Ok im 17 and i have a 10 month old daughter! what do guys think about dating girls with a kid and those of you that think its wierd why is it sooo wierd??????
2007-01-22 05:43:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sad to say that most guys around that age don't want to be with a young lady with a child because it breaks into their chilling time with there friends. They also don't want the responsibilities of dealing with a child that's not theres. Most guys these days don't even want to own up to the responsibilities of dealing with their own kids.
I wouldn't have a problem with dating a lady with kids at all, I've done it already. I don't see it as weird, I see it as a chance to help raise a child so you know that he/she has all the positive influences to grow up and prosper into a respectable adult in our ever changing world.
In closing. The little bundle of joy comes along as a package, accept it or leave it. good luck in your search.
Diablõ @};-
2007-01-22 05:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Diablõ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....I'm 47 and I don't know the last time I dated someone without a kid. At 17, yea some dudes will probably be scared off...but don't worry about it...the right guy will come along. Besides...with a ten month old you should be more concerned with raising the child than whether you'll date or not...
2007-01-22 05:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by dj 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dated a mommy for the first time last summer. I had never done it before and I didn't have a problem with her having a child. The child seemed fine around me and had lots of fun. I think however she didn't seem to realize that I don't have any experience dating someone with kids so she took a few things harshly.
Have some patience with a guy that is willing to try. He not only has to deal with you now, he has to get approval of how he treats your child. It's a little nerve racking.
2007-01-22 05:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ben B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its wierd, if you care about the person your dating whats the big deal. I date a girl with a kid, well now she isnt really a kid, but she was!
2007-01-22 05:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely date a girl with a kid, so long as she took care of her kid. Seeing someone care for their child is a great thing, and I would have no problem at all dating someone like that.
2007-01-22 05:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by JC N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋