2007-01-25 08:05:55 · 7 answers · asked by CurioslyPerfect 2

I really like this guy but for the past week we havent been talking as much and I find myself thinking about him less and less....i want to make it work with him...what should i do?

2007-01-25 08:05:16 · 4 answers · asked by Bee 3

There is this guy and we have been talking for a little over 3 months, from the beginning he expressed to me that he was not ready or looking for a relationship because he just got out of a 2 year relationship 8 months ago, and I totally under stand that, but we talk everyday and if I go a day and not call him he says good to hear from you, when i see him he tells me it is good to see me, when i talk to him he tells me how he wanted to kiss me and I told him that i like him but I am not ready for a realtionship either , and really I am not, but I am just wondering what we are doing here,we talk about everything under the sun, we have so much in common it is ridiculous, is he just trying to be my friend or maybe trying to get to know each other better? Help Pleazzzzzzzz

2007-01-25 08:04:10 · 30 answers · asked by Tiffany 3

Im 29 and he is 23. He used to be my student and we started YMing recently and it was really cool. We talked about everything including drugs and sex and the sex part.. well it was steamy, he said he had a hard on I told him to unload (after we talked). The next day we had a nasty argument because I think he thought I was suggestng sex but I wasnt and he felt shy. He also sounded pissed off and said our conversation was going nowhere and senseless. Anyway, he said "The other night I didnt unload, i released the beast. I shouldn't have. Tonight, I will not touch my thing." I asked him what he meant cuz sorry I didnt get that... I know Im slow... I got pissed off anyway he said he is sorry i took it differently... damn! what is the kid trying to tell me???? I told him I wanna see him. He wouldnt let me. Then I texted him and emailed him once and he didnt reply... what should I do???

2007-01-25 08:03:33 · 1 answers · asked by Stefani 2

There is this guy and I have known him for two years and liked him for two years the trouble is he isn't allowed to have a girl friend (we are well over 10 years old) Also there is a girl who just decided to like him this month and he puts his arm around her and tells her he likes HER!!! by the way did i tell you she has a boyfriend of her own! well today in school we where playing with this dough stuff and i had decided to give up and try to let him go but i had some of the dough and there was plenty of dough in the room but he wanted mine so he traped me in a corner and i turned around and he put his arms around me and i swear we stayed there for like 10 sec. and he kept flirting with me all day.

Do you have any advice what to do?

HELP!!!

2007-01-25 08:01:47 · 9 answers · asked by The one 2

Today i Just found out that my boyfriend was in a gang but he tells my friend first before he tells me wat should i do?

2007-01-25 08:01:42 · 13 answers · asked by ~~Sexy Lady14~~ 1

2007-01-25 08:00:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-25 08:00:26 · 49 answers · asked by tulip 4

i really want to get noticed in school, exept the only problem is that, there are no cute guys in my school.....i do eveyrthing right, i joined three clubs at my school, and i even dress nice. clealry nobody gets turned on by a cute brunette.. what should i do......or am i going to far??

2007-01-25 07:59:51 · 4 answers · asked by kiwi 2

There is a girl i realy like but she has a boyfriend and I get nervus when me and her talk what do I do?

2007-01-25 07:59:30 · 27 answers · asked by Royal_red_guard 1

I think I like my step brother, I really like his personality and his look's but I know I shouln't be feeling like this because I am a good friend of his girlfriend and I am god mother of his daughter :s ..... and me feeling like this makes me feel so guilty for them two reasons. Plus I really think he likes me aswell :( ..... I dunno how I should feel about me feeling like this... what do you think?

By the way he is not really my step brother he is my dad's girlfriend's son.

2007-01-25 07:59:14 · 18 answers · asked by Dee 2

2007-01-25 07:57:46 · 11 answers · asked by Fake Your Death 3

im not ugly ...many ppl tell me to b a model ..so y cnt i get a boy. all my friends have them and have gone so far alrede nd ive done nothing ..im kinda shy nd im scared to talk to hopt guys b.c i think they will hate me nd think im ugly ...HELPPP!

2007-01-25 07:57:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think she likes another dude that she always is talking to when we are on the phone and she always calls the idiotic freak of nature before she calls me. the guy propsed to her once but we're all only 13 and he is 14. the guy is a retard and he likes my girl and i think she likes him because, every time i say "i love you" to her she just goes "uh" but when he says it she says "i love you too". So what should i do.

2007-01-25 07:57:30 · 34 answers · asked by delta3835 2

This is a question for the guys and girls of the ages15 to 30 only. What is the youngest/oldest person you ever dated?

2007-01-25 07:57:21 · 9 answers · asked by Yahoo Fanboy 1

Do men really like it better when women play hard to get? For example when they don't call, when they end the conversation first, when they don't often return your calls and when they do return the phone calls they always end the conversation first? Another example is always being busy and acting indifferent when they do call, as if they could care less if the man calls them. Why do they like this so much, what makes the woman more attracive to the man when she does this? Do they really like the chase that much?

2007-01-25 07:56:43 · 19 answers · asked by Lady K 4

The floor fell out from under my feet when after two years of what I thought was a good relationship my boyfriend told me that he was seeing my close girlfriend ( I believe he put it as a “midlife” crisis). It suddenly made sense why she had been asking me so many questions about Bob and our relationship. Bob is forty-eight and she is thirty-six, which in his own words an ego-trip for him. I am Bob’s age and have no trouble being dateable if that would be what I want but ….. Cindy, who I have tried to mentor in the past, has had a drug issue and numerous affairs with men and as a result has a sexually transmitted disease (which makes it impossible in Bob’s eyes for there to be anything physical between them – and knowing Bob’s character, I believe him). She is getting help and told my boyfriend that she just wanted a “friend/maybe someday lover relationship”.
After not seeing each other for a period of time, Bob told me he loved me and couldn’t forget me but wanted to be emotionally supportive of her. So, I accepted their friendship for awhile even though needless to say, she and I have lost our friendship.

. But after time I came to be aware that I love him way too much and hurt over the fact that he continues to tell me that he wants us to be old together but still has the “attraction that he doesn’t understand for her”. She thinks that we are not seeing each other and because of the “friendship circle” of all of our friends that don’t support my continuing to let Bob hurt me, Bob and I agreed to keep our relationship a secret from the world until we knew exactly what we wanted (why hear the “I told you so”s?) Bob continues to lie to me and to her (because as he says -he doesn’t want to hurt either one of us and feels caught in between a cat fight). I know that the whole situation is very unhealthy and I ask myself why I still love him, but inexplicably I have fallen hard.

I finally told him that I couldn’t hurt any longer and that by making his choices he has made mine. He asked me for a week’s grace period for him to have time to tell her that he is still in love with me. I told him that after that time, if he didn’t tell her I would. The reason? I feel resentment toward them both…Her because of the deception and the fact that she tells Bob all the reasons why I’m bad for him. Him because I know in my heart he loves me but not enough. I know Bob won’t “ step-up”, the relationship is over. I need closure. She has told Bob that if he sees me it will be over with her. I hurt so much…. why should I let him be able to still look good in her eyes. I know it’s immature of me to want to strike back To have her hurt like I was when she went behind my back and asked him out in the first place?

Should I let it go and walk away?

2007-01-25 07:55:55 · 22 answers · asked by roxie 2

or maybe soulmates?

2007-01-25 07:55:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-25 07:54:50 · 15 answers · asked by girl_is_depeche 2