I have serious mood swing issues. I fight with my boyfriend every day because the littlest things he does pisses me off! To name some examples, I get mad if he doesn't call me when he's supposed to (even if he's off by like 2 minutes), I get angry if he doesn't send/buy me flowers at least once a month... just stupid stuff!! I sreiously flip on him all the time, and he usually takes it because he says he loves me and accepts me for who i am, but i want to change for him. what is wrong with me? is anyone else like this?
2007-01-22 05:38:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to bro731856:
Actually i DID get everything i wanted growing up
2007-01-22 05:54:56 · update #1
you're not psycho,,, you're just a spoiled princess b*tch. guess we will see you on the show Bridezilla's someday, when you finally find a benefactor of milqtoast nerd that will marry you.
2007-01-22 05:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by Chazz Drizzler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If these are really mood swings and not something you can control (have you tried NOT getting mad and being a little more easy going about this stuff?), then you should see a psychiatrist IMMEDIATELY. You need to be on mood stabilizer like Lamictal and maybe even an anti-depressant. This isn't normal behavior and you need to find out how to stop it as soon as possible.
You should also ask yourself WHY you are flipping out so easy. If you don't get help, your bf will probably eventually get tired of being treated like that, so you should do something before you start losing friends.
2007-01-22 13:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am like that too. I can't help it come home from work in a good mood but then I will go to get a cig and I just bought the pack the night before and he has smoked the whole pack that pisses me off or him not saying hi but did you get cigs irritates the hell out of me. I have come to accept that I am either not happy with my bf or I need to take a break from him until I am happy. You cannot make someone else happy until you are happy. Try taking a walk to calm down or clear your head before talking to him or do something relaxing before talking to him. You might be better asking him to leave you alone for a 10-15 minute break when you get home from work to give you time to wind down.
2007-01-22 13:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're either extremely immature and horribly annoying and need to grow up, or you have some kind of a hormonal imbalance. Probably both.
Are you saying you don't have the ability to control what words come out of your own mouth??
I don't think your boyfriend takes if because he loves you, he takes it because he's weak and unhealthy.
2007-01-22 13:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have bin this same person before, but it was coz the guy took all my shyt. it was like even if my problem was with some one else,i would call him and shout at him for no reason or i would find some reason.(like a stress buster of sorts).and may be your also a bit insecure,and he allows you to nag, so you go on and on doing it. basically you need to be with a guy who would straighten you out and take none of your rubbish. that way you'll value your current bf a lot and you'll stop nagging him.. take it easy
2007-01-22 13:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your self-centered, selfish,uncaring about how it hurts him,don't give a damn attitude toward him. Your spoiled, all you care about is yourself. ungrateful for haveing such a good man. you want eveything, to be the way you want it. You must not trust him. You feel you need to control him. You feel you need to be superior to him. you feel you need to be in control, of others lives. Or its just because you never got what you wanted growing up. Or you just didn't care what happened, as long as it wasn't to you. need i say more? If so i will., but i need to add this: If you aren't careful you will lose him before you get him.
2007-01-22 13:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People, please be sensitive with this one! No, it doesn't sound to me as though you're 'psycho', but ask yourself a few questions: Could there be something in your relationship with him or something about yourself you're insecure about? Are there unresolved issues in past relationships? You're willing to change, that's a great start, and from there with the right guidance and counseling you both can work through this.
2007-01-22 13:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by Keith P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some mood-swing medicine ... prozak maybe?
Get help girl, you don't want to ruin your relationship because of your mood issue.
2007-01-22 13:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by Nicegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
practical tip:
daily meditate for maybe 5-10 minutes,
after 10-15 days you will realize change in your attitude
2007-01-22 13:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by sanjay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My x was like that and notice I said x you should change your ways before he decides to leave you we can take alot but eventually we will get fed up.
2007-01-22 13:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by It Co$t To Be Around The Bo$$ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋