Singles & Dating - 22 January 2007

Me & my GF are going for quite a long time but the thing is now i wana leave my GF.
Wana leave her coz she seems to be having problems with me getting physical (Not talking abt sex).
She doesnt react properly when she gets close, while kissing etc.. i can clearly see tht she is not comfortable in getting physical contact with me.
Rest, she is good & caring and most of all i really luv her.

But, i think is physical closeness is equally important & i am sure i can never get this from her.
So shall i leave her & save ourselves from future hurt?

Talked with her abt issue - No use. Also, given lot of time 2her 2 adjust - No use

She also dont have any past probs or anything tht sort of.....

2007-01-22 05:56:57 · 18 answers · asked by Romps 2

Can an older man and younger woman have a long relationship. Why and why not?

2007-01-22 05:56:46 · 18 answers · asked by Samari's Dad 1

I am 36-24-36 , but that is just my forearm , neck and thigh, I was born with a silver shovel in my mouth, when I stepped on the scale to measure my weight it says to be continued. When I wear yellow raincoat, people run after me and call me “Taxi!”
Even blind children get scared of me. My face look like caught on fire and picked out with a fork, I tried to join ugly contest but they said “sorry no professionals” trying to get a guy talk to me is far difficult since even rice krispies don’t talk to me.
So how can I get a boy friend?

2007-01-22 05:56:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've kissed this girl and it was amazing. Whenever we start kissing, we can never stop and once kissed for 3 hours. She said that kissing tells alot about how a person is in bed etc. That was true with her. I mean I've kissed countless girls but I've never felt this way when I kiss her. What do you think about kissing?

2007-01-22 05:56:21 · 4 answers · asked by tarzan428 3

For the past 2 months my boyfriend and I have been having a lot of issues. One day it would be really great between us and the next it would be very unstable. With that being said and without going into all the details. The day after chistmas we had a very bad day and for the first time he mentioned leaving. Well the next day while I was at work he got up and started packing. By the time I returned home he was 90% packed, I didnt have a clue all day long. So when I asked what was going on he was able to get about 3 words out and then started balling like a baby. (In the 2 years i have known this guy I never saw him cry.) I myself was in shocked and in a defensive mood. We shood there for 1 hour while I tried to wrap my head around what was going on and the whole time he was crying. It was a civil as they get break ups with no yelling or screaming. But What I dont get is he was the one leaving but he was the one crying and wanting a hug before we parted? Can any one explain why?

2007-01-22 05:54:50 · 4 answers · asked by loststarr101 1

why are men getting sex-ployted?
doing anything for sex or the promise of sex?

families are getting broken and women are extorting
themselves for wealth etc..everything except for love.

men need to stop spoiling women!
comments are welcome!

2007-01-22 05:54:25 · 13 answers · asked by canuckclint 3

i'm 20 and i'm dating a guys who is 32, we've been on 4 dates and on the 4th date he tried to kiss me on the cheek then on the mouth, i pushed him away and he asked why, he is my first date, first boy and well.... first guy; and i don't think i'm ready for that yet. i've known him for 3 weeks now but i still don't have that kind of feeling for him is it too early to tell, to kiss, to do WHAT!

I REALLY NEED HELP

can some one answer my question ASAP?!

2007-01-22 05:53:23 · 18 answers · asked by lovebug 1

Im really nervous she wants to do this at a hotel? I think I will say NO

2007-01-22 05:51:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

i ve been texting this guy and i like him. i think he likes me too but i want to go on a date with him. should i wait and let him ask or should i ask him? ifyes, what is the perfecttext message to send him? thanks for your help.

2007-01-22 05:50:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i went on this cruise, and met this guy. he was really nice and we hung out a lot, but i never really had an interest in him, until the 4th night. that night we just hung out me and him the entire night laying down and talking. he was really sweet, and i knew that i'd prob start liking him. we were talking about everything, and the topic of me being a virgin came up. i told him i was a virgin, and he didn't believe me. he wasn't a virgin, but he told me i should really wait for someone i like, and then he said "and it's not going to be me." by the end of the night we ended up making out, and he slept over my room, and he even asked me if the next night we were gonna hang out. the next night he was in the casino, so my friend went to go get him from the casino to hang out. sure enough, he wanted to and came within 10 minutes(meanwhile he had been winning a lot of money), and he came to hang out. we went to his room, and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening naturally, he didn't ask me flat out, and it happened the way i wanted it to, in the moment. when he was putting the condom on however, i asked him what he was doing, and he said "nothing"..i made sure he had a condom on, and he was really gentle, but he didn't talk much. at one point i asked him if he still had the condom on, and he let me feel to make sure it was still on. after we had sex, we went to the casino, and then i left to go to my room to lay down. he said he'd come back to hang out, but i didn't expect him to really. sure enough, he came knocking on my door to spend the night. the next night he had been looking for me, and he thought i was with another guy,so he got upset, and didn't hang out with me for two nights. by the 8th night we met up eventually..and i explained to him that i wasn't with another guy, and we ended up hanging out the whole entire night, me, my friend, and him. he kept saying how i was his girlfriend on the cruise, and that i would be his girlfriend if we lived in the same place. it just so happened i was going to college where he lived in about a year, and he knew that. that night we were hooking up again, and everything led to sex, and this time was even better. he said to me "you said you were a virgin right"..so i said "you remember what happened the other night right?"..and he was like "yeah, we had sex"..so i guess he was asking to be reassured that i was a virgin before him? then we were doing it for a long time, and he was talking a lot more, and physically helping me out, and he constantly asked me if i was alright, and that i need to tell him when to stop or when it hurts. i was in a lot of pain, so he suggested taking the condom off to see if it felt any better, it felt a lot better and it was only for 2 seconds, but he did say to me "the only thing is..if we take the condom off you might have to give me head"..well..i didn't end up giving him head, because i didn't want to. that night he slept over again, and we had plans to hang out the whole entire day the next day. the last night, we hung out the whole night..and then he kissed me on the lips goodbye. we exchanged myspaces and aim screen names, and after the cruise he commented me right away. we had talked back and forth for awhile..and at one point i thought he was avoiding me..so i wrote him a letter saying if you don't write back then i know you don't want anything to do with me, but he did write back, so that showed me that he cared. i ended up surprising him and visiting him one day, and he was really happy to see me. he told me i need to call next time so we can hang out..and he wanted to make sure i was definitely still coming to college near him. we talked for awhile, and then i had to leave..so he kissed me on the lips goodbye, and wrote to me about a week later asking me how my trip was, and telling me to call him next time.

1.does it sound like he liked me a lot?
2.why would he ask me if i was a virgin when he knew i was already?
3.why did i need to give head if he didn't have a condom on?
4. why did he come back after sex the first time to come lay with me?

2007-01-22 05:50:46 · 20 answers · asked by rachel a 1

well we have ben going out sens 2006 so we desided to go out no or firs date by ourselfs and im in carge of chosing the place we eat .

2007-01-22 05:50:28 · 6 answers · asked by thayng 1

so i went on this cruise, and met this guy. he was really nice and we hung out a lot, but i never really had an interest in him, until the 4th night. that night we just hung out me and him the entire night laying down and talking. he was really sweet, and i knew that i'd prob start liking him. we were talking about everything, and the topic of me being a virgin came up. i told him i was a virgin, and he didn't believe me. he wasn't a virgin, but he told me i should really wait for someone i like, and then he said "and it's not going to be me." by the end of the night we ended up making out, and he slept over my room, and he even asked me if the next night we were gonna hang out. the next night he was in the casino, so my friend went to go get him from the casino to hang out. sure enough, he wanted to and came within 10 minutes(meanwhile he had been winning a lot of money), and he came to hang out. we went to his room, and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening naturally, he didn't ask me flat out, and it happened the way i wanted it to, in the moment. when he was putting the condom on however, i asked him what he was doing, and he said "nothing"..i made sure he had a condom on, and he was really gentle, but he didn't talk much. at one point i asked him if he still had the condom on, and he let me feel to make sure it was still on. after we had sex, we went to the casino, and then i left to go to my room to lay down. he said he'd come back to hang out, but i didn't expect him to really. sure enough, he came knocking on my door to spend the night. the next night he had been looking for me, and he thought i was with another guy,so he got upset, and didn't hang out with me for two nights. by the 8th night we met up eventually..and i explained to him that i wasn't with another guy, and we ended up hanging out the whole entire night, me, my friend, and him. he kept saying how i was his girlfriend on the cruise, and that i would be his girlfriend if we lived in the same place. it just so happened i was going to college where he lived in about a year, and he knew that. that night we were hooking up again, and everything led to sex, and this time was even better. he said to me "you said you were a virgin right"..so i said "you remember what happened the other night right?"..and he was like "yeah, we had sex"..so i guess he was asking to be reassured that i was a virgin before him? then we were doing it for a long time, and he was talking a lot more, and physically helping me out, and he constantly asked me if i was alright, and that i need to tell him when to stop or when it hurts. i was in a lot of pain, so he suggested taking the condom off to see if it felt any better, it felt a lot better and it was only for 2 seconds, but he did say to me "the only thing is..if we take the condom off you might have to give me head"..well..i didn't end up giving him head, because i didn't want to. that night he slept over again, and we had plans to hang out the whole entire day the next day. the last night, we hung out the whole night..and then he kissed me on the lips goodbye. we exchanged myspaces and aim screen names, and after the cruise he commented me right away. we had talked back and forth for awhile..and at one point i thought he was avoiding me..so i wrote him a letter saying if you don't write back then i know you don't want anything to do with me, but he did write back, so that showed me that he cared. i ended up surprising him and visiting him one day, and he was really happy to see me. he told me i need to call next time so we can hang out..and he wanted to make sure i was definitely still coming to college near him. we talked for awhile, and then i had to leave..so he kissed me on the lips goodbye, and wrote to me about a week later asking me how my trip was, and telling me to call him next time.

1.does it sound like he liked me a lot?
2.why would he ask me if i was a virgin when he knew i was already?
3.why did i need to give head if he didn't have a condom on?
4. why did he come back after sex the first time to come lay with me?

2007-01-22 05:50:10 · 2 answers · asked by sally m 1

2007-01-22 05:48:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY BOYFRIEND NEVER GOES OUT, SO THIS WEEKEND WAS HIS BEST FRIEND BIRTHDAY PARTY. NOW WE HAVE BEEN LIVING TOGETHER FOR 3 YEARS AND HE HAS NEVER DONE THIS BEFORE. I DON'T WANT TO ASSUME THAT HE IS CHEATING BUT WHAT ELSE ARE YOU OUT UNTIL 7:30AM DOING.... PLEASE HELP.

2007-01-22 05:46:34 · 30 answers · asked by LESLIE 1

I am a single mother, I am 22. I am lonley without a decent man. I have a great job BUT alot of crap has been happening to me latley letme explain simply.... 475 a month rent, 95 bucks a week for daycare, in the past week I have lost my car keys, my drivers liscence, and my cashed paycheck (about 600 bucks). I have been having problems with my babby daddy wanting to get back with me AND my daughter is in the terrible twos terribly bad. My babby daddy came in the house last nite with a Playstation 3 and my babies daycare hasnt been paid in 3 weeks b/c I absolutley do not have any money, and he doesnt see why it upsets me. Then to top it off I got up this morning, it is cold and rainy and I fall down the front steps of my house and get in my car that has a dead battery making me two hours late to work. I feel like God is angry with me or like the worst mother alive because I am soooooo broke. I dont go out and blow my money on ANYTHING. Please help me, I am SO SAD.

2007-01-22 05:46:15 · 26 answers · asked by Kamryn's Mommie 2

I dated this guy for four and a half years, we were engaged for one of them. I broke up with him in december, and just recently found out he has sexually assaulted my younger sister on more than one occasion while we were together.... What should I do?
We have file a police report, and told him that we're pressing charges. Should we talk to an attourney? Is there anything else we can do?

2007-01-22 05:45:49 · 15 answers · asked by shay223 1

I'm now getting dating advise from porn bots......arrggggg

2007-01-22 05:45:47 · 6 answers · asked by dj 4

2007-01-22 05:45:05 · 5 answers · asked by sandy 2

what should i do on the first date with her

2007-01-22 05:44:53 · 2 answers · asked by ctownz_phatty617 1

Ok im 17 and i have a 10 month old daughter! what do guys think about dating girls with a kid and those of you that think its wierd why is it sooo wierd??????

2007-01-22 05:43:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-22 05:42:35 · 2 answers · asked by just me 2

Would you rather approach an attractive woman or be approached by one? Why?

2007-01-22 05:42:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I remember when I was in jr. high it seemed like everyone had a boyfriend or girlfriend, and now that I am older and my sister is in jr. high, I find it really weird. What age do you think is right to start dating or having a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship?

2007-01-22 05:41:11 · 22 answers · asked by GeekGirl 2

My ex broke up with me back in mid-September. Why do I still cry over her? Even after I moved across the country to get away from her. I miss her. Please help me.

2007-01-22 05:39:53 · 4 answers · asked by flamemaster_lang 3

I have serious mood swing issues. I fight with my boyfriend every day because the littlest things he does pisses me off! To name some examples, I get mad if he doesn't call me when he's supposed to (even if he's off by like 2 minutes), I get angry if he doesn't send/buy me flowers at least once a month... just stupid stuff!! I sreiously flip on him all the time, and he usually takes it because he says he loves me and accepts me for who i am, but i want to change for him. what is wrong with me? is anyone else like this?

2007-01-22 05:38:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Say ... you're both 24 ... and she had only slept with her ex (they were dating for 5 yrs before they broke up).
Do you get scared? ... what do you feel or think? ... Do you think there must be something wrong with her? ... or are you happy because she's faithful? ...

2007-01-22 05:38:49 · 27 answers · asked by Nicegal 2

girls, what u do it? and guys does it make u less attracted to you gf and more attracted to other girls?

2007-01-22 05:38:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im friends with these two girls and closer to one than the other but I hang with both and at times we all hang together with other people. the one hates the other for no real reason and the one Im closer to doesnt know why she is hated they use to be friends. Its not over some guy or me why are they like this?

2007-01-22 05:38:25 · 5 answers · asked by SONNY_D 2

be really honest and don't lie

2007-01-22 05:37:04 · 14 answers · asked by Sarah Martinez 3

2007-01-22 05:36:06 · 6 answers · asked by Elizabeth M 1