Singles & Dating - 24 January 2007

How long would it take to find out if it's just a phase or just infatuation or if you just love him as a friend that you can't be without for the rest of your life? How long does it take to know if he's the one and is there usually a scared feeling at the prospect of sharing your life with someone? I've only been seeing him a month or so. I worked with him for over a year 10 years ago...but I feel like he's always been in my life now and it's a good thing. I'm scared...

2007-01-24 04:37:11 · 16 answers · asked by tunafish 2

He's offered to be a witness at the wedding, but I hate to tell him that now that I'll be married....he's going to have to get out of my bra. He's being replaced with my new husband's face...

Any ideas on how to let him down easy? He's always been bear...I mean there for me. And I want to keep him as a friend.

2007-01-24 04:37:05 · 14 answers · asked by DoubleD 1

First off im 24 and he's 28. Second, I am not desperate by any means and find it odd that people assume that. I didn't expect to meet some guy offline, and the things we have in common are a rarity to me. I work in Audio Production and I love his understanding of music. He wants to leave his girlfriend but just doesnt seem to have the ba**s to do so. He said it feels like she would kill herself if he left her. What I want to know is why is he talking to me more than her first of all. Second, why do we stare at each other? And no distance isn't the issue I'm just not getting involved with someone who has a gf. I have more respect for myself than that. I just don't know how to describe all this...

2007-01-24 04:35:07 · 4 answers · asked by Nyanna 1

sex in public? what were the circumstances?

I was skinny dipping with my girlfriend in high school, we were getting pretty hot and heavy when all of a sudden there was a spot light in our face.
It was the local police he just asked us if we had been drinking and asked my girlfriend if she was ok. She said yes she was fine. The cop said well be careful and drove away.
By then my johnson had been scared and didn't want to get back up and my girlfriend was embarrassed so we just went home.
Never been skinny dipping since

2007-01-24 04:34:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

People often say cliche things like "move on with your life" but what is the first step to making peace with past pains in your opinion? (Any examples based on life experience). This is a general question.

2007-01-24 04:32:20 · 5 answers · asked by Mille_D-Gurl08 3

I been with my boyfreind for 6 years now and he still cant find a good job.I love him alot but not in love.He respects me and has always been an good man.But now I am getting older and I need more from him.I just recently met another guy that I am atracted to because he has good credit, nice and about somthing more.I'm 24 ready to start my family.My family loves my boyfreind and I love his.What to do?

2007-01-24 04:32:15 · 12 answers · asked by Q-Tee 1

.......emotionally, physically etc...

can you describe it, in words?

2007-01-24 04:32:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

a guy friend you were never dating, but turned down for sex, fabricates a story that you were dating and that he broke up with you?

a guy has told a lot of our mutual friends this, as well as his newly-acquired girlfriend... and that he dumped me because i was a "mormon" (community of christ is not mormon, actually, he is confused). is it even worth it to try and set the record straight? it IS a small world... or is this just too stupid to think about?

2007-01-24 04:31:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't mean 'a flippin drop dead gorgeous hottie' not that kind of a 'smoker' ....i mean someone who's fingers, hair, lips & clothes smell like burnt tobacco 24/7?

2007-01-24 04:30:38 · 19 answers · asked by lowroad 1

2007-01-24 04:30:31 · 6 answers · asked by tntitansfan01 1

well i had this guy for a class, we always made eye contact. he always smiles first so then of course i smile back. but then i had to change my class and i never got to talk to him but i see him around when we change class periods. we just make eye contact. man what do i do?? do i talk to him or do i just wait for him to say something? but then i have a feeling he wont say anything.....i get nervouse everytime i see him....

2007-01-24 04:28:49 · 19 answers · asked by liz 1

I was on a farm, tied to a post, branded, and my master forced a horse to mount me...i liked it, what could this mean?

2007-01-24 04:27:00 · 14 answers · asked by to hot to handle 1

i like a boy, and be4, In November, he admitted that he liked me. But now, when I asked him if he still likes me, he said no not really. I still like him and wanna know if i can somehow " open" his eyes, and make him see me as more than just a classmate/buddy.

2007-01-24 04:26:20 · 7 answers · asked by Hershey's Kiss 4

2007-01-24 04:26:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is sort of a continuation from my other question. Anyway, the bf & I broke up about 3 weeks ago over something, which in hindsight seems pretty trivial. We both graduated college not too long ago & just started our new jobs so there isn't as much time to spend together as before. But he initated the breakup & said that "We should just be friends," yet in reality we both agreed that we would never "just be friends." We both dated other people since meeting each other & I have to say I just can't shake the feelings I have for him. After the initial breakup, we didn't talk for 1 week b/c he didn't pick up any of my calls & but he started calling a lot like he used to, to say good night, etc. A few days ago, he came to my house to bring me dessert & a DVD he wanted me to watch & he's asked me to lunch twice since he's consulting at a company not too far from my office. I don't know what's going on, are we just friends? I can't seem to get a straight answer from him.

2007-01-24 04:26:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-24 04:25:09 · 10 answers · asked by astralprojector 4

OK WELL i HAVE A GiRLFRiEND WE HAVE BEEN ON AND OFF FOR A LiDDLE WHiLE NOW. FOR ABOUT A YEAR OR TWO. WE KNOW EACH OTHER FAMiLiES LOVE EACHOTHER. WE DO EVERYTHING WE GO TOUT TO MOVIES I DRIVE HER PLACES YOU WOULD NEVER IMMAGINE AND THE THINGF IS SOMETIMES HER FRIENDS SAY IM A BAD KID I DID EVERYTHING EVEN PUT HER INTO 2 STATES AT 1CE HER LEG WAS ON 1 BORER AND THE OTHER. BECAUSE SHE WANTED TO BE AT 2 PLACES AT ONECE. I ASKED HER TO MARRIE ME SHE SAID YES BUT THE THING IS I NEVER SAID I LOVE YOU BECAUSE IM SCARWES SHE IS GUNNA SAY NOTHING BACK.

2007-01-24 04:24:58 · 10 answers · asked by BLiZz 1

if a guy is country/redneck too, do u think theyll like country/redneck girls who like to hunt, fish, and go fourwheelin and stuff like that?

2007-01-24 04:24:28 · 4 answers · asked by hcgirl88 2

I have known this girl for 10 years now, we went to primary school together and we got on really well. We both went to different senior schools, she went to an all girls and I to an all boys.

Recently we started to see each other after school once we had got off the train. If we were standing apart, and we saw each other, I would have to go over to her but she will not come over to me. We will chat and make conversation. but some days she seems a bit moody and will either not take any notice of me or ony say a few words to me. This has only happened two out of the 10 times i have seen her but I am a bit confused. I have managed to find out that she doesn't have a boyfriend (not by asking her), but some days she looks at me as if she really likes me, others she doesn't even acknowledge me. What is going on? Is it worth me asking her out?

Thanks for reading and thanks for any comments.

2007-01-24 04:22:20 · 4 answers · asked by Jonny B 1

help please

2007-01-24 04:22:08 · 10 answers · asked by ali#1 hotcheka 1

I keep dreaming about some one that I thought I loved, over the summer he dumped me and I learned the real meaning of love. but I keep having dreams about my ex, and how I have to hide going to see him from my current boyfriend, or how I go from one guy to the next. These dreams really freak me out and I don't know why I have them, or how to stop them... and suggestions?

2007-01-24 04:22:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or any other dating site...

2007-01-24 04:21:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just want to know your opinion because it seems like a lot of people like doing that now these days......

2007-01-24 04:21:07 · 29 answers · asked by sexsired 4

2007-01-24 04:21:00 · 2 answers · asked by billie d 1

Would a "high" number be enough for you to break it off with someone that you are really into and have been dating for 3 months?

Who's to say what is or isnt too many?

I'm sure many guys have a number over 10 but if I woman said she had more than 10 she'd be looked at as "easy".
Is there a different number for men and women?

2007-01-24 04:20:44 · 11 answers · asked by RedEye 3

She likes to do aral...but a few months ago I developed a large wart on the side of my unit...its not fat and wide, its a long skinny wart...how can I convince her that it is ok, and not contagious to het?

2007-01-24 04:19:56 · 12 answers · asked by Turc 1

this dude been going out and i really lik him we suppose to spend our b-day together (mine feb.9 his feb.10) but i think its sumone else he always has to go he says im gonna call you bacc but neva does who is he spendin time wit cuz it aint me im juss confused do i trust its lik im doing to much and he aint doing enough i need him by my side i need some body to call on when times r rough but hes neva their am i juss asuming the worse or am i not cuz right now im lost



: ( Thank to whom ever answer my question god bless

2007-01-24 04:18:22 · 18 answers · asked by I still live wit the side effect 2

OK, WELL i HAD A GiRLFRiEND. i DiD ERRYTHiNG WiTH. SHE WAS MY FiRST KiSS. MY FiRST LOVE. AND EVERYTHiNG. BUT i MOVED AWAY. AND SHE CAME TO MY DOOR ONE DAY AND SAID SHE WAS PREGNATE. BUT YOU DONT BELIVE IT BECAUSE THE LAST TIME I DID ANYTHING WITH HER WAS LIKE 8 MONTHS AGO AND SHE SAID SHE IS 3 MONTHS PREGNATE WHAT WHOULD U DO IN THIS SITUATION. AND YOU BEEN HEARING THAT SHE IS A S**T.

2007-01-24 04:17:10 · 16 answers · asked by BLiZz 1

Ok, I met this guy online....(lame I know!!!) Anyways, we have about everything in common and talk everyday. As much as we try to keep things G rated because he has a gf of four years it always seem to turn into at least PG-13. We turned on our web cams the other night and for three hours nothing was said...we just starred at each other. What is this????? Why do I have feelings for some guy on the internet????? What do I do about it???? Has anyone had this happen?????

2007-01-24 04:17:08 · 45 answers · asked by Nyanna 1

Ive been with him for over a month now and we are always surprising each other with gifts. Any suggestions. Hes 30 and Im 41.

2007-01-24 04:16:42 · 3 answers · asked by melissas69er 3