Say ... you're both 24 ... and she had only slept with her ex (they were dating for 5 yrs before they broke up).
Do you get scared? ... what do you feel or think? ... Do you think there must be something wrong with her? ... or are you happy because she's faithful? ...
2007-01-22 05:38:49 · 27 answers · asked by Nicegal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd call her monogamous, and there's nothing wrong with that!
Were you-- I mean, was she supposed to be sleeping around? Would that make me feel better? No. I would feel honored that I would meet her obviously high standards, if she was even considering me for her second partner.
People do or don't do things for different reasons. It shouldn't have a bearing on the present relationship.
2007-01-22 05:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by gamblin man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've dated virgins, strippers, and I've dated girls who's slept with 60+ guys.
I always wonder why so few, if its 1 or none, sometimes wonder if they are telling the truth, but it is not really a concern.
Your explanation would certainly make me feel more comfortable.
If I was gonna be your lucky next boyfriend, I'd love to know that you even asked this question online before you talked to me about it. I'd think that it was sweet.
Good luck in your new romance, he's lucky to have a girl as concerned with what he thinks as you.
2007-01-22 05:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by badbadboy6979 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone's past means nothing right now. What was done in the past needs to be left in the past.
If I met up with a girl that only slept with one guy I'd consider it a blessing and above all how true she was to her ex and if I could only hope to have a small fragment of that love, I'd accept it with honors.
2007-01-22 05:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the guys I hang out with say that they'd like a virgin more than a girl with mileage, and most of them are about the age of 24. And they, too, haven't slept with many girls. Faithfulness is more important than sexual experience and skill.
"Only" one man? That's a great number!
2007-01-22 05:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy because she's faithful.
Who would want a girl thats slept with hundreds of guys?
2007-01-22 05:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might not have the experience but she is faithful and loving so i really dont care that she was with one person. Plus only being with on person you know that the chance of catching an std is beyond low. good luck and dont worry he will not care.
2007-01-22 05:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most men will be happy that you are not a 'ho'. I know I would be cool, but with a bit of "hmmm I wonder if she will be boring/frigid/conservative"? But that is just me. I enjoy a woman who is not afraid to have fun and get a little wet/messy/dirty/sticky.....
Are you? If yes, then one was great. It is my job to make it better.
2007-01-22 05:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by Shane O'Rion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm female, but from what I've heard over the years men like the inexperienced women, they like yes women, and even sometimes they like a ready-made family, they like women who know what they want (doesn't matter if you've had one or many men) but they want you to be faithful to them.
2007-01-22 05:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is great you dont want a virgin b.c she will have no idea what to do, but if you get someone who hasnt had a ton of partners you know she might be more open to try thigns and be exciting.
2007-01-22 05:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that at all. It means that she must only share herself with someone she truly cares for. That is awesome, and to be honest, a very attractive trait to have.
2007-01-22 05:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by JC N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋