Singles & Dating - 22 January 2007

I'm closer to 30 than 20
Never been on a date
Never had anyone who said they "liked" me
Have no friends that are guys

I consider myself an intelligent person. I have been told that I am intimidating, but seriously, does that stop EVERY SINGLE GUY from approaching me? I'm not ugly. I'm not mean.

I don't open up to a person until I know them well. In high school I was known as a feminist.

I'm just worried that these are qualities that guys are turned off by. I will not change who I am, however, and I like these qualities.

I don't "flirt", per say. I feel fake when I flirt because it's just not me.

HELP!

2007-01-22 15:25:00 · 14 answers · asked by Yasuko 3

List the top three things you notice first about a person...

2007-01-22 15:24:00 · 8 answers · asked by saucykittykatt 1

ive have a friend over the intrent, we call, im, and flirt with each other..she sent me a pic yesterday, i was expecting to be just avrage looking but she so really pretty..now im kinda nervous to call her and everything..help please

2007-01-22 15:23:30 · 12 answers · asked by rocker4sure28 1

Please be respectful.

2007-01-22 15:22:57 · 11 answers · asked by legalizit_21 2

2007-01-22 15:22:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is you ultimate romance fantasy the dream of your life the one thing or the many things that a person could do to completely sweep ou off your feet...?

2007-01-22 15:21:20 · 12 answers · asked by erica g 1

"Does he like me?" Does she like me?" "What should i do?" Geez!! enough already! LOL

2007-01-22 15:20:27 · 16 answers · asked by Jeff 5

Long story shortened... Moved across state for a guy I was dating, into HIS apartment. 3 weeks later, in his drunken ignorance, he broke up with me. I can't move out for almost a month so here I am still :( Anyways, this is the thing--- Everytime I leave other then to work, he asks me where am I going. Yes, I am in HIS home, however, he is my EX, not my daddy, so I don't feel I need to tell him anything. I have asked him when he was sober if this is what he wants, and he says yes, so what is it? Sometimes I tell him, other times I just go. He doesn't want to work things out (there was no real reason for the break up), and frankly, I don't want to get back together because he isn't overall as nice as I was lead to beleive. I'm getting out ASAP but until then, what do I say when he asks me things like that???

2007-01-22 15:19:41 · 7 answers · asked by pryncessleah23 1

Despite repeatedly telling her what sort of guys I'm into now, this friend of mine just WILL NOT get the hint that my tastes in guys have changed since high school. I'm so tired of refusing all these guys 'she thinks will be so good for me' because my tastes and standards have changed. How do I finally convince her that I'm not like I was in high school anymore?

2007-01-22 15:18:27 · 5 answers · asked by Lori T 2

We have been together for 2.5 years and everything is really good. He treats me well and we have lots of fun together. I am 25 years old and he's 30. Please help because I am getting frustrated and starting to feel that I should not plan my life around someone who may never love me. What should I do and is this something other people have experienced?

2007-01-22 15:17:20 · 10 answers · asked by jen b 1

2007-01-22 15:17:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night my best friend (who is a girl) and I went to a concert that was several hours from out hometown so on our way back home she was sleepy and went to sleep in the car. While I was driving (I hope this doesn't sound weird) but I just looked at her sleeping.....and it just came to my mind that I love her so much.....I laid my hand on hers but she didnt wake up.....she didn't mention it.....how do i tell her !?

2007-01-22 15:17:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys, y do u guys hav 2 b sur 2 "prove" urself 2 a girl ( either sum1 u like or who ur alredy goin out w/?)

im only askin this cuz my bf is-well, a "prover" ...?

2007-01-22 15:16:00 · 1 answers · asked by Boingo&Fuzzy 1

me n this guy were dating 4 about 7 mths, but now he's really busy n so am i, but we would still like 2 hang out, but the timing isnt good. well, i care about him so much n i tell him all the time. he's shutting everybody out right now, so he's not even talking to his bestfriend. i just send him a little text msg every now n then trying to encourage him telling him everything's gonna be okay n that i miss him. do u think it'll help to uplift his spirits, or do u think it's nothing 2 him right now?

2007-01-22 15:15:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

She dumped me more than two weeks ago. Called me a week after I stopped all contact. She has been calling me since then periodically. We had good conversations but I asked to meet up twice, both times she denied me saying she was busy. I stopped asking but she won't stop calling. Is she keeping me on the back burner? Does she want a friend? I don't know what the hell is going on. I don't call though. I got denied twice and I was always told that if a girl likes you she will make time to see you. Is she confused? Does she like someone else or is she trying to make me work for her? Need some help.....I have no idea what is going on....I won't call anymore but I know she will call me, she has called when she was drunk too. What do I do if I like the girl. I am afraid if I ask to get back together and push it, she will run (if she is confused and wants her space). Will I ever know?

2007-01-22 15:14:12 · 7 answers · asked by D 1

GIRLS AND GUYS PLEASE HELP.
Okay, I am sixteen years old, and the girl I like is fifteen. I like her a lot, and I am quite sure she likes me back from the various signs she gives me. She is rather shy, but in the last two weeks or so she has been opening up a lot more, and initiating conversations more. She also likes it when I touch her. She told me 2 "feel her arm muscles", obviously in a sarcastic, flurty way. What does this mean. When I felt both her arms she smiled and blushed 2. I know this is good, but how good. What do you think she is feeling? and MOST IMPORTANTLY .. what are other ways I can make the move into touching her, or somehow get her to initiate it? It would be better If I just casually touched her. IDEAS? let me give u an example: covering her eyes and saying "guess who", touching her arm when saying "hello"...i know these but I really need to know more so I can use them in different situations. I need to have more ideas. PLEASE HELP.
thanks a billion in advance!

2007-01-22 15:13:33 · 5 answers · asked by Michael J 1

2007-01-22 15:11:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was dating this girl for month and we had fun together, never argued and talked everyday. to make a long story short now we're only friends bc her chaotic life got in the way. at first i didn't mind but now i really miss her. recently she asked me to 'give her space.' it's been 5 days..should i text her and say hi this week? how many more days should I wait? should i act disinterested or tell her about my other dates to get her interest back? ladies your opinions are greatly appreciated thanks.

2007-01-22 15:11:31 · 9 answers · asked by Jay 1

im a single gal and ive never felt more content and happy. i feel more focused on my goals and im more confident. am i selfish?

2007-01-22 15:11:29 · 14 answers · asked by bandi 2

There was a girl, i met before summer break. I got really close to her, really close. We went through fights and not talking to eachother.

I ditched her at Sounds of Underground and got drunk with my friend, we got over that fight. After this day I was in the hospital we realized we loved eachother.

One day, i just moved to my dads...we never came in contact again, ever. I want to contact her, but I can't...

She was my perfect girl. I recently got a new gf, my aunt met her, she said "you aren't in love with her are you? i don't think you'll ever love anyone as much as that one girl.."

That got me thinking...i love the girl, i love her. She's just perfect for me, my double. We can't live without eachother...

i don't know what to do...

2007-01-22 15:10:05 · 7 answers · asked by Rain. 6

My boyfriend is begging me 2 give him a b*** j**, but that just seems so nasty! i like him but that's just gross. but i really dont want him 2 stop liking me and i'm afriad if i dont do this he'll get mad and wont want me anymore. i'd hate 2 loose him. and i dont wanna get a disease in my mouth! ewwww he says he cant b infected cuz he's never had any sexual contact whatsoever w/ anyone and none of his family members have an STD, but u can never b sure. how do i just say no 2 a BJ without him hating me? please help!

2007-01-22 15:09:35 · 40 answers · asked by alli 2

I asked a girl out at work awhile ago. She didn't want to go out with me. Okay, I can live with that. So now I ignore her. She's been pretty unfriendly to me since then by throwing smart-*** condescending comments (but occasiionally looks with interested glares...weird). I asked why she dislikes me and she told me I was too cocky (she also didn't like my "cocky" walk (wtf?). Why does it bother her if I'm unintentionally "cocky"? Is she acting like a little girl who teases people they like or just being a spoiled brat seeking attention? How can I resolve this situation @ a workplace?

2007-01-22 15:07:49 · 28 answers · asked by str8trisor 2

I found him on Yahoo Personals would like to find if he has a yahoo account

2007-01-22 15:05:16 · 4 answers · asked by Kat 1

I have heard men say they want a sweet nice girl when they settle down but they don't really know how to relate to one is this true are they destined to be with women who manipulate them rather than a woman who would appreciate them for who they are? Do men really fall more for looks than personality?

2007-01-22 15:01:43 · 19 answers · asked by java348 2

ya so i got in a nasty moto-x crash trying to do a triple jump and fell...and ive been feeling like a load of crap. and me and this guy were flirting and we went riding and to laguna for the weekend together and it felt like it was going to be something more then ehen we went riding nd i got in this crash he freaked out, got worried and called to check on me a lot but then now he basically ignores me...i give up....so any guys want to just chat or anything? 18/f ...lame i know. but i need some one to cheer me up.

2007-01-22 15:00:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is his problem? my friend and i went to chilis for dinner and i flirted w/our waiter the whole night. when he gave me my reciept back he wrote his number on it saying "bye cutie call me" so i texted him we text back and forth for awhile, next day i called him he was at work was suppose to call me when he got off but never did... then i saw him at work when we went up there for drinks then we started texting again but that was it...and today i tried calling him..no answer...wth is his problem? Should i just leave the boy alone? why would he give me his number to begin with if he isn't even going to talk?

2007-01-22 15:00:08 · 17 answers · asked by Lauren_Ann20 5

I told him if we were not in love after 5 yrs, its pretty much me being used for sex and I didnt want to engage in that kind of a relationship. We were in the car coming home from dinner when he asked me if I would like to watch a porn video with him. Does he think I am stupid or what?

2007-01-22 14:58:18 · 15 answers · asked by happydawg 6

im sick of being the one who does everything first. and im sick of waiting to see if he will. but when he does make a move hes very good. but its weeks before he does it again. theres no lovey dovey in between. its like hes just want to have sex and thats it. i need more romance. ive talked to him before about this and im sick of not being romantic. what is really going on. we've been dating for 2 yrs and its seems like hes not emotinally available.

2007-01-22 14:58:06 · 25 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

this kid is interested in me but i like him as a friend what should i do?

2007-01-22 14:57:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I Know that sounds bad, he's not all that bad.. but I want him to remember this year, and I don't know how to remind him nicely. without rubbing it in his face that he forgot the last two years. I don't expect gifts, I just want it to be aknowledged.

2007-01-22 14:57:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous