this dude been going out and i really lik him we suppose to spend our b-day together (mine feb.9 his feb.10) but i think its sumone else he always has to go he says im gonna call you bacc but neva does who is he spendin time wit cuz it aint me im juss confused do i trust its lik im doing to much and he aint doing enough i need him by my side i need some body to call on when times r rough but hes neva their am i juss asuming the worse or am i not cuz right now im lost
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2007-01-24 04:18:22 · 18 answers · asked by I still live wit the side effect 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a girl who knows what she wants.
It also sounds like this isn't the guy who's going to provide you with that.
I say move on. There are plenty of guys who will be the best friend that you need. :)
2007-01-24 04:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. You are assuming his values is the same as yours(thats not fair)
you are definately making something out of nothing. When he doesn't call you back- there is plenty of reasons a person may not return your calls. You have to keep in mind, he has friends(I hope) family. He has a life other than being with you.
I understand what you want (I wanted the same thing) but that takes time.
Maybe you should talk to him about it..
but if you feel your giving more than your recieving, you probaly are. And thats not good!
2007-01-24 12:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be so dependant on a boyfriend like that. You dont need him. If he treats you like crap, that is what you are to him. You need to call on God, or an earthly friend or something like that. The whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing is too messed up in our culture to take it that seriously.
2007-01-24 12:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need him for anything. And if you think you do you need to love yourself before you think about loving anyone else.. There are 1,000 other guys much worthier than he, he sounds like a dog. Good luck!
2007-01-24 12:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by Student12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how you feel for him if your so in love with him and he has always done this then go with the flow but if not say the hell with him and find some one else that would care for you and be there for you when you want him to be...
2007-01-24 12:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl yes im in dis same situation dat u in but in my opinion i feel dat he jus need a lil space cuz if ya'll 2getha all tha time he prolly gone get tired of you maybe he jus need time to his self i thought my man was cheatin to but he jus need time to his self but u kno how theeze boi's is theeze days they play to many games but just ask him talk it out w/ him and then maybe he will tell you tha truth ya digs well good luck
*quisha @rds
2007-01-24 12:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by (H3@RT BROK3N) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him by yourside then dont give him so much guys take advange than just dont care. Leave him alone and he will come running back they all do...
2007-01-24 12:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by jdn85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to learn how to spell. I really don't understand what you are asking because its all messed up and most of your words are spelled incorrectly.
2007-01-24 12:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by big stan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably hanging out with the boys. You can't expect your boyfriend to drop his friends--not at your age. Frankly, they are more important than you at this age.
2007-01-24 12:21:26 · answer #9 · answered by surfinthedesert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have to give him the best roll in the hay he has ever had!
2007-01-24 12:20:39 · answer #10 · answered by Doofus B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋