Despite repeatedly telling her what sort of guys I'm into now, this friend of mine just WILL NOT get the hint that my tastes in guys have changed since high school. I'm so tired of refusing all these guys 'she thinks will be so good for me' because my tastes and standards have changed. How do I finally convince her that I'm not like I was in high school anymore?
2007-01-22 15:18:27 · 5 answers · asked by Lori T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pick out a guy that meets your standards now, and show her. Seeing is believing.
2007-01-22 15:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by ballow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting.......my good friend(was anyway) had these guys she wanted to hook me up with as well. In fact, in her mind any future wedding of mine was to take place in her back yard and no where else. Well I never did go out with any of her intended but as soon as I started dating a gentleman that I wanted to.....she dumped me like a hot potato.....her excuse......I had no time for her anymore. And the kicker here is that we are both in our forties. Seems as though I could date.......as long as it was on HER terms. Well needless to say we have not spoken in a long long time. I'll be damed if I'm going to be another one on her pawns to boss around......
2007-01-22 15:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her the type of guys that you're into. If she SEES it she can't deny it. Even take her out for a double date to see you with that type of person, if she still can't picture it!
2007-01-22 15:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to tell her nicely. Be blunt. Say this, "STOP FIXING ME UP WITH ALL THESE LOSER @$$HOLES!!!!" You don't owe her an explanation.
That way it's not a hint.
2007-01-22 15:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋