OK, WELL i HAD A GiRLFRiEND. i DiD ERRYTHiNG WiTH. SHE WAS MY FiRST KiSS. MY FiRST LOVE. AND EVERYTHiNG. BUT i MOVED AWAY. AND SHE CAME TO MY DOOR ONE DAY AND SAID SHE WAS PREGNATE. BUT YOU DONT BELIVE IT BECAUSE THE LAST TIME I DID ANYTHING WITH HER WAS LIKE 8 MONTHS AGO AND SHE SAID SHE IS 3 MONTHS PREGNATE WHAT WHOULD U DO IN THIS SITUATION. AND YOU BEEN HEARING THAT SHE IS A S**T.
2007-01-24 04:17:10 · 16 answers · asked by BLiZz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She may be pregnant....sounds like its just not yours.
She's desperate and probably alone and isolated.....and she's looking to you because you were probably the best thing she had going.
If she's a drama queen, tell her to beat it.
If you can see that this is really a cry for help, give her some guidance, but let her know that you moved on.
Good Luck!
2007-01-24 04:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL are u sure thats when u last did it with her? If so and your postive than dont worry about it. SHe probably just wants you to be the daddy because 1 she might not know who the father is 2 your a better person 3 shes just dumb. I would say just ignore her if you are positive that was the last time u did something with her. cuz if it was yours it would be around 7-8 months pregnant not 3! Drama Queens i swear!
2007-01-24 12:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by smile114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say you want a paternity test... easy solution... Even though there isn't any way its yours if she's only 3 months along. I had a girl do this same sh#$ to me man, Turned out she just regretted the situation she put herself in and was scrambling about trying to find a solution. she figured I would make a good dad so she tried to get me to own up to it. I'm not saying I didn't think about it, but things are better the way they are now, i don't play dad but i'm still a part of that little girls life because her mom and i did have a past and are still friends. You just gotta decide whats right for you
2007-01-24 12:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by kc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably still have feelings for her because she was your first, but you have to look past this and tell her to do the math. You can be there for her and help her figure out what she is going to do and also be there for her when she tells the father she is pregnant (if she knows). I would not take responsibility for the pregnancy or the baby because it is not yours. Feelings are a strong thing to overcome but you have stick to your guns on this because she is trying to pin it on someone. Good Luck.
2007-01-24 12:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would remind her of the last time you two were "together" then inform her you will want a DNA test once the baby is born.
Be straight to the point with her to let her know ur serious regarding this.
Good luck
2007-01-24 12:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DNA test!!!
youll have nothing to worry about if the last time yall were together was 8 mos ago
2007-01-24 12:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you haven't touched her in 8 months and she's 3 months pregnant then its obviously not your baby.
2007-01-24 12:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by Student12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paternity test after the baby is born.
2007-01-24 12:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by Tara P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you watched Jerry Springer?
2007-01-24 12:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by MK6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well B this what I be doin B. Drop that Cu*t like that sticky sticky and Go to da hood and get ya one dem real B's.()
2007-01-24 12:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋